i had some control issues with what we will say is my ex now but today he called and apologized and told me it would never happen again...its been a week since we split and i do miss him but i dont want to be with a control freak...i dont know whether to trust him or not...is it worth it to take another chance to go back and hope that it doesnt happen again?
2007-11-17 13:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by wynona m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should move on
2007-11-17 13:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take some time apart? I mean what is the rush, if you are mint to be together than time will only make your love stronger.
Also take the time to understand why he is so controlling in the first place. If he is a control freak, why would you want to be controlled when your a grown woman?
Just let things cool off before you make a final decision. Good Luck!
2007-11-17 21:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was the one & only time it happened...then yes, give him another chance - just be up front and tell him if it ever happens again there will be NO OTHER CHANCES.
But, if the control issue has been there for a while and you've told him how you felt but it continued...then,no...let him go, he isn't about to change.
2007-11-17 21:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by rabilac2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People never really change. They remain inherently the same. Once a control freak, always a control freak. The only one who is the boss of you is you.
2007-11-17 22:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, don't write, don't send a fax or an e.mail. Leave him alone! Put the ball in his court. Don't answer the phone when he calls for several weeks. It will be hard for you to do this but in the end you may get a surprise. May get!
2007-11-17 21:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Yner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen again....if it is his nature to be a control freak that won't change.
2007-11-17 21:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad fact is you need to realize that he will not change. No matter what you say or do, he is just like that.
You also need to realize that you deserve so much better.
Good luck.
2007-11-17 21:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not good that he is controling..you shuld just move an..and forget him. I know its hard but sometimes it takes time. He has issues..and its not your problem..its his. If you forgive him..he is going to be that way again.
2007-11-17 21:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure try it again but take it slow... be careful with him... dont let him be too controlling I had one of those and it is a horrible experience you will end up getting trapped... but good luck hun.. take it slowww i mean it lol
2007-11-17 21:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust him
2007-11-17 21:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋