The problem is we've got a brilliant friendship otherwise and I'm afraid I destroyed it. What should I do? I can't really say I don't love her, and I can't claim it was my brother or something. Please, help me - FAST!
2007-11-15 15:40:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I actually texted her, than I called her, than I emailed her. I was so wasted I didn't have the faintest clue what was happening. I can't really claim I don't remember it.
Damn.
2007-11-15 15:48:36 · update #1
Hey, you're drunk. See how she reacts first, because she might like you right back. But if your comment puts on the defensive, just say you were a little drunk, and that you love like all your close friends in life. When you spoke with her, you were a little out of your head, and apologize if she took it the wrong way. We all heard a song, seen a movie, a girl, even a night sky when we are drunk and thought it was the most beautiful thing ever. Then the next day we wake up and realize those things are nice, but they are not as great as we thought they were the night before.
Relax, and play it, like its no big deal. Telling someone you love them, shouldn't end a relationship. That's what we hate for.
2007-11-15 15:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax! You were drunk and sloppy affectionate, lots of guys get this way.
You can either play it up, down, or not at all.
You could make a joke of it, pick up a big bobbly junky ring that's too grotesque and to be taken seriously, like with a cartoon character or something, and drop to one knee the next time you get together and propose. She'll bust a gut and you'll both be laughing at how sloppy you get when drunk.
Or you could forget it and leave her knowing you care.
Or you could just be honest and apologize for being overly emotional. Tell her your cat/dog... understood when you declared your undying love for them, could she too?
Or you could say that you were telling the truth, that you do love her, as a friend. That would be the one I'd go with, but then again I tell all my closest friends that I love them, because I do.
2007-11-15 15:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... I think you should tell her how you really feel.. being drunk, i'm guessing you meant it? Sober thoughts turn into drunk words. I of all people know this. If you really DO love her, tell her. Don't take it back, but talk about it. if you guys are really that good of friends you will move on from where you are. She will let you know how she feels and if its meant to be, it will be. Hopefully you are both mature enough to handle it and keep the friendship you have originally and it may even make it stronger. good luck !
2007-11-15 15:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by hellooooquestion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't understand what to tell you. you ought to truly think of roughly it for your self and notice in case you have thoughts for this woman. even nevertheless, in the two case, you ought to ask for forgiveness to her and say which you have been under the impact of alcohol and did no longer mean any of it because of the fact the two a-it quite exchange into only the alcohol conversing or b-you quite did mean it...yet she has a boyfriend so which you would be able to no longer bypass after her now because of the fact it is not alright to come again between 2 people who're satisfied at the same time.
2016-10-16 22:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by staude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you got yourself in quite a dilema. Well you were drunk blame it on the booze say you were feeling kind of frisky and loving and the booze was talking and that you do love her as a friend. Thats to save your friendship if you want to get closer to her say the booze went a little far on saying you lover her but that u have to admit that you have taken a liking to her. other than that blow it off and pretend it never happened.... more details are needed
2007-11-15 15:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fess up and say you were drunk. Say you were sorry if you said anything crazy.
Every one has had a time when they were a little out of control. Solid friendships can weather things like this.
2007-11-15 15:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by 1 2 3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. If she really believes that you actually LOVE her, thats silly. Tell her you really do care about her, like a sister, or however it is you feel. No biggie you were drunk.
2007-11-15 15:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well............What did she say, do or react after you told her?
Don't back out of your feelings...or what you said, blaming it on being drunk is the LAMEST excuse in he world.
Keep that brilliant friendship and tell her again how you feel.
Your self respect will be intact!!!!!!
Enhance your scrote....level with her...get it over with and see what happens...or go on......
2007-11-15 15:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by riverrat15666 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
was she drunk too? maybe she doesnt even remember. if she does remember you should be honest and just tell her you were wasted and that you love the friendship you have with her and you dont want it to change. hopefully she;ll understand. idont know what other advice to give.
2007-11-15 15:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, first off u shouldnt be getting drunk, but its ur life, u can ruin it if u want sry no offense, but rly u shouldnt. umm well tell her u rly do like her and u want to be more than just freinds and that u rly want to get to know her better to c if it would work out good as a bf gf relationship.
2007-11-15 15:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋