I was looking at peoples responses to questions about breaking up with a guy without hurtuing him.Some guy wrote have a threesome with a really hot girl someone way more beautiful.......? Could it really be that easy? is that how guys r? if you really loved a girl or at least thought you did how would that effect you,would you start thinking you need to see other girls, think u can do better etc.???? i'm really considering this, i really dont want to hurt him and just want to be friends.....
2007-11-15 16:06:00 · 23 answers · asked by pinklove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that easy.
Where are you going to find someone way more beautiful than yourself and talk her into a threesome?
Even if you managed to set it up the way more beautiful girl would have to want your boyfriend for this to work. If you don't want him why would a way more beautiful girl want him.
If I was him I would stay with you because you could talk beautiful women into having sex with him.
I think the threesome idea would work better if you invited another man instead of another woman. That would be a lot easier to find too.
Maybe you should just tell him it's over and let him deal with his feelings. Then you won't get into anything you may regret later.
I've been dumped before. It hurts for a while but you get over it. It's part of life. Face up to it.
The sooner you tell him the sooner he can get over it and find his own way more beautiful girl.
2007-11-15 16:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....dear lord! you offering to have a threesome with another hot girl would probebly turn him on even more. Thats like a guys dream. You would be feeding the fire. It nice that you would be willing to do that for him though just to not hurt his feelings. He's a guy though he needs to be able to take the truth like a man. Also keep in mind that no guy on this earth that is strait wants to be friends with an attractive girl. They will always want more. U can tell him to not take it personally and just say lets step it down a knotch.
2007-11-16 00:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Initar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I'm inclined to ALWAYS encourage a girl to go for a threesome under any circumstances.
However, honestly, that's about the dumbest thing I've ever heard as far as a means to initiate a break-up :p
2007-11-16 00:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by lmn78744 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, theres no easy way to Dump someone! What are you thinking?
Theres only, putting them down lightly (which will hurt them) or dropping them from a height (which will still hurt them).
It seems to me this guy cant take you to where you want to be in your life at this point (?), you sound like you have a kind heart (?) and that's why you don't want to hurt him. But like i said, at the end of the day its going to hurt!
But you need to think about your self and where you want to go.
All the best!
2007-11-16 00:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kankukoryu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is not crazy. Frankly, unless I knew how old you were, I really couldn't give you good advice, because at different ages, the concept of "love" is different. All things being equal, though, it is probably better to make a clean break of it rather than hope that you will simply drift apart without anyone being hurt.
2007-11-16 00:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesome?? Sounds more like a Porno Movie than a relationship.
Get the jerk a movie and go find a Real Man in his heart. Not a suck-up idiot to his friends.
2007-11-16 00:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by gd2cook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should always have a threesome with hot girls but, in the middle of it you and the other girl make fun of the size of his penis and then just the two of you get it on.
2007-11-16 00:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever the guy is who said that, hes a retard, don't listen to him. it's hard to break up with someone, especially without anyone getting hurt. the best way to do it would be to tell him you just want to be friends. don't tell him anything that isnt true, just tell him you think hes a really good friend and you dont wish to be more than that anymore.
2007-11-16 00:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up with someone without hurting them, consider this, just tell him the truth........if you are interested in dating other people then tell him..........the worse way to hurt someone is to lie to them or do something out of the ordinary to make things worse........so many people are looking at the biggest lie or they are thinking if they start an argument maybe the other person will end it instead...........stay friends with this person>>>JUST TELL THE TRUTH!!!!!
2007-11-16 00:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by keith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your gonna do that, make yourself look like a fool, just to break up with someone...then what are you gonna say, you cheated on me so were're done. he'll like you more, how many guys have girls that would do that. Just say you have things you need to sort out, for now...and need to be alone....Are you really that ...hmmmm....i don't know...plus...that answer came from a guy...go figure. If you are so scared to just break it off, what are you gonna do when the big things in life needs to be taken care of...he'll get over it....
2007-11-16 00:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋