Unfortunately, they are two different persons.
She is also married but unhappy, I am unhappy too.
Accepts real and realistic answers please.
2007-11-15 16:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really feel that this woman is your soulmate, you should be with her, not your wife. You need to divorce your wife and your soulmate needs to divorce her husband so you guys can be together. Do this as soon as possible so you can set your wife free, along with your soulmate's husband. I know it sounds easier said than done, but that's the best thing you can do. Now you just have to find the courage to do it.
2007-11-15 16:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The two choices I am sure you have already thought of is divorce for both parties or cut off all contact and make the marriages work. Unfortunately, there isn't a happy medium. Someone is going to end up hurt. Clean break is easier than a long, drawn out affair. You just have to decide which is best for you.
2007-11-15 16:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am in the same spot as you. Unfortunately i dont have the answers to your question. I have learned over time to just deal with everything one day at a time. As much as i want one thing, there are other people involved and its their feelings that take priority over mine. It hurts and its very painful. What you have to do is decide if its worth it. When you make that decision then things will be alot clearer to you. Sometimes life has a funny way of working out and in the end it will.....hope this helps.
2007-11-16 04:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by unbroken29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probalby thought your wife was your soulmate when you married her. If you ditch her for this other chic the feeling will wear off too. Stop cheating on your wife (you can cheat on somebody emotionally), and hold steadfast to the vows you took.
2007-11-15 16:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You run far away from your adulterous affair. You must honor your wedding vows. Let your own wife intoxicate you. Adultery is a sin that comes with dire consequences. You will pay them.
Also jealous spouses can be lethal.
2007-11-15 16:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep them in separate compartments, totally separate. Though you'll likely stay with your respective spouses, continue your fling. It will be positive in the long-run for both of you--trust me.
And ignore these up-tight, nay-sayers here. Follow your hearts--both of them.
2007-11-15 17:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
I know it's not the answer your looking for but, you try to make things the best they can be with your wife and bid the other adieu.
You will answer for it in the end if you do the wrong thing.
Best Wishes
.
2007-11-15 16:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why did you get married? The grass is not always greener on the other side!
2007-11-15 16:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bree 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side.
Stay in your own yard. If you want greener grass, then water your lawn.
2007-11-15 16:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
you need to just get a devorce and get with the one you want to be with i know it is easeyer said than done
2007-11-15 16:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋