Should i tell him i no longer want him?

Question

I fell in love wit this guy i work wit, & 4 a short period i tot we were dating until i felt he really ddnt care 4 me as i did 4 him, so i called t off.He neva asked me y or tried 2 get bac wit me, so i assumed d dissatisfaction was mutual.Den over time, we bcame friends, but close enof friends dat d rest of d office bgan suspectn dat we were dating again even doe we werent.I still had loads of feelins 4 him, but i'd begun 2 date other guys & as a friend i told him abt t.Howeva, pple wld com 2 me 2 tell him he was enaged 2 some1, i'd ask him abt t & he'd deny t.Until suddenly out of d blues, he admitted dat indeed he was getting married.I was very hurt cos he'd lied 2 me ova & ova, but i 4gave him & we remained friends. Den, all of a sudden wen i'd tease him abt his upcoming nuptials,he'd deny he was getting married.I was so confused.I sent him a text once tellin him dat honesty & consistency were d qualities i desire d most n friendship & invited him 2 tell me d truth abt his lovelife

he chose instead 2 joke abt it & wave it aside. I was very upset, cos i'd given him a benefit of doubt again & again, so he'd prove 2 me dat he's d decent guy i tot he was, but each time he fails me. So, i decided i no longer wanted him as a close friend. I dont trust him 2 b truthful. I think he's a liar & an unrepentant 1 at that, so I've put some distance btw us. However, i've havent said a word 2 him abt this decision. I just stay away 4rm him & discourage any of our usual intimate friend conversation. My conscience says if it's me, i'd like 2 know where i offended a friend, but i also feel that this guy has shown little regard 4 d one thing dat is very impt 2 me - honesty - y shld i give him more opportunity 2 lie some more 2 me? What do u think?

Answer 1

He is trying to keep you in the wings in case this one does not work out. Tell him to get lost.

Answer 2

you ended the relationship from the beginning ,, so why do you care if he was getting married or not unless you are having plans to drag him back to your life.

he's a man and you are pouring your self all over him why should he say NO.
and why would he be honest and frank to you. when in the first place he never cared about you!!!!!?

Answer 3

yikes!!! i lost you at the wedding!

*runs for the hillS*

Answer 4

yes if you dont love him , and have doubts tell him

Answer 5

it is better late than never

Answer 6

i couldnt even read your question cause you typed so horrible.