so theres this guy at work everytime he comes around me he talks to me and flirts with me and asked me for my number and keeeps saying lets get together , but he never freaking calls me!!! he even tells the other girls at work that he likes me and wnts to do something with me. hes supposed to be getting a divorce, is that whats holding him up maybe?
also ive just gotten out of a 4 year relationship i have a 2 and a half year old im 19 and hes in his 30s but we just get along so well and have so much in common and we're comfortable around each other i cant help but be interested
2007-11-15 20:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by momma4christopher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also since im really interested in him and hoping hat this might become at least some kind of a relationship i dont know how to make it work with my family though, well at my dad since i live with him but he doesnt think white and blacks should mix and the guy at work is black. it doesnt bother me at all . and my ex swears i would ruin my sons life if i ever got into a mixed relationshiip any advice would be nice cause this alreayd happened once at work expect the last guy i got with was 45 and he was married, he wasnt even getting divorced he ended up quiting and we broke it off
2007-11-15 20:10:04 · update #1
If your not divorced, your still married, until its official i wouldnt get into anything serious.
2007-11-15 20:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MARRIED means UNAVAILABLE - they should NOT even be a consideration - you do not know the TRUTH, and most likely will NEVER know exactly what they do when they go home. ANY married man who flirts around is a LIAR, an EGOTIST, and a USER. They are doing things they should NOT be doing - why even think they can even be TRUSTED to not do the same thing to YOU?
The ISSUE is, you are a Mother now - not some foot loose fancy free teen - you have to be responsible and act like an adult. What you do from now on will directly affect your child - don't teach him to tolerate liars and cheats and disrespect for marriage.
You CAN "help" being "interested". Are you saying you have no common sense? You do not know right from wrong? The guy flirts and you just cant resist no matter what?
Get yourself some good counseling - you are on a train going nowhere looking for a place to crash - hard.
2007-11-15 21:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be judgemental, but if your last relationship was with a 45 year old and you were what 15 I really think you should not jump into a serious relationship for some years. Get some experience with life and what is good for your self and your son. If you jump into another serious relationship before you have sorted yourself out you are dooming yourself to repeat your last mistake again and again - so back off, grow a bit older and sort out in your mind a solid basis for your future and progress from there.
2007-11-15 20:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is pathetic. the guy sees a 19-year-old mom and he can tell that you obviously can't keep your legs closed. He'll f*ck you once and never speak to you again, and until you show some goddamned sense you'll deserve 100% of it.
And it's not because he's black, it's because you're an idiot.
2007-11-15 20:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up drew peterson.. same story.. she was 19 and got married to him.. divorced his other wife.. nows she dead and his new wife(you) is missing.. dont be her.. stay away hes 30! ull regret it later
2007-11-15 20:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by SHADYd79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still married he would be cheating on his wife with you...which isn't fair to her or you.....Plus how do you trust someone that cheats on his wife!!!!
2007-11-15 21:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by shorty081101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S A LINE JUST TO GET WITH YOU, HE IS PROBABLY NOT GETTING DIVORCED
2007-11-15 20:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a creep.
Run,run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 20:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋