what should i do ?

Question

i been married for 3 years but me and my wife seperated shes in arizona and im in oregon we talking on getting back togethere and then 3 days latter she changes her mine what should i do ?

Answer 1

Move on, and seek counseling.

Answer 2

Pray alot and if you two are not meant to be together then you will feel and know.
She wants you because she is lonely or horney and feels vulnerable. It probably hurts your feelings that she is playing yo-yo with your feelings, right? Why wont she go to counceling with you? Three years is not a short or long time. Maybe go to a therapist on your own. It could help you not only find some of your faults you need to work on, but help you cope with your seperation. It will help you find the skills to help you talk to your wife with out feeling angry or accusing.
Hope everything works out.

Answer 3

distance is a *****. You could work on things if you were able to see each other in person . But trying to fix a relationship over the phone ain't gonna work. Each day your apart will cause you to drift farther away. As for the mind changing. She sees good & bad memories & is confused.

Answer 4

If you love her and you know in your heart that things can work with her get on the next plane out of oregon and go get her!

Answer 5

forget the user, move on
stop all contact, file for divorce

Answer 6

i think it `s better that you call her and say that you love her and shi is important 4u.
call her for several times.
iam sure if shi like u `will come back.

Answer 7

just talk to her...y she changed her mind? ask her..
if still she is interesed to stay with u than its fine..otherwise try to forget her..

Answer 8

diya is right.