reposting for more answers.
me and my gf have been going out for 9 months, and we both love each other alot. she cheated on me once early in our relationship, but she confessd to me in tears and i forgave her.
(or at least i think i did) . i try to forgive her, but i dont kno if i have.
she still sees the guy around and talks to him after i told her that id prefer her not talking to him at all. she says she knows and will try to stop talking to him, but she still does ocassionally , and i think its natural for me to get pisd off bout that.
i dont get pisd off at her, but i do get in a pisd off or anoyed mood.
any advice? its been 6 months or so since it hapend, and i still get frustrated at times, if u guys think i should just forget bout it, tell me how cuz i dont kno.
thx
2007-11-15 16:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by Danny ♣ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should leave her man. even if she doesnt cheat in the future, there wont be that trust between you and you will always be paranoid, and eventually the relationship will fail cause she will get tired of you not trusting her
2007-11-15 16:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you all live relatively close to each other chances are she 's going to run into him from time to time but if she's calling him or talking to him without telling you about it before someone else does then I would begin to wonder.It's easier to forgive than to forget...trust me ...I know.
2007-11-16 00:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Janell T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you chose to forgive her, then you have to let it go. If you can't trust her, then you have no chance for a good relationship. Let it go. Believe me, if she wants to do it again, there is nothing that you can do to stop her. Eventually she will get caught. If she wants to be faithful, you will see that too.
2007-11-16 01:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right to get mad if you told her not to talk to him she has no business talking to him but what i pick up on is that she likes to see you jealous it makes her believe you care about her but 2 can play that game talk to some pretty girls in front of her flirt a little bit that will stop her
2007-11-16 01:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by psychic.sylvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man but Once a cheater, always a cheater.
She should rather discard her self from that very guy.
2007-11-16 00:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by pikesh p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dunno about that once a cheater all ways a cheater but it does make it hard to trust her again.... but if she knows that it annoys you than she should stop talking to him.. if she loves you like you say she does than it wont be that hard for her to do... i dont know her so i cant really help you.. but you should talk to her and tell her how ya feel... she aint no suer hero she cant read minds or anything.. so talk to her....
2007-11-16 01:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. She's no good.
2007-11-16 00:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋