i am talking about loving your brother, sister, mother, father, and especially your children , no matter what they have done in the past and what they will do in the future????????
2007-11-15 17:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by hppy2b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its still around in some families...
in my family it DOES exists. i've disrespected my parents so many times and all the great stuff and i got pregnant in high school. my parents were going to send me to another country but couldnt because they loved me. they helped me even though i caused a big mess in the family. they even helped my husand (babys daddy) to finish high school and beyond. now, i am in college, my husband is in the military, we are now living a great life.
as for my husbands families eyes, when he got me pregnant, he was a screw up and i was a screw up. they kickd him out of the house because they didnt want to deal with the crap he will be in in the future. and now since my husband and i are living great, they turn to us for money and whatever else they need.
but hey, thats our family situation... everyone is different... and well thats my opinion on what happend to unconditional love...
2007-11-15 18:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by JustLikeKasci 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont imagine you're required to love your spouse and children in the experience that they are jerks. yet that does no longer recommend that you ought to hate them. in the experience that they are your spouse and children then they are element of your existence. How a lot of a section is as a lot as you. for instance, when you're married and/or out on your own, you may opt for now to not see them that commonly. reduce visits to at least one hour, or an occasional lunch. Even in basic terms sending a Birthday card as a replace of seeing them. If issues improve interior the destiny (human beings can replace, you already know!) then improve the time you enable with them.
2016-10-24 08:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family has unconditional love. There has been times thru the years that some of us didn't necessarily like what the other was doing, but we have always stuck by each other, and I feel that we always will. It is sad to see families fall apart from each other.
2007-11-15 18:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The unconditional love that you're giving maybe abused by the people you love because they knew that you're ready to sacrifice yourself just for them - thus, disregarding your feelings. If you spoiled them and showered them so much love, they would never realize that you need also to be reciprocated with love and attention.
2007-11-15 18:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by jmjm 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some family members are just Savages, period..
I've had ones I've helped for years with money, taking them places etc etc, and they stabbed me in the back, and I've never done anything to them, but Help, but when I could use help, they're no where to be found, I have strangers treat me better than family members.. tell them they're savages and disown them.
2007-11-15 18:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Its not like that in my family. Our only common factor is our DNA. Sadly not all families work for the best and for some of us its healthier to cut all ties. We can choose our friends but not our families.
2007-11-15 18:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
We should love family members, but we have matured enough to realize that not all of them deserve our love.
2007-11-15 19:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Human nature.....you can only get kicked so many times before you stop dealing with the problem and write them off.
2007-11-15 18:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That doesnt exist to me, when it comes to my family...they have a tendency to judge you when you do wrong. I plan to not make that same mistake when I have children.
2007-11-15 17:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋