This friend of mine who is married with kids was telling me his situation and had doubts about his masculinity. I mean don't get me wrong he is a rugged guy and all but sort of having doubts in his marriage and was less interested in sex with his wife. But he likes hanging out with his buddies more often each day and finds comfort in being with them. Could he be on the path to being gay?
2007-11-15 23:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he get hard off his wife? that is the test.
2007-11-15 23:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Johhny Doe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he is just out having a good time, and getting out of the house. Maybe when he is out with his friends he feels alive, and wants to have a good time. He should suggest his wife do the same. Trying to have any kind of life after having kids is hard, and if things are always busy at home then it's nice to go out and not have to worry about it for a few hours. Everybody needs me time, and maybe his me time is hanging with his friends. Doesn't mean he's gay.
2007-11-15 23:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Richard, not at all. Try and help your friend...he confided in you enough to tell you such a sensitive issue of his life and he expects you to help him. So here's what you do, organise them a romantic setup-not too romantic coz the idea is to help your friend to find some sort of arousal from his wife, there are many factors within a marriage that affect this...alcohol is good(every straight man gets turned on when drinking), candles are excellant for women and a meaningful gift. that is a recipe guaranteed to put back the spark in their love-life...don't jump to conclusions about your friends sexuality...and don't allow him to think that way either if he hasn't confirmed an attraction to men...
2007-11-15 23:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married, he's got kids. He's been the boyfriend, husband, and dad in this same relationship for years. He's just bored, he misses the excitement of chasing women, of having frivolous sex.
Since you're a good friend, offer to take the kids for a night. Let him have some alone time with his wife to rekindle their sex life. Once he remembers how it was he made the kids you are babysitting, he will be more interested in his wife.
2007-11-15 23:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by martinbras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he find his buddies sexually attractive? That is the question you should be asking him.
Chances are he is just unhappy with his wife and bored at home. Hanging with his buddies is like an escape to better times, where there are no worries and no responsibilities.
2007-11-15 23:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is wanting to be physically intimate with these guys, it may have more to do with his relationship with his wife. Are they happy, do they talk to each other, or do they fight or avoid each other. If life at home isn't all that great, it would make sense that he is more comfortable with his friends, where he isn't so guarded. It just happens that all his friends are male.
2007-11-15 23:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think there is a "path" to being gay; you either are or aren`t - It`s whether or not you accept how you feel about your own sexuality.
2007-11-15 23:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the path to being gay???? either you are or you aren't....you might not want to acknowledge your sexuality, but there is no "path" to homosexuality
2007-11-15 23:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He just grew out of the craze for girls. He just like those kinds of life.
2007-11-15 23:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Street Smart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋