So we used to im all the time..and then he disappeared for ages..figured it was just one of those online things..whatever..then he tells me he was in diabetic coma (hes diabetic)and thats why he didn't contact me..and he tells me all this worrying stuff about his health..so we email back and forth for a bit and then he drops off the planet again and I email him back that i am worried ..is he ok? wondered whether he had collapsed again..and nothing for days so I rung him cos he gave me his address and all his phone numbers ages ago..and I rung him and hes fine..just doing heaps of hospital tests and medicated and busy and he says he will be there all day sat and sun if i wanna im and he liked hearing my voice...but i am suspicious of him. Even tho hes been nothing but nice and lovely to me part of me thinks its all a load of shite and hes playing mind games with me. What do you think?
2007-11-15 21:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I felt kind of invasive ringing him too. I only did cos I was worried and he gave me his no. I am not gonna do it again.
2007-11-15 21:41:27 · update #1
I just thought..if he answers and he is ok..why would he let me worry like that? Unless he just does not give a toss..And why do i feel icky?
2007-11-15 21:44:23 · update #2
yes ...someone who makes you feel icky is not fun. What am i getting out of this? A whole load of worry and suspicion and feeling bad about myself. Perhaps I will be less available..
2007-11-15 21:48:51 · update #3
always follow your gut instinct,if you think something is wrong there very well maybe.Just keep your eye on him and his actions,ut if you think its getting increasingly wierd or suspicious then you might need to back away from the friendship and take a good hard look at it.And his weird actions and behavior towards you.
2007-11-15 21:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to get you all weepy and teary eyed over me, however I certainly not relatively had any pals unless I met some men and women online a couple years ago. I grew up living in the middle of nowhere, with no other youngsters around, and i did not go to tuition, so I certainly not interacted with kids except for as soon as per week at church. And whilst we had been all shut, we under no circumstances have been relatively "friends" unless about a 12 months in the past. I was continuously the butt of each shaggy dog story, and nobody was once my age (all 2 years younger or older) so i've normally been a loner. In 2006, I started a web based tuition, and that i met a whole bunch of men and women that I got to grasp really well. I nonetheless consider them my first acquaintances, they usually constantly will be my pals. It wasn't unless a few yr ago that all of the individuals I knew from church "matured" and we began placing out and doing extra things collectively, so now they are my acquaintances. And then there are all you guys i have on R&S :) I suppose of you all as my friends, and i like approaching solutions (might be a bit of too much hehe) And Catti is my bestest buddy ever, online or actual life :)
2016-08-06 07:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may or may not be true . try asking him some friendly questions about being in hospital and which one he goes to and which ward he goes on or went on . you might be able to ring the hospital and ask of find out if the ward exists .somehow.say that next time hes in and its so serious you may visit.ask questions about what it was like to be in a coma etc and then see if you think hes telling you a pack of lies or if its the truth .
in the end i think your gut instinct is always good to follow. sadly people do sometimes tell lies for a variety of reasons
2007-11-15 21:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say to go with your instinct...a woman's instinct is her best defence in life...we were given excellent intuition because we are not as strong as men....physically that is.
It sounds like he's either married or just weird..either way, if I were you I would "drop off the earth" too. Don't get in touch anymore,
2007-11-15 21:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to be. People aren't normal, especially with the internet. They could be playing all sorts of games. Keep your eyes open and be smart about it. You don't know the truth, especially online.
2007-11-15 21:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what - are you ever going to meet him - have you given him money.
Is he a friend ? or just an online contact - go look up the meaning of friend.
And yes be suspicious
2007-11-15 21:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne ahrRg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct it's usually a good idea. If part of you is sceptical about his sincerity then I'd stay away.
2007-11-15 21:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by quietgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like game playing to me.
2007-11-15 21:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd follow your instincts.
You may be wrong, but it's better to be safe than sorry.
The internet is an even more dangerous place than
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2007-11-15 21:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct, get away from him...
Trust me! It is not smart to talk to someone you dont know.
He could be being put in jail for all you know...
2007-11-15 21:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋