Where do I start, well i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years in May, Thinks aint been great but they been ok, She cheated on me at one point about 4 months into us dating, as far as i know she had sex, now she admited this to me very shortly befor we where due to go on holiday which I paid in full, so as I dint want to lose my money I put of ending it till after, and never did we got closer and closer.
Now I met somone who I like I spent a night with her and we kissed, so I told my gf yesterday I needed a break to think about mine and her relenship but not telling her about the new girl, i then went out with my mate and then the girl
I realy seem to like this girl am no child am 21 and my GF is only 16, this new girl is only a year younger than me, she seems like she likes me alot and I think theres a good chance it will work but I feel weird in my stomac like its turning over, Have I made the right choice last nite seemed so right now I am thinking I should talk to my
2007-11-15 22:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to add when i first met her she lied to me about her age and I am still 20, not 21 till Jan
2007-11-15 23:00:46 · update #1
gf is 17, in Feb
2007-11-15 23:01:07 · update #2
Please people were not telling me whos best suited to my age, are we, if she was 20 and i was 24 people would not be looking at it the same way they are now, I was an answer to my question not to be told my age gap
2007-11-15 23:45:44 · update #3
Due to her last nite beating the life out of my mates Girlfriend shes lost me for good thanks all for your replys
2007-11-17 01:42:14 · update #4
Well your girlfiend seems rather young. Its cruel that she cheated on you and you have to go through the hurt and pain. You deserve to be loved and not second best! She has being intimate with this other guy and only confessed later..what if she had caugh on std, the consequences are endless. Make her relaise that she can not go around humping guys, due to her stupid act it costs her being with you.
It makes one question does she really love you...if you truly love someone you wont want to do anything to hurt them right?
2007-11-15 23:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♠♥Mi$$vỜnDutch♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to split up. Do your over-young girlfriend a big favour and let her go (do it nicely though, don't just dump her. Remember her age and vulnerability, so be kind to her and you will always be a fantastic memory for her). She can then get on with her life and play the field and try out loads of boys which is what she should be doing. You've been holding her back from this for 2 years. You've also been holding yourself back for two years as well, because you should've been out there playing the field as well. Enjoy this new girlfriend but don't try settling down and nest-building with her for a few years yet. You've both got plenty of time. Enjoy your youth.
2007-11-15 23:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it probably seems right because it's new and fresh. There is no "baggage" (I really hate using that word) and since things are fresh, there's no negative history on trust issues.
That said, you should stick with the new one, if only due to the fact that she's closer to your age. If my daughter was 16 and dating a 21 year old, I wouldn't be too happy. In fact, her "boyfriend" would be dealing with me more than my daughter.
2007-11-15 22:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mike T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from your girlfriend, but don't jump right in with the new girl, you need to genuinely figure out what you want, without the influence of a new love interest.
2007-11-15 23:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about moving on then things are over with your GF so break it off. This will leave you clear to examine your option with your new lady.
If you think it us a go, then go for it. We are only young once, and there is nothing to lose.
2007-11-15 22:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Telf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend is 16 and you have been going out with her for 2 years. your 21.
maths don't work. your breaking the law. and you cannot write.
you are a moron.
2007-11-15 22:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by the gay bear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys do ..that's why you shouldn't just say okay to any guy that asks for it even if it seems like a long term relationship I'm sure there had to have been signs that he was a jerk...well is a jerk
2016-05-23 09:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have been with a 16 yeaqr old to begin with.
2007-11-15 23:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a complete idiot so you belong with the 16 year old.
2007-11-16 00:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your feelings 16 is too young for you any way
2007-11-15 23:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋