I'm 22 and my Gf is 21, living in USA.
The problem is that my Gf doesn't know how to wear decent clothes. Last week i had seen her with her friends ..she wearing just a string bikini. Again.. when we both went to see our parents she was just earing a small 'top' and bottom exposing her body too much!!!
I had already advised her thrice but she is asking what the problem is in exposing urself !.... she's a diehard fan of micros...
I also don't lik my girl showing her breasts b4 my friends. But still she is adamant about it.
2007-11-15 23:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by Omg !!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I envy you. (drool)
2007-11-15 23:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Bethuel 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Think about this... if you do get serious (maybe even married), what will your relationship be like 5 years down the road with her 'advertising' her body at inappropriate times. If she isn't willing to dress a bit differently to avoid embarrassing you, then there is a problem with the relationship.
She may be easy on your eyes now, but she'll be trouble on your heart later! I'd dump her before you get really hurt.
2007-11-16 07:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she feels that strongly about exposing herself you can't do much.
Tell her how you feel about the whole situation. Your parents thinks it's disrespectful. Your friends think she's eye candy and would love to do things to her cause of it. Tell her you don't mind her wearing things like that, but in certain situations its uncomfortable. If she continues then you may have to let her go. I know she has to be smoking hot for her to keep exposing herself like that, but don't fall for someone who doesn't have respect for others, let alone herself.
2007-11-16 07:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it unless it leads to cheating. It is probably a phase she will grow out of, try giving her lots of attention, usually that is why a girl will dress like that, she just wants some attention.
2007-11-16 07:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by glennwalker1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels confident wearing skimpy clothes thats fine if you don't like it move on. You cannot expect people to change, either you accept her as she is orif not then you need to find someone you are more comfortable with
2007-11-16 07:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's her business what she wears. If you don't like it, then leave her. Find yourself some prim and proper little mouse, and leave her to find someone who is less prudish than you are. She won't be waiting long. You'll be doing her a big favour.
2007-11-16 07:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
her minimal style is prob what attracted you to her in the first place so it contracdictory of you to now critise her for it now!
before your parents she should cover herself a little more...tell her that they are more conservative and that you would appreciate it if she dressed appropriately out of respect for them as your parents...if she has a problem with this then i think that she is selfish...
if she loves you then she should be willing to strike a compromise
2007-11-16 07:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u just don't want anyone else looking at her. shes only young once .put your jealousy aside and let her be young,if that bothers you too much maybe you should go out west and get one of them women still living in the 18th century.
2007-11-16 07:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If speaking to her didnt work ..then you also do the same thing what your gf does and ask her how does she feel....
Cheers
2007-11-16 07:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to her what she wears. If you don't like it, then leave her. It is none of your business to tell her what she needs to be wearing. Does she tell you how to dress?
2007-11-16 07:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trade her in for a maximum girlfriend...
2007-11-16 07:29:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋