He never lets me date other people, he tried to fight guys I go out with and tells them lies about me so they can break up with me. One time he came to trash the place I worked in, and told my boss I paid him to do it, and I got fired. What should I do? I don't really want to get him into trouble though,.
He always puts me down to and tells me i'm fat and ugly that no one else would want me.
2007-11-15 22:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to hit the road...
2007-11-15 22:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Skylar1983 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's stalking you. You better drop him or this will be a lifetime thing. The best thing to do is to completely stop all communications with him. Ignore him, refuse his phone calls. If need be, involve the police, especially if he gets violent with you. You think it's bad now, if you marry him, it'll only be worse. He's insecure, and this will just worsen as he gets older. Drop him like a hot potato. If you do talk to him, and he continues to tell you that you're fat and ugly (and I seriously doubt that you are), then tell him that you'll find someone else who'll appreciate you. A restraining order may be the best idea in this situation, don't worry about getting him in trouble, this guy is BAD NEWS. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-15 23:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you, your friends and kinfolk could desire to call the police. Get a restraining order against him. He sounds risky and should no longer be around your son. ensure you checklist that he hacked into your emails and if he threatens you, checklist it and take it to the police and function them record an first rate record. think of roughly getting a criminal expert too. finally, attempt telling him which you're no longer seeing this guy buddy of yours.. which you're merely associates. some adult males merely cant shelter seeing their ex's flow on. use warning nevertheless reason he ought to snap and do something undesirable..in no way meet him everywhere on my own.. consistently have a witness and be in a public place!
2016-10-02 11:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being too considerate. You don't want to get him in trouble!! HE'S RUINING YOUR LIFE. He got you fired from your job and is causing problems with your social life. Please don't let this man treat you that way, you need to be strong and take control of your own life. The minute you stand up to him & let him know your not interested in ever being with him, or taking his rubbish any more, he'll back off. If he doesn't, go to the police!!
2007-11-15 23:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by sparkle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to let him, he will continue to do it. You need to put your foot down. Call the police and make a stalking report. Then file for a restraining order, unless you are secretly enjoying this foolishness..
2007-11-15 23:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is a restraining order considered getting him in trouble?? thats what i would do. if he is doing that stuff hes obviously not over you. or have an older brother cousin or uncle set him straight if they are understanding about the situation. im pretty sure if dad stepped in your ex would say some things to your dad u wouldn't want him to.
2007-11-15 23:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by gumby 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go to the police station and get a restraining order against him, the police will give him a copy of it and every time he bothers you call the police 911 and he will get arrested, if he keeps doing it after that he will go to jail for stalking, if you were my daughter I'd take care of it myself, he wouldn't bother you again after i was through with him,
2007-11-15 23:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by akadave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋