Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

At school (I'm in 8th grade) nobody hangs around with me. I am always alone, nobody ever comes up to talk to me and even if I come up to talk to anybody they just answer so shortly that I feel snubbed. This girl in my class HATES me because (in her own words) I'm so childish, when I am like one of the serious people in my class. That is not a reason to hate anybody, is it? Because they are childish? I'm so lonely, and I've been in this school for three years, and not one friend in those three long years. I'm getting fed up. I got really upset in fourth grade, once, when my.........;-( ........ my best friend died. She was the sweetest friend ever. And I had only her as a friend, and I vowed to myself that I would make more friends so that my grief and sorrow and loneliness would diminish. But nobody's giving me a chance. What should I do to make friends with the people I really want to have as friends?

Please help me. I'm so confused!!

2007-11-19 22:58:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when a girl says shes in a relationship, but it's complicated

2007-11-19 22:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

Im finding it hard at the mo and find im think 24/7 over little things and getting down. I see every guy who talks to me as a potential bf even my male friends the feelings go away after a while but my current friend im finding hard as i everytime i see him my heart jumps a beat and its driving me nuts . The thing is ive never fancied him before and i think its just cause hes paying me some attention

2007-11-19 22:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by pansydansy123 1 in Friends

my friend told me he always loved me, i didnt believe it as he got a gf... i wouldnt get sucked in, but sadly i am in love wth him
and he knows it

he always told me he was unhappy for a long time, but recently
he 'did it' with his gf for the first time...


he changed dramatically and was hypo very happy, very flirty and all over me.. i didnt tolerate that lol

and now hes distancing himself away from me, saying he 'needs to put another in my place'

why the wierd behaviour???

was he in love with his gf all along, or he feels guilty?

2007-11-19 22:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 22:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 22:54:19 · 5 answers · asked by atheer h 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone - I know it's a stupid question..
but I'm now single since 1 year - before I was in a relationship for about 7 years.. the break up was hard and it took quite a long time to get over it.. I can understand that I cannot fall in love right after so much pain.. but now I really wish I could find someone to love and get love again.. but can't imagine that this is possible.. tell me your little lovestory - was there a point in your life were you thought this could not happen and than it happened?? Cheers & thx 4 answers

2007-11-19 22:54:10 · 2 answers · asked by xy 2 in Singles & Dating

something was missing!

was it you ???

beautiful aroma of olbas oil, and hot wood, a cold shower in between and some essential massage - to keep things interesting while you wait for the sands of time to say your 15 mins is up !!! up ? omg, rest for 15 and then do it again...

M. 3sixes

2007-11-19 22:51:13 · 11 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

You are going to Law School, he's working as a cable installer...never went or plans to go to college. Each person's family has $ yet his might have a little more.

He say's...If I buy a house when we are married and then we break up I'll give you what *I* feel is FAIR.I feel if you want to sign a Prenup on what you had b4 the marriage then that'd be fine but when getting stuff together during the marriage I feel both of us should get 1/2 if we were to split.

Any tips?What do you feel?Yes,why? No,why?

I'll sign his because I love him and I don't see us breaking up but you never know now days.

2007-11-19 22:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He always wants to have his way even when its not the best for us. He also keeps suspecting me and never listens to my explanations. Sometimes i feel i have absolutely no say in this relationship. Please tell me how to tackel this. How can i make him listen to me and understand what is best for us.

2007-11-19 22:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by Adeline Cecilia 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf has just rang me at work and told me dat my longterm boyfriend was caught feeling up some slag at a party we went 2 on friday. i dont know what 2 do, i feel sick 2 ma stomach dat sum1 i love and thought loved me could do this. he promised dat he wud never hurt me. i just want to curl up and cry

2007-11-19 22:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 18, still a virgin, never had a real boyfriend and ive gotten really close to this much older guy from work (he's 41). He's been around the block many a time and im not stupid enough to believe that we could have anythin real (even though he says he wants to be with me long term, i dont want any kind of relationship with him). He knows im...um....lacking in experience (!!) and says he wants to show me all he knows (which is a hell of a lot!!) but im not sure. Im so tempted and it might as well be wiv someone who knows what theyre doin but im just not sure........any and all advice welcome.....please help!!

2007-11-19 22:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

This 25 y/o guy invites a girl he went on 3 dates with to his housewarming party, and he asks her to crash over, but she chooses to leave. He has been pursuing her and impressing her for about 3 weeks and asked her to become his gf (too soon). His intention is just after sex (a lot of red flags) but she's not the type to sleep around. He thinks by making her his gf, she will more likely to give it up. The night before the party, he was so positive that she will crash over and sleep with him, that he already prepared an exit strategy after he has sex with her. He started telling her that he will soon be fired from his job and even asked her why she is still hanging out with him since he has nothing to offer her. At the housewarming, his plan to sleep with her failed and she only made out with him when he dropped her off. Will he give up pursuing her or stick around to make her his gf? How long will he stick around for if she never gives it up to him?

2007-11-19 22:43:04 · 3 answers · asked by angelgirly333 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you sleep with someone who penis is small and on top of it don’t know how to use it???????????

2007-11-19 22:42:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its just its everywhere and i don't know where to look
people have one night stand and don't even care about the effect they leave behind
Makes me a tad dissapionted to be honest
soo why have things changed so much?
xxxxxxxxxx

2007-11-19 22:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Singles & Dating

I will be going to my bf parents house on Thanksgiving Day. We get along great and I really love them. Here is the dilema...They are both very heavy smokers...we are not. My bf has asthma and I am very sensitive to cigarette smoke, so when we normally visit with them we only stay an hour or two because after that we simply cant take the smokey environment any longer. Asking them not to smoke is out of the question. It is their home and they should be able to do as they please there. We would hate to leave after such a short time especially on a holiday. Any ideas on what to do? Thanks

2007-11-19 22:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by Renee 3 in Family

what would you think of a guy who listens to this music. hes 20
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Dedicate Fool For You Anyway by Foreigner (on tour)

Dedicate Thunder Road by Bruce Springsteen (on tour)
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Dedicate Heart Of Gold by Neil Young (on tour)

Dedicate Hotel California by Eagles

Dedicate Bad Company by Bad Company

Dedicate Heartbreaker (original version) by Grand Funk Railroad

Dedicate Busy Being Fabulous (full song) by Eagles

Dedicate Have You Ever Seen The Rain? by Creedence Clearwater Revival

Dedicate Everything I Own by Bread

2007-11-19 22:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by 5050 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 22:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You must be tired you've been running through my mind all day.
=P

2007-11-19 22:38:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People KEEP saying this to me. Even men, even good friends of mine who are men. It makes me unhappy and paranoid and worried that I'm going to get stamped all over by men all the time. I am trying not to believe this. But why do so many people say it? There must be some truth in it? I hope not!

2007-11-19 22:34:29 · 20 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

I understand it's not always possible but if you are in the same city... is it not a good idea to stay together

2007-11-19 22:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Gulab 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 22:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1) On my day off work ( I work 6 days a week) I do not want to be nagged into putting book shelves up etc etc.
2) I do not want the house to smell like an ashtray, If you must smoke. Do not smoke in the house.
3) I keep myself in very good shape by going to the gym and exercising, So I look attractive to you. Can you do the same
4) Can we both agree that the car has AT LEAST a quarter of a tank of petrol in at ALL times.
5) I reserve the right to go around to your mums house if I feel tired or stressed.

2007-11-19 22:24:06 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She likes different movies and music than I do, but we share the same religion and she is pretty much conservative like me. She is a doctor and I work in liberal arts. She is the king of girl that is eager to learn new things.
I have quit of looking for a perfect girl becuase that is impossible to find. I feel like the fact that she's got different hobbies and interests can be good, since the relationship wont get boring. We can bring new things one to another. Do you agree?

2007-11-19 22:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Bentral 2 in Singles & Dating

which ever guy is even nice to me i develop a crush and its ruining relationships or forming them can u help. I am lonely at mo so i think thats why its worse

2007-11-19 22:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately a big sex issue has arisen between my boyfriend and I.
We have been together a year he is 32, I am 27.
He couldn't get enough of me in the past but lately my boyfriend just wants to sleep all the time and is never horny. Thing is he won't even try to get in the mood - am not used to that, every guy I have been with is fairly easy to warm up and when I am not in the mood I at least try and get in the mood.
The rejection is ruining my self esteem. On the flipside however he is clearly very comfortable with me, spends alot of time with me, always cooks me nice meals etc. We are thinking of moving in together next year but the sex thing is getting me down. I have asked him about it, he insists he's not bored but just tired all the time lately. Also he has NEVER been adventourous in bed so suggestions of spicing things up are a no no - it is very clinical to him. What can I do? I need to feel desired.

2007-11-19 22:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-19 22:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by pandurang j 3 in Friends

How to start a new life witout my ex boy,how to move on without pain inside..i know maybe its stupid but i realy need your help!!!!

2007-11-19 22:14:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 22:13:19 · 11 answers · asked by sobujtrees 2 in Singles & Dating

It's not good, but it's not that bad. 10 points to the first I listened to...

2007-11-19 22:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by Rasta 3 in Other - Family & Relationships