how 2 fall in love?

Question

Hey everyone - I know it's a stupid question..
but I'm now single since 1 year - before I was in a relationship for about 7 years.. the break up was hard and it took quite a long time to get over it.. I can understand that I cannot fall in love right after so much pain.. but now I really wish I could find someone to love and get love again.. but can't imagine that this is possible.. tell me your little lovestory - was there a point in your life were you thought this could not happen and than it happened?? Cheers & thx 4 answers

Answer 1

I was in a serious relationship for 4 years, the only girl I'd ever been with! When the relationship was over it took me a year to get over it. I used to work in an off licence and I would meet lots of women but none of them seemed right. Then one day a girl walked in and she just took my breath away after a few weeks I asked her out and we have been together ever since! I never think about my ex and can't imagine ever being with someone else!
My point is just live your life, have fun and be yourself and eventually someone will walk in and take your breath away!!!
GOOD LUCK :P

Answer 2

Don't patrinize people about their "little" lovestories for one. Two your not going to fall in love again until you can FEEL for someone as or more intensly then you felt for the ex that made you feel this way. WHICH is DEPENDENT ON YOU! Thats right, your the one. Also, like most religious individuals you can always find christ, or god, or allah or something, that tends to be a nice quick fix. That aside, you can just do as I, and face the fact that as you mature in live, find more meaning, and become more aware of whats going on, your compasidy to love increases, the problems FINDING people worth that love, not have the love to share per-say......