Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

I feel in love with this girl during summer of 2007 around mid June. She obvisiouly loved me and I saw it in her eyes. I would always love to talk to her. Then 10pm on 6/30 we declared our love for each other and I told her i will be there for her. Next day she wants to break up my heart was broke i couldn't concentrate at work and i saw her at work and didn't know what to say. My whole life was changed, Later that week she got with some other guy and they got together on my birthday. It was a real killer for me and I was "shot" from life...i didn't know what to do. The problem now, is that i still have feelings for this girl we talk, text, etc. but i still have feelings for her. I might sound silly after what she did to me, but I still love her and don't know what to do about it or where to start from it?

Girls it would be a great help if you can help on this one....you too gentlemen, what do you think i should do?

2007-11-19 16:51:05 · 1 answers · asked by kareem a 1 in Singles & Dating

i have school tommorrow and they are having a party and they have one twice a fricken week and they HAVE to ******* have the music blasted..
id dont know what to do.

2007-11-19 16:50:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-19 16:50:01 · 6 answers · asked by bree 88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any advice of things I should do BEFORE becoming a mom.

Anything before that I can't do later? Thanks.

2007-11-19 16:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend rarely shows emotion and I always feel like its him not caring...but he says he cares. I just feel like sometime he doesnt care.

2007-11-19 16:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by Kan Kan 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband flirts? we always argue abt that, everybody tells me i should flirt in front of him & let him feel the pain. but i cant do that, i cant do that. i have to face God one day. when we try to talk abt it, i get blamed all the time. & we end up fighting. divorce is not an option.

2007-11-19 16:44:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says its a male thing and he will always come home to me, but when we go anywhere he eyeballs other women I guess it would not bother me if it was once and a while but its all the time. He says all men do it and it doesnt mean anything, I say it rude and disrespectful to me, guys and girls what do you think

2007-11-19 16:44:36 · 30 answers · asked by pixiemom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know different opinons, even from people who dislike the idea of mixed race relationships.

2007-11-19 16:43:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get back at a guy? I thought he loved me. We were together for 5 months. I lost my Virginity for him then he left me. What do I do?

2007-11-19 16:43:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so emotionaly hurt I'm feel really bad right now I feel like nobody loves or want to be bothered whith me not even my family as a Child and for a long time I have always been spoild well at least by my dad now my dad won't even talk to me half the time it is so sad I feel I've lost my mother also not do my siblings seem to care I have health issues so I need some family and friend love but I'm not getting it I feel like crying right now and I have no friends because I was a major B!%@$ when I was young and lost all my friend I've made my bed now I have to lye in it but my family should at least still be there for me it hurts I am 30 could this mean I just need to grow up but I would love to have friends I'm so lonely

2007-11-19 16:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Tanisha 2 in Friends

2007-11-19 16:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by the evil1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting my whole back tattoed. 1 they will always have my back, 2nd they will always be behind me and pushing me foward, and 3rd no matter where I am I will always have them. But should I?

2007-11-19 16:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Salvation 2 in Family

all i did was accuse him of having an affair because he tricked his mom into getting him a cell phone he didn't need and he was hiding it even to charge. he was coming home from the first job he held more than a couple of weeks for the last 3 and a half years and he said that is the reasonhe left because i accused him of an affair. all i ever did was to keep our family together and try to make him happy as he was mean and angry all the time, he didn't even bathe. i got some kind of fungal infection that would not go away but its gone now that hes gone. hes been gone over a month and even expected me to continue to carry him and pay for his car insurance. please someone, give me some kind of answer for this behavior. i have been told repeatedly no one could figure out why i was with him as he hasn''t a lick of class, looks, and lies all the time. but my self esteem is smashed.

2007-11-19 16:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Never was such a fool when I was a young girl.

2007-11-19 16:35:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he gets upset when i try to talk to him about how he is flirting with other women, he tells me as long as i'm not sleeping with anyone you have nothing to worry about, he starts blaming me that i have mental problems, and i need to get some help? we argue a lot and he tries to get out of the situation and starts telling me that i have anger issues, and seek some help. don't know how to stop him and not think all the time what is he doing right now? who is he talking to right now?i cant live like this. divorce is not an option.

2007-11-19 16:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently i hv gone out of my way to help one acquintance, only to find out that she was a mean person who treated her staff in an inhumanely manner. I was really surprised cos she was ever so smiling and cheerful outwardly. She was 9 months pregnant and her baby was due anytime. Yet in her condition, she cld treat others so mean. I really failed to understand. She is young and very successful in business. I also found out that she was cheating her staff, customers and the authorities in making more money. I really felt disturbed to know that some people cld put a front. She has asked me to help her again and I cldnt say no to her cos of her condition.

2007-11-19 16:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by Sal SR 4 in Friends

When I get nervous I tend to chatter and fill empty space. I feel uncomfortable sitting at a table and just staring at others. How do I aviod being a "chatterbox"? This works well with other chatterboxes, but I feel weird in situations where the majority do not talk!

2007-11-19 16:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by newwave74 2 in Singles & Dating

Does being involved with a guy who has a pre-nuptial agreement with his previous partner legal, i mean, was it considered an adultery? what if the present couple decided to marry, is it possible?

2007-11-19 16:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by myriad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please, no foolish answers, as this is a serious question. Thank you.

I hadn't seen one of the guys I used to chill with a lot for years and now that everything's falling into place again, old feelings are coming up.

The problem is, while I was gone, he got his heart broken by a girl. We got drunk for his birthday not too long ago and I found him in the kitchen practically crying. After that he came back out and we danced and he was holding my hand and feeling up my leg. I have no idea what to make of that, but I moved away knowing he was only thinking of her.

But, every so often, he'll get all quiet and I know he still thinks of her a lot, and I'm fine with that (he knows it took me 3 years to get over my last relationship).

I'm really starting to like him a lot, but he's not the type of guy to come out and say what he's feeling.

In this situation, guys, what's a big "no" and what should I do/say to him? I just really need some advice.

2007-11-19 16:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shouldn't these people serve WILD TURKEY LIQUOR AND BOONESFARM at the reception since it's you know a thanksgiving weekend? It's in the back woods - fits right in right. everyone's bringing their own seating, like, law chair or fold up chair. less to clean up.

2007-11-19 16:26:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Was seeing this guy long distance, and all of a sudden he says he's not sure if he can handle this long distance, plus he wants to just take time out for himself. He sounded so stressed out the last time we spoke. He says that he doesnt want to hurt me and wants to be 100% sure about this before he sees me again. Also says he needs about 2-3 wks worth of time and space. Is that normal? Im worried about him but i dont want to pester him by calling/texting/email. What should i do?

2007-11-19 16:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by living p 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with an ex-boyfriend of mine for years. We always loved eachother, but for various reasons it just never worked out. Well, one of his best friends started to take an interest in me. Now he's aggressively persuing me. I'm really interested in him, but now the ex is really showing an interest in me too! I don't want to lose my ex's friendship. I really want to date the new guy. The ex is so pissed at the his friend that he won't even talk to him. The new guy won't go any further with me until he can assure he has his friend back... I'm stuck in the middle and the only thing I cant do is try and make nicey nice. To top it off, the new guy won't see me because he doesn't want to hurt his friend, but he wants me to continue buttering up my ex so that he will "somehow" be all right with this. The way I see it, there will never be any way my he will be all right with it!!! Uggghh... Anyone have a similar story in not so many words??? I'd love to hear about it...

2007-11-19 16:19:53 · 3 answers · asked by Cami 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 16:15:04 · 2 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i met this great guy through my ex, we ended up hitting it off, he told me he was leaving town soon within a week to go out of town for his job...so we saw eachother a few times befor he left and we had the greatest sex, even after that things did not end up wierd we where able to stay friends, and he kept in touch with me all the months he was out of town, now he is coming back in december for good back to cali...and we can't wait to see each other, but during the time he was gone i dated and made up my mind not to have sex unless its with someone serious, and i have been doing great at keeping my legs closed...now that he's coming back how can i tell him i want to take things slow and not jump to having sex though we both can't wait to see eachother when we have already gone out of order and already done the deed...its not that i dont want to have sex with him, i don't want to be so available in that sense and sell myself short, thank god he ended up being a nice guy...

2007-11-19 16:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by Insidious 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever lost anyone to a tragedy? How do you deal with your grief and sadness for your loved one?

2007-11-19 16:12:39 · 27 answers · asked by Yeah. 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

To dinner,but I feel very uncomfortable with him beening their since my husband will be out of town. And should I tell my husband that my ex will be there or not, because my husband gets so jealous.

2007-11-19 16:12:30 · 23 answers · asked by saw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are in our mid 20's and have been married for 6 yrs. VERY interesting in keeping things HOT!

If your wife mentioned a few fetish fantasies would you get freaked out... like asphyxiation, bondage etc...

(keep in mind wife and mother of his kids has ALWAYS been known as the good girl type)

2007-11-19 16:07:35 · 20 answers · asked by ☮ Sprεε 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He has spent 2 grand on the lottery that i know about, he hid it for a while & we have never kept secrets in our 6 yrs. together. We have only actually been married since last Jan., but we have only slept together 1 time in5 mo. What's going on with him? What can I do?

2007-11-19 16:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this guy I really like. It is hard though because I am in grade 12 and he is in college. I only get to talk to him about once a week but it better then never. So I talked to him for 2 hours last night. His status line on facebook is
(Name here) is secretly interested.
I am hoping he means me! lol.
So here what has happened between us.
~It was cold outside while we where shooting a movie so we huddled under a blanket and he put his arm around my waist.
~I told him I want a night to just watch musicals and he said "lets plan one".
~We are going to go see a movie even though my friend and her boyfriend will there as well.
~He said he hopes we get to work togther again soon.
~When he looks me in the eye he always has a smile (which makes you melt)
Do you think he may like me? If you need to know anything else let me know.

2007-11-19 16:05:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does love feel?
Is it good or bad?
How come i have a funny feeling in my stomach?
I ust got a real bf that lives close but i cant explain if its love or just a crush i mean when i see him its like omg but then again we're going out is it love or a crush?
Is it weird to date youre best friend?
????

2007-11-19 15:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by nikkie moore 2 in Singles & Dating