Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

I can't stand my ******* step mother. My father and I use too be able to go too baseball games and football games, whenever we wanted to, but ever since he met and married " the *****" me and him can't hang out like we used too. If I ask to go to a game with him, he says that his wife has to go? why? Plus, she follows him where ever he goes. If he goes to the kitchen, she follows, if he goes upstairs too his bedroom, she follows. She never seems too leave him alone. I know that it's him that should what things too change, but I don't see that happening. I wish that she would pack her stuff up and walk out of are lives. My father use too be a happy, fun guy too hang out with, and smoke weed with, but she changed him. he doesn't seem to notice and I an afraid too point out the truth too him...she's needy and contolling. The man is 46 years old and can't hang out with his friends, because she doesn't like them. HOW CAN I BREAK THEM UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-19 18:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Family

2007-11-19 18:41:03 · 7 answers · asked by Kalai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ran away from home at 16 or any other teenage year?

2007-11-19 18:40:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to spice up our relationship but i am not sure what i should do...

2007-11-19 18:36:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I used to like this boy and he liked me too but then I thought he liked this other girl and he wouldnt admit it (even though 2 of his best friends confirmed it) and he still wont. And its even worse now. I said a few hurtful things but only something like "I hate you" and "I hope you die with ___" coz i was so upset. At the time he was in another country (I msn'd and emailed him) and now hes back at school and giving me a hard time. He says all these hurtful things to me like "Oh look what the cat brought in" and he said "I hope you die with ____ oh wait you couldn't even get ANYONE!" and one of his friends (which i thought was alright was laughing too yet he still talks to me, which i find so horrible since he really doesnt care that his friends hurting me) and I shouldnt had said those things but eveyrone says stuff when their angry. Im afraid of going to school now (even though it only started yesterday) but its so bad I cant tell anyone to help stop it!

2007-11-19 18:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents recently divorced, and a couple of weeks later, it was parents evening at my school. I took my mum with me, and all was well until she met my Graphics teacher.
Anyway, skip the lovey dovey part, he's now MOVING IN with us and they are GETTING MARRIED in 2008.
Why oh why did it have to be my graphics teacher?
I really need some tips on how to cope with a teacher living with us, for what seems permanent...

2007-11-19 18:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by 1992Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, every guy I have been with has been a dud. I'll screw him whenever he wants me too, cuz I have to admit, I like it too, but then I just feel like he doesn't appreciate me after we have sex. If I was screwing you, would you appreciate me?

2007-11-19 18:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anna N 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me a real life story of your past. My Grandperants are not living. They pass away 2 years ago.

2007-11-19 18:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, i was just sitting here after i cut my hair into a pageboy, that i am 32 yrs old suddenly and i have no clue what i am supposed to look like, clothes and attitude......well, i have an apt, a car,. a job, a longtime relationship, that;s fine, a kid i look after - that is not mine- a nest egg..but i am not a drinker or a partyer...i have no f*****g clue what i am to do now with my self........help.

2007-11-19 18:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we try so hard and sacrafice so much for our children, my husband and I have a 3 and 1 year old together and he has a 9 year old that only comes on visits, I have been in her life since she was 1 year old. we try so hard but there is never a thankyou, Is this just how it is being a parent, was I once this way. and how do you dicipline differently being the step mom they are all girls. and I know that I need to let my stepdaughters dad kinda do the diciplin there but what about when he is not here. I have the responsibility to all 3 and it is not fare to the younger ones to get in touble for things and not the 9 year old she is my kid too. kinda I have been an important person in her life since she was one.

2007-11-19 18:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by Amie 2 in Family

there is this kid and he is my friend and all,but durring science class we watch videos and he always comes to sit next to me.
now he started talking to me on mspace every time im on.do you think he likes me?[if you did this would you be doing it because you liked the girl***he also used an excuse of home work to get my number

2007-11-19 18:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has anger problems and they were pretty bad. Now I'm 17 and i got to bugging him too much about getting me a new computer so he completely went beserk and pretty much tossed everything in my room. What I don't get is that Im about 5 inches taller than him, can probably stop him or more likely sock him yet when he goes crazy I start crying and shivering? It's like he has this unknown power controlling me that well gives me more fear than ever. Why or what pshycological thing causes this?

I've been having problems with my father throughout my whole life. I don't really have a relationship and I could really care less about him ( hes only been maybe 1% part of my life in seeing me. Somedays he doesnt even say a word to me) had it not been my dependance on his income. But usually when I cry, I think about how I see families on TV or see how my friend reacts with his dad and I just feel this emptyness. I don't know what to do..

2007-11-19 18:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Panda WafflesZilla 3 in Family

i have noticed that younger men get attracted to me

2007-11-19 18:25:17 · 16 answers · asked by secret 2 in Singles & Dating

Any tips to figure out if a guy is running a game on you - if he says and does all the right things - is that fishy? Especially if he has nothing to lose and the chic has her life together?? What questions could I ask or what boobie trap could I set to see if he will trip up???

2007-11-19 18:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 18:23:38 · 5 answers · asked by abanti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes they have freedom but do they have equality? they work, have to take care of the kids, clean up the house and not to mention the errands that need to be done on a daily basis. Men on the other hand, come from work and sit on their butts and watch ESPN and nag about all kind of the things that should be done to improve things around the house while the American woman has to do the majority of the things. So my point is this, women are free to do what they want in America but men are the ones who have the upper hand! its sad how American women have freedom but with a big price to pay!

2007-11-19 18:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As usual, there are few misunderstanding between my wife and mother. How can I manage to maintain both the relationship always better? Please advice friends.

2007-11-19 18:21:33 · 2 answers · asked by The Best 3 in Family

I found this website about 6 months ago that you answer questions about the person and they give you ideas for what to give the person. If anyone knows the name can you tell me.

2007-11-19 18:19:30 · 2 answers · asked by shadylane1992 3 in Family

First off im a girl and hes a guy.

I joined swimming this year and the coach I train with is HOT and hes pretty cool, he just graduated from college this year so Id say hes about 21 or 22 and Im 18 so hes only 2-3 years older. Oh and this is a school team although he DOES NOT teach or work at my school.

Now would it be wrong to flirt with him? Or kinda hint at the fact I have a crush on him?

And would it be illegal if anything were to happen even though I am 18?

2007-11-19 18:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by RebelPrincess 6 in Singles & Dating

I often feel so run down in my relationship. I keep asking my wife for help and she never listens.

I feel that I do almost everything in the relationship. I
- earn 80% of the income in a high stress high reward environment
- get the kids ready for school / daycare daily, and take them
- change all of the baby's diapers except for maybe 2-4 changes on the weekend
- do all the manly chores like taking out the trash, recycling and so on
- do my own laundry and ironing
- drive everyone everywhere

My wife
- lost our first house because she spends more than she earns - though the only family expense she pays is daycare
- does not drive, refuses to get a drivers licence because she doesn't like to drive in this "big" city
- is obsessed with television and spends 3-4 hours a night watching it
- does not have patience with our daughter and frequently shouts at her. We then get into big arguements about it because I feel for the poor girl who just wants her mom to play with

2007-11-19 18:14:42 · 19 answers · asked by CHARLES R 6 in Marriage & Divorce

known her for two weeks we have kissed, she writes me notes on how she likes me but,all of a sudden she tells me i think were going to fast and she wants to take it slow...so i wanna know what is happening does she still like me or does he want to see other ppl what should i do???

2007-11-19 18:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by Dios 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel extremely embarassed bc I have never did it , but how do you do it? I want to with my bf but am afraid that he will hate it because im so unexperienced. Is this a turnoff? I need tips on how to do it. thanks.

2007-11-19 18:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that we really like each other and have been tlaking a lot, wound up druinking and got frisky on the web cam, that was a week ago. he was avoidng me, so two days after i blew up about him avoidng him cussin him outin offline msgs. he still has not responded so i just sent him an apolgoy letter tellin him i love him. i must have sentr him 100 offline msgs cussin him out and pusheed the buzz button a whole bunch of times and pushed a million holloween audibles. do i seem desparate . do u think i will hear from him again?

2007-11-19 18:11:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 18:05:13 · 19 answers · asked by roseanne g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

think about it,

If a girl graduates HS a virgin, shes modest and holy and special and amazing and should be admired.

however if a boy does it, then hes the most pathetic wast of human trash on the planet. If a boy doesn't do it by the time hes 14 then he probably never will and he will be forever branded a loser for the rest of his life.

But boyfriends pressure girls into sex.

WHY DO YOU THINK WE DO BECAUSE WE PRESSURE EACH OTHER INTO GETTING PUSSY.

2007-11-19 18:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by spikesdummy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

could i have ur advices?
what would u do?

2007-11-19 18:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by hydaya 1 in Family

She told me this a few times without me asking her anything about it! Is she trying to tell me something? She is a virgin and is pretty young actually. Psycology experts....??

2007-11-19 17:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by AriS 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm visiting family and they're around my age (18). But I'm not exactly sure what relationship I have with them.

2007-11-19 17:56:24 · 10 answers · asked by osfan092589 2 in Family

hi guys,my husband says he wish to live in his fantasy world as he thinks that fantasy is better than reality .why is that so?

2007-11-19 17:50:15 · 10 answers · asked by nazia m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and later when reminded says its not important anymore.

2007-11-19 17:47:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce