I used to like this boy and he liked me too but then I thought he liked this other girl and he wouldnt admit it (even though 2 of his best friends confirmed it) and he still wont. And its even worse now. I said a few hurtful things but only something like "I hate you" and "I hope you die with ___" coz i was so upset. At the time he was in another country (I msn'd and emailed him) and now hes back at school and giving me a hard time. He says all these hurtful things to me like "Oh look what the cat brought in" and he said "I hope you die with ____ oh wait you couldn't even get ANYONE!" and one of his friends (which i thought was alright was laughing too yet he still talks to me, which i find so horrible since he really doesnt care that his friends hurting me) and I shouldnt had said those things but eveyrone says stuff when their angry. Im afraid of going to school now (even though it only started yesterday) but its so bad I cant tell anyone to help stop it!
2007-11-19 18:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I cant because when anyone tells on him he gets told off and everything but he would still pick on them and annoy them! I just get so sad and scared of whats the next mean thing that comes out of his mouth. I also cant tell my mum or anything because my teacher will tell him off but he will probably mention what I said to him, and I hate getting into trouble! He wouldnt really include what the whole story is (he wouldnt say about how he used to like me) but Im still afraid that I will get in trouble then the whole class will know and then everyone will probably talk about me or about whats happened. I dont know what I can do because i reaaaally dont think hes going to stop!
2007-11-19 18:39:17 · update #1
Omg Thanks, but you dont know him!
Hes anything BUT mature!!!
And he doesnt like me-He hates me!
He hates me so much-thats why hes saying all this stuff that is so mean!
2007-11-19 18:53:22 · update #2
Oh dear. Well, Here's a little story that happened to me:
Once, There was a girl ( Lets call her " Amy") who hated me, and I hated her back. We were SWORN enimies.
After a long period of time, I spread a really , really, mean rumor about her. I didn't know it would hurt her so much, she was in tears, crying and sobbing. I can honestly say, I didn't know how to act. After a few days, of being tourmented by her friends, I got the guts to say I was sorry, and I didnt mean to do it. I said it would never happen again, and she believed me.
From that day on, " Amy" became one of my friends. I could tell her anything and she could tell me anything. We are now really,really good friends.
So from my little story, I think say sorry to your " friend" . The tormenting will stop immedetly. Remember, you can't run away from your problems, or like I say, when you fall of your horse, get back on again!
Good Luck!
2007-11-19 20:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... try the apology route.
He probably does, or did have, a crush on you and that is why he is especially mean to you. I've seen this type of thing before.
Either way, this guy is a bully and he hangs out with bullies.
You can try smart-mouthing them back... the occasional good put-down can do a lot. They don't like it when you stand up for yourself, but they like it even less when you stand up and dish it out back to them.
Other than that, try to stay in a completely different part of the place... out of touch. If he goes on the offensive, or stalks you, you have grounds to file a formal complaint... you can get him kicked out of school.
2007-11-20 03:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to the boy on the side. Tell him that you owe him an apology for what you said. Tell him that you hope that he will be mature enough to forgive you.
2007-11-20 02:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are through with him and have no feelings blackmail him, do something really bad or embarrassing if you can. Like anything even if it means embarassing yourself. I dont know cause it dosent sound like hes going to stop. That is such a shame! Hes so stupid for bein mean to u!
2007-11-20 02:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he likes you? Is he saying it in a mean way? or sarcastically? if not and it contuies, report it to the princble, teacher adult, etc.
2007-11-20 02:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him....pretend that he's just an idiot saying meaningless thing...he'll get tired and quit bothering you.....
2007-11-20 02:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by sita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋