Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

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2007-11-19 15:53:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 have more kids with me then he changes and starts questioning me sayin i cant talk 2 boys no more other wise hes gunna kill them hes never hurt me before but he says that hes like this because his ex cheated on him but my ex did aswell and i dont say that im gonna kill him he talks 2 girls and they all call him sexy but if a boy calls me sexy he goes mad and says im gonna cheat i dunno what 2 do should i stay with him???

2007-11-19 15:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If there has always been love and fidelity....just something that tried to come between them and put a strain on their relationship for a period of time.....can a couple ever put that period of time so far behind them and become truly happy again if they both want for it to? It is too long of a story to put down here...it would require a book. It just was an intense period of time where some one from one of their past was trying everything in their power to break up the couple and one was stressed out and didn't know what to do, and the other was mad and felt threatened by it.....if both have decided not to feed on it any more and choose to let it go...can the distance that was wedged inbetween them ever be gapped. No flirting or reciprocation was involved at all.

2007-11-19 15:52:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking recently to this guy I work with. We have only been talking over emails for about 2-3 days, before this I never knew he even worked there.
He has made it very obvious that he likes me.
Today, through email, I mentioned that I was just outside and how it was freezing outside. His response was "Nipples hard?".
I just responded and said "Im not answering that :) "
At first I thought it was kind of strange he would say that, even though I KNEW he was playing around - but we are just getting to know each other and he is trying to impress me, why on earth would the thought of saying that, even in a jokingly way, cross his mind?

2007-11-19 15:51:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend(a boy) who claims that I'm his bff...the thing is that I have a crush on him and idk if he likes me like that..what r some signs that could show that he likes me. He's very different and doesn't make it obvious when he likes a girl sooo HELP!!

2007-11-19 15:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by chrisann 1 in Singles & Dating

somthing happened to my best friend
and she cried with me for liek three hours abotu it
and showed me the cuts on her wrist and
im really realllyyy worried about her

she knows im here for her,
and she realated it to me being hurt by a man a whiel back

but, it kills me to think that she had to go through somthign like what i did. its making me all depressed over again, but i HAVE to be there for her
she was the only on there for me.
and i knwo it hurts her, but it hurts me so much also
she doesnt want to talk abotu it or tell me what happened though
and i think the only way i could help her is if i knew

i knwo this is alot, but any sugestions?
i just love her and shes my best friend
and im really scared abotu her

(shes gettign help , idk if its enough though)

thank you so much!

btw, meds arent goung to happen she wont take them
thanks though!!

2007-11-19 15:48:21 · 12 answers · asked by L 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I both agreed that we would like to get married. However I'm still in school till 2010. Someone with experience in this area, should we wait till then? Or is the fact that we want to get married enough?

2007-11-19 15:48:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my brother, well step brother, he bosses me around and tells me to do EVERYTHING..

he wants me to take out trash, do laundary and other chores around the house..

and i am only 17, and he is 25

as soon i come home from school, he will give me things to do..
like today at 10:30 PM, i was doing coll stuff, he told me to get laundary..! and he expects me to fold it and put it in his room nicely..

he sometimes says, that he wishes i was a boy.. ( so he cud beat hom up)

i dont knw how to deal with it.. i am scared that he will hit me if i talk baq..
and my step dad and my mom arent supportive either..

any suggestions on what i shud do?

thanks

2007-11-19 15:43:39 · 16 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family

I Dunt know waht to do. I am 20 years old. Ive been with my girl since
she was 16, I was 17. I just never was interested in sex, it doesnt
make me want to til marriage. My gf is very sexual, physical person, and
i feel bad. It makes me upset. What can i say to her or do? I love her,
but i just don't have the feeling to do that now.

2007-11-19 15:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where is the weirdest place you have ever has sex??

2007-11-19 15:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by whatever.. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 15:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 15:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to talk about myself. if my wife help me in making love with her any time i need i would be her slave ,so, i will do anything she wants.

i assume that most men have the same idea. therefore, why do woman refuse or ignore (sometimes) men need. i make love with my wife almost three times a month even though i STILL loyal to her. i know a lot of men have the same problem.


if i am a woman i will make good use of my body to satisfy my husband and his sexual needs. if a woman becomes a man what is she going to do?

2007-11-19 15:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question about a child support
case.
I just wonder why I filed child support with
the dept of human services and now
it is with a prosecuting attorney office.
What does this mean?
That he won't pay.
We already filed out financial forms
and did paternity tests.
I thought in order for this to got to an attorney I would have to file with them myself.
I am just not too familar how this legal system works with child support.

2007-11-19 15:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by lisak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was sorta told that i could take them as long as there is no open custody case which there isnt, am i gonna be told to come back and or am i gonna get in trouble??

2007-11-19 15:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by go away 2 in Family

my ex boyfriend is always mean to my bestfriends when im around them. He says mean comments about them and they hate him, they never liked him even when I went out with him. But when im not around then hes nicer to them even when they ignore him. Whats up with him?

2007-11-19 15:33:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this guy I went out on a date with the other night well we hit it off had a great time..I did not hear from him the rest of the weekend when I sent a text asking if he wanted to go out again on sunday for dinner..Today he sent me a text saying he just got my text message and we can go for dinner? So I called him and we are meeting tomorrow for dinner after work, now the first night we went out I heard him say he kind of had a girlfriend..But im not sure if that is what was said, should I bring it up tomorrow or let it go?

2007-11-19 15:30:17 · 2 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

If the wife (or husband ) do not keep such picture in her wallet,does that means she don't love the husband very much?

2007-11-19 15:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by **meel** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have liked the same guy for 2 years. Nothing ever happened between us except we liked each other for a short period of time. I've been trying to get over him because I'm almost certain nothing will happen. Well, nothing works. I've tried making myself like other guys but it doesn't work. I keep going back to liking him. Is there any way I can forget about him and get on with my life? Why do i keep on going back to liking him? Detailed advice would be helpful. Thank you all for your help.

2007-11-19 15:27:25 · 1 answers · asked by butterflies 3 in Singles & Dating

around a 1month back i went 2 germany as exchange program...its like i had to stay wid a family ovr their.....in the starting it was nice .. but after tht its got quite .. a shock to me ... the use to celbrate nude day in their house nd evry family member use to go nude around their house ... its cme as a shock to me ....!!!they evn invited me to join it ... then they took me to nude beach ....all d people boys & girls were roaming nude out there....i dont know how these people move around nude .. nd tht too in front of their family members ... they told me to join them .. i tried but couldnt ....!!so i want to ask is this behaviour a normal thing in these countries ... hav nyone tried it ....or roam nude in their house in front of their family ...????

2007-11-19 15:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, the guy is a year younger (i'm m in grade 10 and he's in grade 9), and i'm not sure if or how i can tell him i may like him. but i don't know what i'll do if he doesn't feel the same way. 'Cause if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way then i don't want it to be awkward... or more awkward in class and stuff. we don't talk outside of english class( last period) mayb a hi here or there in the halls, but thats it.

2007-11-19 15:26:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband sometimes has an orgasm early and has me sitting there looking at him like "um what happened?".what can i do? or is this something he needs to take care of?

2007-11-19 15:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 15:22:01 · 24 answers · asked by jessica r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After visiting my bf for the weekend, I went back to school for class on Monday and Wednesday. At the end of my last class I found out that the thanksgiving break starts on Wednesday and thus the school is closed. I informed my bf of this and he told me to come home before 9 so that we could hang out. Laundry is free at school and costs at home. I took my laundry home cuz I wouldnt have enough time to do it at school if I want to be there to see my bf by 9. As I was driving home, I was talking to him and he announced that he wants to go visit his cousin and then try to make plans with him tomorrow. Initially, I wasnt going to come home till Thursday so that I can get a lot of homework done at school, hang out with friends and do a bunch of chores. What am I supposed to say or do? I have been putting him first... should I redo my priorities and put him after family, chores and friends? I am so confused. I even asked him on the phone if he was excited to see me and he answered "NO". =(

2007-11-19 15:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have a 18 month old little girl and I do not wan to break up her home. I am diabetic and I have adhd that Im not taking medicine for right now. help

2007-11-19 15:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy had a major crush on me, but then he stopped liking me, and started ignoring me, after hearing rumors about me thinking that he was creepy, and that i didn't like him...

But the rumors weren't true, and I told him that, and I told him that I really like him (on AIM)... But he was already pissed off at me that day, and said to me "It's sad... But it's too late, like earlier it might have worked..." (This all happened within a week or two)

But the next day, he said "hi" to me (online, because he still kind of ignores me at school). and we talked normally.
Is he actually over me? Or is he considering giving me another chance?

And the thing is... he's a really sensitive guy... He believed those rumors because sometimes, I got really shy, and I couldn't talk to him... So he thought that I actually didn't like him... =( So he ignores me at school sometimes... I don't know what to do!

2007-11-19 15:11:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 15:07:02 · 22 answers · asked by bnut227 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. Im a sophomore in high school.. . .

A guy in my 0 period and 1 period, geometry and art.

he is
5'8
junior
a flirt

he encouraged me to join art or robotics club. . .
we talked for one night on the phone
he had a confession that he was really conceited and thinks highly of himself (those were his exact words)

keeps bringing down the freshmen in the football team n other freshmen ppl in art class that they were like SH*&/dumb ppl

2 weeks pass he called me every single night.. .didn't answer a single call.

There was just no connection, no spark, all he wanted was to talk about himself i don't even remember him asking me a single question except if i was single that was it. . . .he keeps talkin' on n on n on. . .about himself, wat he's gud at.

so finally i told him to stop callin' and don't want a bf ryt now.
im a very nice person, im never rude, n i told him nicely.

Heis so loud, n keeps talkin' on n on n on n on. i just wanthim2shutupalready.

2007-11-19 15:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by kate_09 2 in Singles & Dating

10/1/07 I had my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years move in. We have had an up and down relationship. He cheated on me while we were dating and I found out he was addicted to speed. Well, he stopped cheating and the drugs..but, now we're living together. Everytime or just about everytime we argue, he either bails out the door says "F"U" to me and calls me a b*tch. He comes back after a few hours and we usually makeup. But today he did it again and the truth is I just had it. He's 42 and I'm 43 and I just don't want to spend my life with someone who runs out or calls me names. I was married for 18 years and my husband never did that sh*t. Anyhow, I told him we were through and don't come back. When he wants to pickup his stuff I'll have the police here for backup. I know I did the right thing but I'm hurting right now. Oh to top it off he threw his jacket at me...didn't hurt but I'm wondering all this behavior sounds like he's abusive..what do you think?

2007-11-19 15:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by one_daytripper 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 15:06:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating