This guy had a major crush on me, but then he stopped liking me, and started ignoring me, after hearing rumors about me thinking that he was creepy, and that i didn't like him...
But the rumors weren't true, and I told him that, and I told him that I really like him (on AIM)... But he was already pissed off at me that day, and said to me "It's sad... But it's too late, like earlier it might have worked..." (This all happened within a week or two)
But the next day, he said "hi" to me (online, because he still kind of ignores me at school). and we talked normally.
Is he actually over me? Or is he considering giving me another chance?
And the thing is... he's a really sensitive guy... He believed those rumors because sometimes, I got really shy, and I couldn't talk to him... So he thought that I actually didn't like him... =( So he ignores me at school sometimes... I don't know what to do!
2007-11-19 15:11:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well keep talking to him and see
2007-11-19 15:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by pralisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already told him the rumors weren't true, I don't see what else you can do. He either believes you or he doesn't. If he'll talk to you online and not at school, the reason is he probably doesn't want to look bad in front of his friends. That being the case you're really not missing much. On the other hand how is he supposed to give you another chance when you didn't even do anything wrong? Talk to him one last time (online if need be) get things straight once and for all; but don't beg. If it's to be then it will be.
2007-11-19 23:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still likes you, but because of these rumors, he's afraid to show it publicly. Don't pressure him, if he contacts you on line, text him as you would a good friend. At school, just be yourself, have fun and as these rumors start fading, after all the drama is over he'll come around little by little. But you have to ask yourself this question: If he treats you this way just because of rumors. do you REALLY want him as your boyfriend?? you deserve better, (example) someone who will treat you with respect and when rumors fly about you, he will stand up and defend you instead of ignore you... I hope this little tidbit of knowledge helps! good luck! :-)
2007-11-19 23:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Freddy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you have a lot of questions inside you. You've got to come out of your shell and talk to him in person. I'm thinking the rumors stemmed from second hand information. The best way to fix this is to go to him directly.
What if?
2007-11-19 23:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys are like that. Weird in their own special ways. Well if u told him the truth, then maybe u should stick it out and give him some alone time and see if he looks for u.. Id ignore him. Do that and then he will start wondering y u arent IM him or saying Hi and then he will come around to talking to you..
Ignore them and they will come..
2007-11-19 23:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by tropics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about this. It sounds like eventually he might be okay but I guess I don't really understand why HE would be "pissed off" as you say. That just seems silly to me.
I wonder if he's playing games with you. I feel a bit leary about this one. I would keep my eyes open with this guy. Stop your groveling, and have a little respect for yourself. If he sees this he might just try to "get" a little action from you.
2007-11-19 23:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as he has not found another girl I'd think he would give you another chance. He might ignore you because he feels awkward around you. If someone told me that "insert female name" thought i was creepy, I'd back away from her.
2007-11-19 23:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be just as shy as you perhaps. I will give you a site which may help you and then perhaps when he talks to you online you can recommend it to him and it may help you both.
Just try to be a friend for the time being and see where it goes from there.
2007-11-19 23:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, what would your life be like if he doesn't trust that you care for him now? Seems to me like he just doesn't believe you or perhaps doesn't want to believe you. Maybe he likes you but has someone else in mind. He listens to others but not you? He sounds like he is too easily led and like he cant make up his mind.
2007-11-19 23:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by denise g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is so ignorant to believe that junk and if he really like you then he will be a man and ask you if its true.
2007-11-19 23:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Soua V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... if he doesn't like u then let him be.. tell him hwo he feels about u.. and thta the rumors weeren't true.. if he doesn't wanna take ur word for it, and believe what others would say about u... then u r better off without him.... because people talk a lot of ****... believe me... the same **** they eat that's the same **** they talk... and they won't stop.......
2007-11-19 23:16:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋