Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

ok so whenever i flirt with a guy it never comes out the way i want and i end up being really quiet and shy mostly cuz i cant think of anything else to say so do u have any ideas on wat do do? and how to not sound so nervous thanks.

2007-11-19 14:16:56 · 2 answers · asked by Hayley♥Brielle 2 in Singles & Dating

i just got done talkin to this boy on the phone and we talk twice a week or so. he started by askin me how was my day i told him good you and he said good. then we started talkin random.
it was gettin a lil too quiet then i asked him do you remember that my birthday is on friday? [it really is] and he answered yes i never forget then i smiled. after i smiled he said he was sending me a gift for my birthday by mail. i said alright.
and we kept talkin and talkin then after we were about done talkin i asked him is that all you have to say he answered yeah you i said yeah.
then he said so talk to you later, i said see ya! then he just hung up.
oh yeah and i forgot to say something else hes lied to me before and it made me so upset that i stopped talkin to him for a week than he started talkin to me again.
and now im just afraid he is lying to me again about mailin the gift and our whole conversation.
was he just makin all of his sayings up?
p.s im choosing the best answer by friday

2007-11-19 14:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 5 in Singles & Dating

I tend to believe in equality for women but at the same time equal responsibility. I know many women who complain about women not getting paid the same as men, not being promoted the same as men, yet almost all of them would rather marry a woman so they wont have to work as hard in getting a degree or finding and working in a job industry. I think equality should be all across the board. Women have fought and won alot of equal rights than they never had before so now they should step up to the table.

2007-11-19 14:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by Brandon 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my girlfriend of four years. She's been a big part of my life, and now that's she's gone, that part of me is empty....

2007-11-19 14:10:15 · 40 answers · asked by Ryan24 2 in Singles & Dating

take hold of both of the girls hands, and hold on tighter? (freaking)
and when i was standing in the back of him holding on, he put his hand on my leg and we danced till i walked away.

slow dancing... he says "look everyones making out we should do the same". i guess as a joke. but i just put my head on his shoulder.

i dont know why he went to the dance with me, hes in his 2nd year of college. im a HS senior. we are good friends... but i felt something more...

all he ever talks about is his ex...

he just came to be a pal?

can you dance and touch and attempt to make out with a girl you have no feelings for?

2007-11-19 14:09:40 · 2 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend isnt bi. but the question was brought up if i thought her kissing another girl whenever was cheating.
i think it is. i mean just cause she cant get pregnant or anything doesnt mean its ok.
i said, if we were at a party or something and we were drunk and she asked me and i said i didnt care then i wouldnt mind. but if the situation came up and i wasnt there, i wouldnt definatly not be ok with that.
her only response was "none of my other bf's ever had a problem with it"
am i in the wrong for thinking this way?
i need some input...

2007-11-19 14:00:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This has never caused problems for us. Any one else been able to do this without causing harm to their relationship? Any nightmare situations caused because of it?

2007-11-19 13:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by dave w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when we were married we faught all the time but now we are devorced we get along better
i want to get him something extra special
for christmas any ideas

2007-11-19 13:55:49 · 14 answers · asked by docsdreamlover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been screwing around with this guy from school. We went out one night.. drinking.. and one thing led to another and i lost my virginity to him. The next day, he seems to not mind it at all and goes off flirting with other girls. How do i get back at this a**hole!

2007-11-19 13:55:23 · 29 answers · asked by lazygrl5786 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage (arranged) is fixed in two weeks time. I haven't met my hubby-to-be much. Should I just act passively on the wedding night. Or act bold and come out of my inhibitions?

2007-11-19 13:53:35 · 9 answers · asked by SimranSophia G 1 in Weddings

I guess I mean being a guy.... or maybe a Lesbian or Bi woman as well (not pointing to anyone in particular.... :P)

2007-11-19 13:52:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24....i dated my first love for 3 years in highschool...we had a very bad break up and didnt speak to one another for another 2 years. He is the only guy that i have ever been in love with....A couple of years ago we became friends again, we speak and hangout occasionally.... more recently he has been expressing deeper feelings for me...wanting more...deeper friendship, possible relationship....However, with in this past year i have been finally feeling like i am really over him. But theres always that unexplainable feeling that i get when im with him....he will always have a small piece of my heart. I am not sure if i should pursue the possibility of a relationship? We worked very good in the past, but i feel like so much time has passed....we are to totally different people. And i must admit...i am also afraid...i believe that this guy has the power to make me truley happy, but also the power to hurt me again...What do you guys think about rekindling past relationships???

2007-11-19 13:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by iluvme 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I saw this girl while attending a church function and thought she was the most beautiful person I had ever seen. But was to shy to talk to her, so I went on feeling like a loser for not doing so. A couple of months passed and I was getting ready for prom. I never told my family who my date was and they said they would find me one. My grandmother said she knew a girl from church but I wasnt interested. Turned out to be the same girl I froze up on. It was one of the most embarrasing events in my history book when my grandmother decided to ask her to go to my prom with me. She didnt answer. More months passed and I went on another one of the church functions to Six Flags. She was there. I seized my oppurtunity and talked to her in every way I could, flirted with her a lot but never in a disrespectful manner, I made her laugh, she made me laugh. The connection we made was awesome, I love the energy her spirit gives off, I love her vibe, with her it wasnt the usual lust and........

2007-11-19 13:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by **CHAZE** 2 in Singles & Dating

We are both freshmans in high schools. I've been talking to him for a little bit more than a month now. I seem to make him laugh and he said that i was funny. But i don't know if he likes me. And he doesn't talk to me first, i have to start the conversation. What should i do so that he would like me?

2007-11-19 13:48:14 · 20 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

lost love

2007-11-19 13:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-19 13:47:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is they're really an end??? like is the world just goin to start on fire and we're all goin to die???ppl always say the end is commin....are they just tryin to freak the world out or what?? i mean should i not have kids cuz they're kids will never grow up....confusing but it scares me

2007-11-19 13:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by *mommy to be #1* 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 13:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Wot should I do

2007-11-19 13:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by Some Random 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have been dating this girl for about a week now and my coach is one of her teachers. Well they have a test in class tomorrow and he said that if I wanted, I could make a question and put it at the end of her test. (its a multiple choice test) I thought it was a cool idea, but am trying to think of a creative question to ask with 4 multiple choice answers. Can anyone think of a creative question that they think she might like? I trying to score some "omg my boyfriend is so awesome" points :) lol. Thanks, appreciate it.

2007-11-19 13:41:28 · 3 answers · asked by Bridge 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my mom that I wanted to get a piercing and she said no, I said I was going to do it myself and she took my liscense and grounded me, and I didnt even do it yet!

So we came to the agreement that I can get a fake one for 6 months, then a real one.

And she still wont give it back!

2007-11-19 13:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by kylethekiddd9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well he always stared at me before but now he sits two seats away from me and he still does it! It makes me really nervous and uncomfortable and I felt so pathetic because I couldn't even talk to the girl next to me when she asked me a question. He is very cocky and I feel so intimidated whenever he is around. He probobaly thinks I'm so weird now!

2007-11-19 13:39:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it necessary to be a look-alike pair? Can a bride have a pairs and the groom just have the band only?
for example in this picture


here's the bride ring:
http://www.natalia-diamonds.com/GenImage.ashx?Type=WB&Path=WB-008%5CPic-01.jpg

and here's the groom:
http://www.jewelryadviser.com/uploads1/products/img2/204603_1179345195.jpg

OR IS IT HAS TO BE ALWAYS 1 PAIR LIKE THIS
http://www.jewellery.tv/images/how/250/w4100w.jpg


please help me, I want to know about that.

2007-11-19 13:39:56 · 48 answers · asked by ♥ღ ♪♫(๏•ิ_•ิ๏) Mama ♂ 4 in Weddings

none

2007-11-19 13:35:33 · 23 answers · asked by Shannon G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean on the nervers quit smoking four weeks ago and he is so much mean and nasty that I'm ready to divorce him in a minute. If anyone could give me advice on what I need to do please do. Thanks

2007-11-19 13:33:08 · 7 answers · asked by PJH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 13:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by awayandout 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I've been sitting around thinking about how my family treats me. I am a young married mother of two and my hubby is about to get deployed. Anyway, they're always judging me, talking about me badly, (like b/c I don't have many name-brand clothes), but when they need something they always call me. I've always helped them in anyway i can but i'm sick of the way they treat me, and when i talk to them about it, they laugh it off and they're like "whatever". They've all said that i'll never amount to anything, i'm too fat, no one will ever love me, but i've overcome all of that. But is it wrong for me to just cut them off completely. Cuz i swear i don't wanna talk to any of them.

2007-11-19 13:29:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've always been pretty good at making friends, but recently it seems like once someone really gets to know me they stop liking me and think i'm annoying. Its really starting to crush my self-esteem.

What can a male freshman in highschool do to avoid being annoying?

2007-11-19 13:28:29 · 24 answers · asked by Dillon 2 in Friends

I am the youngest of 4 and I am 12 years old. My allowance is only 1 dollar while my older siblings who are 13,14 and 15. There allowances are
13: 3.00 dollars
14: 5.00 dollars
15: 8:00 dollars
Why would my parents give them more money than me? My chores are the harder and more important ones. I have to take care for my 4 dogs,vacuuming,mowing lawns,washing cars, and washing dishes.
Do you think I deserve more than 1 dollar?
Also why do some parents give allowances according to age instead of grades and the difficulty of the jobs?
How can I convince my parents give me more money?

2007-11-19 13:28:26 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been married since April. My husband before we were married had been known to make out with other girls while we were together I found out about it later but he promised that since we were married that would no longer happen because he believes in the commitment of marriage. To my knowledge he obided by that until recently. I found out this past Friday that a week before that he made out with someone else and not just anyone else but his best friend A MAN!!! As the woman he's with I consider this a complete discrase and embarressment. Not to mention that he did this knowing that I'm pregnant and hard at work to support his jobless butt. He's dated men before (never had sex with them but done other sexual things) and the man he kisses he used to date. But he's been swearing to me for almost a year that he's straight!! When I confronted him about it he claimed that it was because of the alchohol. But I know for a fact that alchohol only brings out your desires not changes them.

2007-11-19 13:25:02 · 22 answers · asked by M@K U BL33D 1 in Marriage & Divorce