Alright, I saw this girl while attending a church function and thought she was the most beautiful person I had ever seen. But was to shy to talk to her, so I went on feeling like a loser for not doing so. A couple of months passed and I was getting ready for prom. I never told my family who my date was and they said they would find me one. My grandmother said she knew a girl from church but I wasnt interested. Turned out to be the same girl I froze up on. It was one of the most embarrasing events in my history book when my grandmother decided to ask her to go to my prom with me. She didnt answer. More months passed and I went on another one of the church functions to Six Flags. She was there. I seized my oppurtunity and talked to her in every way I could, flirted with her a lot but never in a disrespectful manner, I made her laugh, she made me laugh. The connection we made was awesome, I love the energy her spirit gives off, I love her vibe, with her it wasnt the usual lust and........
2007-11-19 13:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by **CHAZE** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
infatuation. It was much more than that. She is everything I look for, not in a girlfriend but a WIFE. This is the type of girl that I would like to marry. She is perfect. The thing that I love the most is that she puts God before anything, same as I. After the day at six flags we hung out and talked quite often. I felt like things were going great, I never rushed anything with her. 2yrs have passed since the day we got to know each other at 6F. She now stays in Oklahoma and attending school, and she come out here to visit during the holidays. Shortly before she left we started talking and hanging out less. She dosent have a BF. So I wonder whats going on. We talk aboout once or twice a week sometimes every other week, but the conversations arent the same anymore, and their not very long either. I honestly think this girl is my soulmate, I dont want her to leave my life. I want to keep in contact and hopefully when she moves back out here for good we can pick back up. shes.............
2007-11-19 13:51:31 · update #1
coming back out here in dec for winter break...we kicked the last time she came out in early oct. and I think it went well...what can I do to get her under my wing...keep in contact...and keep the ball rolling...my biggest fear is that another guy will get her in Oklahoma and theres nothing I can do about that because I all the way in california...
2007-11-19 13:53:51 · update #2
Say I love you and buy a ring. Marry her, she is your sole mate. I'm sure God would agree that she was made for you and when the time comes your love should be revealed. PS stay engaged for as long as God asks.
2007-11-19 14:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~Nawakwa~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your life happen to you. Be her friend, but be honest. Your life is too short to have unanswered questions. When you get older, and have a family, kids, etc, you're going to spend a lot of time thanking God for not answering so many of your prayers when you were young. What is meant for you will not pass you by, if you give 100% effort in the attainment.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-19 13:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by benthic_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, I think you should dictate right away your feelings in such a way as not to scare her. Many women tend to like a man sure of himself and in control. I'm afraid if (when) you let her know, you'll be all over her and she'll think you have no life. BIG MISTAKE! You have to play the 'game' in such a way as to show her you really love her but that, if she's acting like she's all that, you are also ready to DUMP HER, quickly! The moral is I want you if you want me too!
Unless I'm lucky, somehow it always seems to work for me, and I'm not a playaa! Just Mr. Romantic!
2007-11-19 14:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by The Hopeful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what happened to the other answer i gave u but somehow it got erased. but keep praying about it cuzin, hopefully everything will work out for u. if its meant to be then itll happen, but just know that if it doesnt that there is someone else out there for u better for u. and will make u happier. just be patient and just have faith that things will work out between the 2 of you. but let her know that u want to be with her...dont just not say anything about that whenever u guys talk...cuz if u open up to her it may open a whole nother door for u
2007-11-19 18:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by It's My Turn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell HER how strong your feelings are--if she knows, she will then respond about HER feelings towards you. If it works out--GREAT, but if she now feels different, better to know sooner than later, so you can make decisions about your life and meet others instead of waiting for her if she is no longer available to you.
2007-11-19 13:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Oklahoma.
2007-11-19 13:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by IMGONNAMARRYTHATBOYSOMEDAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, I would be honored to be your soulmate, and that you are an awesome Christian and put God first...........oh yeah, don't forget to PRAY!
2007-11-19 14:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by beatlemania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ones gotten bored with me...i've got surely had somebody tell me that he grew to become into guna blackmail me to sleep with him returned b/c he grew to become into guna want that popular...i on the different hand...grew to become into bored stiff no longer too long after it began
2016-09-29 13:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋