Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

Ok, I am in LOVE with a girl that is mormon, she lives in utah. I live in Florida, I know in the long run she wants me to convert and i LOVE this girl to death but dont respect the religion. my family is against me moving out to be with her cause they feel like i will be gone forever. I LOVE this girl and have been home for 3 months and our relationship has come down to me move out there for the holidays or its OVER. sooo idk what to do, my family is SOOO important to me, my father was killed around this time 2 years ago so the holidays is sad for my family and my moms my best friend, shes not making it easy on me and neither is my girl friend. I have never been so confused in my life and feel like im in the depths of despair. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEBODY, i need some advice from anyone

2007-11-19 12:04:43 · 2 answers · asked by jake 1 in Singles & Dating

and um i kinda don't want her to..i know it's a little mean but she's really annoying and i can't stand her! she's a stalker and somehow she found my 360 and she didn't even have one o.O what do i do? lmao...

2007-11-19 12:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Because it seems kids these days are getting younger and younger when they start interacting sexually wiht the opposite sex.

2007-11-19 12:03:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well, I've liked this girl for a little while now, and I think its time to ask her to be my girlfriend.
I have a feeling she knows I like her, but I've kept this one very un-obvious.
So, my friends ask me if I like her, and I always tell them I don't know.. because I don't want them to know right now.
I always go find her after school to say hi to her, and then I leave for soccer. She is in my science class.. which is a good thing because my teacher lets us talk.. always.

This is what i plan on telling her tuesday, her birthday is on wednesday by the way.

"I haven't stopped thinking about you since that last hug I gave you before the end of school... I even had dreams about you... so I was just wondering if you want to be my girlfriend...?"

should I add anything else?
I'm really good at saying what I think..

2007-11-19 11:57:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Talking to person online off and on all year as friends and nothing come of it. What's up with this situation?

2007-11-19 11:57:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex-boyfriend and I decided to take a break to see how things would be and to "test" the waters per say. I am really concerned about him cuz he is seeing this girl who has a history of using heroin and may have hepatitis. I want to warn him and talk to him about it but I dont want him to get mad thinking that I just dont like her and just dont want him to be with someone else. We are still really close in fact closer than ever now, but I just know how to go about talking to him about this. Please help!!

2007-11-19 11:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by lost&confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am in LOVE with a girl that is mormon, she lives in utah. I live in Florida, I know in the long run she wants me to convert and i LOVE this girl to death but dont respect the religion. my family is against me moving out to be with her cause they feel like i will be gone forever. I LOVE this girl and have been home for 3 months and our relationship has come down to me move out there for the holidays or its OVER. sooo idk what to do, my family is SOOO important to me, my father was killed around this time 2 years ago so the holidays is sad for my family and my moms my best friend, shes not making it easy on me and neither is my girl friend. I have never been so confused in my life and feel like im in the depths of despair. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEBODY, i need some advice from anyone

2007-11-19 11:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by jake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

periods stopped suddenly 3 months ago,had hot flashes only about 3 or 4 weeks but am feeling very anxious and distrusting of my husband seem to be questioning him alot and am having fearful feelings that he is going to leave me. He says he loves me and we will get through these feelings. Is this normal menapausal feelings and will they eventually go away?

2007-11-19 11:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by dapdap7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys like girls the same way girls like guys?..how do guys feel when they like girls?

2007-11-19 11:50:44 · 2 answers · asked by Nikki T 1 in Singles & Dating

im part of your average middle class family, junior in highschool. basically my parents agree i need a car (for work, then eventually college), however my dad says we only have enough money for a used car, that gets good mpg. my mom says i need a new car that will last me a long time. my dad doesnt think we have the money for this, my mom does.


both parents tell me its none of my buisness when i ask about money. how the hell can i know whos right? however, they consult with me about which car i would like out of choice a,b,c etc (new with mom, used with dad.) my dad always talks about how late hes going to retire and how we missed a lot of chances in the stock market and i should learn from his mistakes, yet i always hear about how much money from overtime and raises my mom gets from nursing.


the questions:

1. should i figure out on my on how much money we have since my parents wont tell me what really is the situation? if so how? what factors, what should i look for?

2007-11-19 11:48:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i liked this boy and every single time he talks to me, he turns around and puts his hand on my desk all the time because i sit right at the back of him in one of my classes. And sometimes when i'm talking to someone, he starts talking with me and that person and also he smiles sometimes i look at him. But now he has a girlfriend and does not talk to me anymore. Did he like me before or was he just friendly

2007-11-19 11:47:59 · 2 answers · asked by sherlychanny 2 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with this kid named Jason Edward S. & i have since 6th grade and i am now in the 8th grade we dated for almost a year and broke up because he moved to a diffewrent school.
and now that he is back in my school i just feel as if i am in love all over again.
i am knowen as the loud mouth tell it like it is girl and i am very spoken minded.
but when it comes to talking to jason i just dont know what to think about.

he knows i like him and i know he likes me but he has a girlfriend. >:|

so what do we talk about?


help please.
-thank you.

2007-11-19 11:45:35 · 1 answers · asked by tiffanykiddo. 2 in Singles & Dating

they are much interested in movies that have power...
example: all Rocky movies..

lets say Sweet November....

2007-11-19 11:41:05 · 13 answers · asked by A 5 in Singles & Dating

lol, I know kinda funny, but thats all I am sooting for is community college and I want to have a good time.

2007-11-19 11:40:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been dating my fiance for 5 years. We started discussing how to split up the holidays when we are married. He works for the railroad and isn't home on the actual holiday unless he takes it off. He can't take off all holidays because he can get in trouble for this at his job. Also, he gets paid more than double by working them. He could probably lay off one holiday but not both. He's pretty much an only child, since his parents don't see his other brothers hardly ever. So he says if he doesn't go to his parents they won't celebrate holidays at all, which I think is more their problem than his. I have 2 little brothers still at home, so it's important to my family to have the holidays on the actual day; his parents have them whenever he's home. So, basically he wants to spend all holidays with his parents, and said if he took off the actual day and spent it with my family, he would feel guilty for spending it with my family and not his.

2007-11-19 11:39:29 · 6 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf have been dating for 6 months. in the beginning he was calling me everyday, even 2ce sometimes. Now its been less, some days it'll be 1-2 days btwn calls.

i asked if he was losing interest in me & he said no, he wants to be with me. his reasoning is that he doesnt feel the need to be calling me all the time anymore, that in the beginning he was getting to know me and had more free time cuz it was the summer and such. now hes back in school and super stressed cuz his program is really intense and so hes pretty much overwhelmed. i told him that when he doesnt call i dont feel like he cares or is thinking about me. he told me i shouldnt base his affection on a phone call and that hes always thinking of me, hes just not the type to flaunt it...hes told me before hes not a phone person. if he needs me or has something to say, he'll call. but he told me that if i feel like talking to him, i can call him whenever i want

is this okay? or am i being needy?

2007-11-19 11:33:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for a while now but I want to go farther with him...
Is the age difference too much?

2007-11-19 11:33:25 · 33 answers · asked by Carol A 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me nearly 2 months ago. I made myself look like a moron and begged for 3 weeks then gave up. Yesterday Im at work I see a missed call, of course the ex which I didnt call the number back. He goes to my best friend and asks about me when he said we needed to move on. I cant deal with his crap anymore. I want him to stay away from my friends if hes going to ask about me and move on like I am trying.

2007-11-19 11:30:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 11:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by GiRLS like BOYS 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for about 4 months now and he is a bit emotionally unstable. when we married he was a virgin and our honeymoon we freaked out and didnt want to have sex and said he be fine if i have sex with another man and get pregnant cause he will take care of that child, but now since i am beginning to show he decided to file for divorce and also decided he wouldnt care for the child he is saying that i had an affair, but he said it was ok to have sex with another man on our honey and he is now turning the tables what can i do? i dont want to lose?

*need more answers*

2007-11-19 11:26:49 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Personally, I know the answer to this question. I have a very strong opinion on these things. However, my niece thinks that I'm old fashioned as hell. Help me to form an answer in a context a 21 year old girl can appreciate.

She met a nice guy. I think they talked on the phone a couple of times. He called and missed her at home a couple of times but was persistent finally got her. They went to dinner. According to her, they hit it off really well. He seemed into her, she was into him. They talked candidly about everything.

On the way home, for some reason that I cannot phathom, this girl ends up giving him a hand job. LOL. I'm cracking up just thinking about it. I think it's so ridiculous! They go to her apartment and watch a movie. She ends up giving him oral sex. They didn't have sex.

By the end of the night he hugs & kisses her. He tells her he wants to see her again. Said he wasn't gonna let her go. She's a beautiful girl and has alot to offer. But he never calls. Why?

2007-11-19 11:25:42 · 3 answers · asked by HRH PrincessFreestarr 3 in Singles & Dating

Iam going out with a fantastic lady as i said she is 43 iam 52, people keep telling me they would take me for my early 40s the problem is my girlfreind looks as though she is in her early 20s and people look at me as though iam a dirty old man, Iam white from theUK , she is originaly from Kenya ,we have 4 children between us, all going to univercity i have been attacked spit at had obcene remarks shouted at us, you name we have had it said or done to us, She is a nurse in a cancer ward, and the one that spit at me had bad news, his mother was addmited to her ward i never heard any complaints about her being black when she was giving treatment to his mother or changing her bed when she soiled it, as they were short staffed, and she had to do it, part of the job as they sayanybody had to but up with this sort of thing, PS ,we are still very happy together, and will be for many years to come

2007-11-19 11:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by Rigman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-19 11:22:15 · 23 answers · asked by ShakeDatLaffyTaffy 2 in Singles & Dating

How often do you think about sex?
And Have you ever wondered or wished you could do a one night stand without being judged?

I ask because the majority of people would say men are dogs, but I'm sure ladies think the same way, we just dont openly show it like guys do because of reputations out there. So lets be honest!

2007-11-19 11:16:43 · 32 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl who went out with this kid that cheated on her and 3 times

2007-11-19 11:12:44 · 22 answers · asked by keyla_vega 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys think about seduction experts like Mystery of VH1's Pickup Artist and Tommy Orlando, the guy who wrote Player's Handbook?

Are these guys for real or just playing a cruel joke on lonely men?

2007-11-19 11:11:53 · 2 answers · asked by David 3 in Singles & Dating

I think I have a really creative and good way to turn a guy on but I'm curious to if any of you have a more creative way than mine.

2007-11-19 11:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Singles & Dating

its going to be long distance for about 6mths

2007-11-19 11:03:16 · 1 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm Kinda of Mad At My BOYFRIEND. How long should I wait to call him?
He was been pulling back lately. there is another woman involved(his wife). I'm trying to get him away from her. I'm going to let her mess up other than pressuring him. I need to some advice on being the perfect mistress for now. I mess up before by demanding too much time. I got it but the kids started school. I just need to know what makes the perfect mistress?

2007-11-19 11:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love to have ******* with my best friends mom and he likes to have with my mom.
what should we do?
my mom is hot and more ****** than his

2007-11-19 11:02:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating