My ex-boyfriend and I decided to take a break to see how things would be and to "test" the waters per say. I am really concerned about him cuz he is seeing this girl who has a history of using heroin and may have hepatitis. I want to warn him and talk to him about it but I dont want him to get mad thinking that I just dont like her and just dont want him to be with someone else. We are still really close in fact closer than ever now, but I just know how to go about talking to him about this. Please help!!
2007-11-19 11:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by lost&confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look hun,
U cant just expect the person to just believe u.
THough it seems rude for me to type this,
stay out of the situation. One day, she'll probably ask him if he wants to have some herion, or he'll findout and it'll b his choice to deal with. Because supposing she quit recently and u get in trouble with both of them for saying something "so low"
to accuse her for. U get the jist of what I'm saying dont u ?
2007-11-19 12:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by killerbird979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to applaud you for the concern you have for your ex.Since you indicated that you are both now much closer than prior to deciding to take a break, I will assume that you share a great deal of trust, communication, and caring for one another. If I am correct, then all you have to do is present your boyfriend(?) with the facts about this woman;and do it real fast.Don't tell him anything but the whole truth or he might not believe you or think you are acting out of jealousy.Assure him that everything you are saying is the factual truth( make sure it is) and you only want to protect him.You are a good person and I hope he see's that fact and maybe give your relationship a second chance.Good luck---to both of you.
2007-11-19 20:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I realize you might think i'm jealous when i say this, but it's up to you to know i'm not. I have heard a few thigns about your current girlfriend and i think you should just talk with her, because i could be wrong. I have absolutey nothing against her, but i really care about your decisions. I am glad for you and her, but i still do have feelings for you."
WHATEVER YOU DO, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS OR DOES, BE POLITE ABOUT IT!
2007-11-19 20:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by nicole-hardcore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're close, you can just tell him. But then you've got to let it go, whether he takes what you say on board or not.
2007-11-19 20:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do his own thing, if he's reasponsible enough he should know these things before he goes sleeping around with other girls
peace
2007-11-19 20:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋