well, I've liked this girl for a little while now, and I think its time to ask her to be my girlfriend.
I have a feeling she knows I like her, but I've kept this one very un-obvious.
So, my friends ask me if I like her, and I always tell them I don't know.. because I don't want them to know right now.
I always go find her after school to say hi to her, and then I leave for soccer. She is in my science class.. which is a good thing because my teacher lets us talk.. always.
This is what i plan on telling her tuesday, her birthday is on wednesday by the way.
"I haven't stopped thinking about you since that last hug I gave you before the end of school... I even had dreams about you... so I was just wondering if you want to be my girlfriend...?"
should I add anything else?
I'm really good at saying what I think..
2007-11-19 11:57:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so some of you are saying the dream thing is kind of creepy....
soo this is how it'll be instead....
"I haven't stopped thinking about you since that last hug I gave you before the end of school.. so I was just wondering if you want to be my girlfriend.."
So I pretty much just took out the dream part.. then if she says yes I'll tell her how I think that her eyes are beautiful and her smile.... and her hair.. and her lips..
yeah you can tell i like her... :)
2007-11-19 12:09:03 · update #1
im 14... in highschool/freshman
thought that would help with some of the answers.. ;s
2007-11-19 12:20:30 · update #2
i think you should absolutely go for it.
wow this is refreshing. usually we get questions about I'm too shy.
so take the reigns and ask this girl to be your girl. and how sweet. the day before her birthday, that is sooo perfect. good luck. not that you need it, I'm sure.
keep everything the way it is. even the dream part, that someone said to leave it out. i think it shows sweetness and sincerity
2007-11-19 12:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
why did you feel the need to be un obvious ?
nothing wrong in answering any question someone asks you .
i would take the chance , it sounds , like she likes you .
good communication is good between two people. i think it is fine for you to say what you are thinking. not to generalize by men seem to have more trouble in verbal communication. good that you feel comfortable and are good at saying what you think. this is an important thing that will help you in many, many ways in the future.
good luck.
if for any reason,she does not want to be a girlfirend.. don't take personal there is never a shortage. ask all different types and have good experiences before you choose carefully.
2007-11-19 12:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mildred S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds a bit pushy. why do you have to announce anything. The title of "girlfreind", should be selectively given. That takes time. Is it not good enough just to hang out with her first before you start to rush things. You should start by talking on the phone, and see how that works. If you find that you stay on the phoine for hours with each other then maybe thats the right time to confess your love.
2007-11-19 12:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you props for saying what you feel. But of all things, don't tell her you have dreams about her. You'll scare her off. I know, because I was there once or twice...okay, more! Just be yourself, okay? Take her to the side and tell her in private. She'll feel that it's all you and that you mean it. Don't take your eyes off of hers, so that she knows that you respect her. It's okay to be nervous. Nobody said that it was going to be easy.=) The rest is up to you.
2007-11-19 12:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all is good except for the dream part...leave that out...its kinda weird! you can tell her that later when your sure she's smitten! so just tell her you really like talking to her and would like to spend more time with her, maybe ask her on a date before you ask her to be your girlfriend! and get her a cute card for her birthday and say something cheeky in it! good luck!
2007-11-19 12:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for coffee. Don't mention the dreams, she could see that as creepy. And give her a birthday card and maybe some flowers. (Girls love it when guys bring them flowers, especially when everyone else can see them!)
2007-11-19 12:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out the dreams part, It's kinda creepy. But otherwise I think it sounds great, but I'd wait until after her birthday it would seem less awakward, and she might be in a better mood.
2007-11-19 12:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, I wouldn't say any of that to her...why jump into a relationship w/o having 1st been on a few dates???? It comes off as way too desperate. So you like her, great...ask her out 1st, spend some actual time w/her, that way when you do ask her to be your g/f, you won't come off as a creepy stalker guy.
2007-11-19 12:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not ready.
The entire message sounds like one of those "I'm a creepy stalker guy who fantasizes about what to name your kids with her." Perhaps you should have more interactions outside of school before you try and go with the girlfriend thing.
2007-11-19 12:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...ive been in this situation before with a guy and he stole my heart by saying this..."Hey ive been thinking about our friendship and i think it works out great , but what i want to tell you is that ive like dyou far more than a friend for a while... so i wanted to ask... will you be my girlfriend."
2007-11-19 12:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋