why am i so shy around him?

Question

i am in love with this kid named Jason Edward S. & i have since 6th grade and i am now in the 8th grade we dated for almost a year and broke up because he moved to a diffewrent school.
and now that he is back in my school i just feel as if i am in love all over again.
i am knowen as the loud mouth tell it like it is girl and i am very spoken minded.
but when it comes to talking to jason i just dont know what to think about.

he knows i like him and i know he likes me but he has a girlfriend. >:|

so what do we talk about?


help please.
-thank you.

Answer 1

Your, "tougue" tied, basically because the feelings and thoughts you want to say, are a little to INTENSE then you feel comfrontable saying. So you need to see him as everyone else, just someone your tring to talk to, and hold back as much as possible what you really feel. It well feel unatrual right at frist, but as you slowly get use to feeling not so absent minded because you'll think about everyday stuff, you'll get ready for the deeper. This works with alot of people, another good thing, is hold some ideas about other things to talk about. School, family, friends, memories, the "don't I know you" approach, just have a goal of things to talk about but don't comment to them, there just ideas....