Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

'didn't' like it...Have u ever said u did?...Why? and How do we get you to speak the truth!?

2007-11-19 11:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Susie2 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was at a party with a couple of guys and I was in the bathroom and the guys opened the door and saw me and all of them left and said they were sorry, but I am still really scared if they tell everyone at school, what should I say to them?

2007-11-19 11:01:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, I was wondering what guys like to hear from their girlfriends. Like do they like compliments about looks, accomplishments, personality? Thanks so much.

2007-11-19 11:01:34 · 1 answers · asked by C J 1 in Singles & Dating

NOTE TO ANSWERERS:
PLEASE READ CAREFULLY.

When I was on Facebook, while I was randomly surfing the networking website, I knew a male from college whom I though was cool with and accepting of others. Remind you I had not been to college in 2 years and I have not heard from him for like 2 years, so I figured that I would renuite with him.

Ironically, I was thinking about adding that person as a friend because I knew him when I was in college and we were friends and we went to class together and I also thought he was cool. However, he happened to block me from his Facebook profile for NO REASON. So there was nothing to get through to that except that I felt very hurt about it. Here I am thinking: Why would someone do that to me like that?

I also knew him through a person whom I am also good friends with and he is VERY good friends with the guy that I am currently friends with. I had never had problems with this guy, and I wasn't even dating him.

What do you all think? Thank yo

2007-11-19 10:55:40 · 4 answers · asked by ChocLaddy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay two questions......#1 how can you find yourself?...and #2 how do you know when you found her?

2007-11-19 10:54:01 · 1 answers · asked by Hana**StarDust** 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this being a whore?
Ok i flirt alot..But when i have a boyfriend i don`t flirt at all..Well theres this girl and her boyfriend that calls me a whore just because i`m nice and flirt with em
Is that being a whore?
I know what a whore meansbut what is your defention of a whore?

2007-11-19 10:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have their boyfriends spend the night and what not. i mean....how does the subject even come up....or worse the moms who let their teenage daughters boyfriend actually move in their house and stuff. why does this happen so much??

are there any mothers here who actually let this go on, if so what do u feel on the subject can u please explain? or anyone else who has some comments on this issue...

thanks

2007-11-19 10:14:45 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. So Me and a friend have been talking on the net for almost 3 years. we've never met and he tells me he is comign down next month and he wants to see me. Problem is, i told a white lie at the beginning of our friendship that I was 5'11 and slender model, and never set the record stra8 over the years. Everything else we talked about I have been truthful on, like relationships family, preceptions etc... However the truth is I'm 5'7 and have curves (not fat tho). I feel as tho i need to set the record str8 with him ahead of time b4 he gets here but not sure how he will take my white lie:(. Advice? Would yall forgive me? P.S. He has seen real pics of me however, just never full body shots.. Adult answers please. ( 21 and up)

2007-11-19 10:13:23 · 19 answers · asked by Malc T 1 in Singles & Dating

i might pass my bosses office and people at work, and there like "Hi, how are you? So what have you been up to" i dont go out, im something of a book worm, who likes watching political news and doing weird little projects around the home cause i dont have many friends and dont go out. so i have nothing to say. i turn red, and half leaning out the door...my body trying to leave, im like
"ohh, the usual"
"as in?"
"ohh around the house stuff. ya know."
and all along im wondering when theyll stop asking so i can slip away to what i was doing. my question is: whats the best thing to say in this situation- or how do i talk about the boring things i do and not feel that im making them think im a weirdo?? or if the answer is that i need to direct the conversation to 'all about them' then how do i talk to people cause im not very good with smalltalk and asking questions that make up a conversation (or answering questions).

2007-11-19 10:12:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just moved in to my new place not to long ago and have this crackhead neighbor lady to deal with. When I've talked to her, she's been nice and polite to me. But shes always asking for a ride to places to do her drug deals and stuff. I dont want to escort her around all the time especially if I get pulled over and cops find some crack on her or something. She is just so annoying with these asking for rides and I am tired of coming up with excuses. What should I do?

2007-11-19 10:12:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-19 10:11:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(KEEP IN MIND THIS IS A QUESTION, I'M NOT TRYING TO JUDGE ANYONE). I was watching the Tyra show today and she did a study on different raced women. Do men really not like black women? Only one guy(a black man) choose the black woman to take home, and none choose her as a fantasy women? I personally think black women are beautiful, smart, and sexual all in one. And being a black woman that's attracted to white men that really was hurtful. And why do guys make such a big deal over women like Beyonce or Tyra, if they are girls you would never be want to be with (nor would they want you) anyway?

2007-11-19 10:11:21 · 31 answers · asked by kalin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 10:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by SHOCKWAVE 3 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I say "Sh" to someone near me, not someone I like, but just someone who's being loud. I am very smart, not bragging, just saying. I am very tomboyish, does this turn off guys? And what about looks? I'm not ugly but not super gorgeous either. I'm not overweight, not really thin though.
Does this turn off guys?
Any of this?
I can be very quiet too.

2007-11-19 10:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 2 in Singles & Dating

I make her spend her $5000 allowance each month. If she doesn't I make her roll it over to the next month and then have to spend it plus the other month's allowance. She says she simply can't spend it all each month and she's getting tired of trying? Does this sound cruel to you?????

2007-11-19 10:01:25 · 51 answers · asked by zp055att 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My father is a recovering alcoholic drug addict of 17 years. I have an older sister that has 2 children that my mother is raising because my sister abuses meth. I have an older brother who has had 2 DUIs before his 21st birthday && I have been following in their footsteps. It started when I was 14 with drinking then when I was 16 I began smoking marijuana. Now I smoke, drink, && do coke on a daily basis. I dont want to end up like my sister && brother, but I am afraid I will. I am being evicted from my apartment because of my habits && I have also neglected speeding tickets, && court ordered NA && Community Service. My life is heading the WRONG way && I desprately want to change it. I want my family to be proud of me. I come from a pretty wealthy family && I want to go to rehab, but I would need them to pay for it. My parents know I smoke weed, but they dont know about the coke && my driniing habits && I am afraid that they might disown me because coke was my fathers drug of choice too

2007-11-19 09:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-19 09:53:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my husband gave a key to OUR house to his ex wife. They have a son together and that is why but he never told me. I am upset because I dont want HER to have access to our house when we aren't home. In his defense, he tells me HIS SON has a key... not her. Well, he is 8 years old. Am I wrong?

2007-11-19 09:51:19 · 24 answers · asked by blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married to my husband for about 4 months now and he is a bit emotionally unstable. when we married he was a virgin and our honeymoon we freaked out and didnt want to have sex and said he be fine if i have sex with another man and get pregnant cause he will take care of that child, but now since i am beginning to show he decided to file for divorce and also decided he wouldnt care for the child he is saying that i had an affair, but he said it was ok to have sex with another man on our honey and he is now turning the tables what can i do? i dont want to lose?

2007-11-19 09:50:58 · 62 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want so badly to adopt my step-daughter. My husband gained full custody of her 4 years ago due to abuse. She doesn't call and hasn't seen her in a year next month. She hasn't paid child support since Nov. 04. My daughter wants me to be her mommy and doesn't want her other mom. My husband and I both want her to be mine officially but his ex wont sign the papers. We even told her that we would forgive all owed child support if she signed the papers. Is there anything I can I do? I am going to contact an attorney as soon as we can afford to go through such a legal battle.

2007-11-19 09:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you do loan money to friends or relatives do they pay you back? Only one of my relatives has paid back a loan. The others have never offered to pay back a cent. Oh yes, I know it's stupid to loan money but they begged for help and I gave it to them.

What are your stories?

2007-11-19 09:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Miz D 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

once i know someone for a little while im fine, but like i changed my classes around a little and in my new math class theres this really cute boy and how do i go about starting a conversation????

2007-11-19 09:48:22 · 31 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

For backstory, there is this girl I like a lot, and I think she liked me too, but I think I waited too long, and she acts like she doesn't even want to be friends now. I am wondering if it would be a waste to tell her exactly how I feel, which is this:
Look, I'm not sure if you felt the same way about me I feel about you, but if you did, I know I waited too long and there is likely nothing I can do or say to possibly make up for that. I'm not asking for anything more here than to explain why. Through high school, the majority of my interactions with women, and people in general have been failures, and in fact, I do not seem to be anything more than a school friend to anyone here. I have gone through rejection time and time again, and when I saw signs from you, instead of going for it, the constant thought of rejection continued, and I couldn't bring myself to tell you how I feel. (continued in details)

2007-11-19 09:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by JL 1 in Singles & Dating

Need your help. Met someone who's gotten really complicated 2 figure out. I'm getting ready 2 dump him. I need your expertise first. The person I met-I've been talking 2 for almost 4 months. We've talked about a lot of things & his biggest thing was being completely honest w/ each other. He made it very clear he detests those that play games. He also said he doesn't play games,Okay, I've been honest & I'm not into playing games either. He, on the other hand has not been totally honest w/me on several things & has already disappointed me by not following through. He's canceled 2x's or changed his mind when we were to see each other right at the last minute. Not even an apology was given. I breakup up w/him & keeps calling 2 try and mend things. This person takes anti-depressants, (20 yrs). Could this be the reason he's goofy? He's confused me a number of times by saying something & then saying I misunderstood, WTF! He's already introduced me to his 9 yr daut'r. Go ahead and dump him?

2007-11-19 09:44:06 · 2 answers · asked by metalgods 4 in Friends

I'm involved with a married woman. Have been for 9 months now. She was married for 4 months before we started talking. She says she's never cheated on anyone before. If she gets a divorce... do you think she'll cheat on me too ? Is it true... once a cheater... always a cheater ?

2007-11-19 09:38:32 · 44 answers · asked by Ozzie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 years old. my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months now. i haven't told him i loved him yet, and i don't plan on it for quite a while now. Am i afriad of commitment or being mature on this onee?

2007-11-19 09:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by Notyret 2 in Singles & Dating

stuff like sex, boys, drugs, peer pressure, all the stuff that everyone should know sooner or later,but don't want to ask.

2007-11-19 09:34:30 · 2 answers · asked by me m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have taken all I can and today was the last straw. What is the procedure for getting a divorce and how much does it cost?

2007-11-19 09:34:00 · 7 answers · asked by smudge 3 in Marriage & Divorce

And do your parents know you well?

2007-11-19 09:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this guy who is my age, 16 and we have been hanging out a lot lately. We went out for ice cream friday night and then on Saturday we hung out at my house for 5 hours. The next day, I went out to breakfast with his family and then me and him watched a movie on tv in my basement. We held hands and made out for a while but he never officially asked me out..so idk if he just assumes we are going out or what. I don't want to ask him because that would be immature and could be embarrassing for both of us. Help!

2007-11-19 09:32:18 · 17 answers · asked by charley 3 in Singles & Dating