Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

Approaches you to get to know you,and start to say sweet things and say can i be your friend?

When you know 100% they want more then that?
Guys why dont you get straight to the point?

2007-11-19 08:36:39 · 39 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3 in Singles & Dating

Have people write there advice on marriage or happy thoughts of us? Where can I find a bowl?? What kind of paper? Need some creative help.

2007-11-19 08:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

My man is not the type who displays emotion very often, if at all. He is very physically affectionate, with lots of hugs and gentle kisses. However, he does not have a romantic bone in his body, as it were. I am very much a romantic, and like to give him little surprises out of the blue - for example, yesterday he let me know he had a bad day at work, so I travelled for over an hour to make sure I could give him a six pack of his favourite beer before he headed home from work. I care about him a lot - he just seems really dense sometimes in that he doesn't think about doing similar things for me. He cares for me in his own way - for example, when I said (in random conversation) that muscled arms turned me on, he started lifting weights to build up his arms. He's been doing it solidly ever since (around 6 months now), and enjoys showing me the results. Because he doesn't do traditionally romantic things for me, does this mean he cares for me any less?

2007-11-19 08:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I have a long drug out storey about how I met this amazing boy at my church over the summer,but i don't want to explain it all so you ge the short version. His name is Bud I met him at my church I ended up going on a white water rafting trip with the other kids in my youth group. Me and Bud got extremely close and we were gonna hang out and stuff but we kinda just stopped talking one day. I see him every week, but he never wants to talk to me. His other two best friends still talk to me all the time, but he never does. I somtimes kind of try, but everyweek I just want to cry because at church and youthgroup he never talks to me. I really still want to be his friend and for somereason he wants nothing to do with me. I have cried at least once a week about this for the longest time. Don't tell me to get ovr it, try and help me figure out how I can get us to be friends. I am sooooo depressed right now. Plzzz help! thanx!
♥Jes♥

2007-11-19 08:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I like flirts with me alot and we are always holding hands and somtimes kissing ok! But anyways so I see him when I can and we have been hanging out alot latly, but he has never asked me out yet so I called him and asked him what was going on between us and he said that he really liked me alot but he did not want a gf right now so i asked him straight out do you want to end this or take it slow and he said slow but my real question is should i play hard ti get so his feelings won't end and how do you play hard to get?????????

2007-11-19 08:32:24 · 1 answers · asked by tlc_coburn 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have this friend named rachel. and we are best friends! i am not popular, and she is! she is like a guy magnet! i don't get jelous, but, it seems like i never see her anymore and we live across the street! all the guys put on a show for her! they dont act like themselves so she would like them! we tried teling her, we knew them since 1 grade!
i told her i felt left out! but things are ok! we have 7 periods not including lunch and we have gym last! things go ok until gym! that's when the guy's flirt w/ her! she is awesome at sports, and me... not so much! what should i do! i think it would be rude if i told her she couldn't hand out w/ them!!!! so, beside that, what should i do????

2007-11-19 08:31:33 · 19 answers · asked by oldxsneakerz 4 in Friends

2007-11-19 08:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by vixxen 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 08:31:26 · 15 answers · asked by Didgeridude 4 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 14 months. We broke up almost a year ago and I've been with m current bf for 6 months. I have not seen or talked to my ex since las December. It wasn't a particularly bad break-up...he has texted me a couple of times over the past year and I ignore them because I have no desire to communicate with him at all.

Just today, his brother in law contacted me on myspace. He said he ran across my profile and wanted to say hello. He and my ex's sister are now going through a divorce and I think he just wanted to talk to someone that understands how screwy the family is. I always got along very well with my ex's brother in law, at family functions, funerals, and we did hang out a couple times as couples. We seemed to have alot of the same morals and views. However, when my ex and I broke up I understood that I would have to also break up with his friends and family (sucks but it's life).

2007-11-19 08:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this one girl and she likes me, and we both know that we like each other, but it like niether of us want to make a move and ask the other one out

2007-11-19 08:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're having a small ceremony with 20 guests. I think that getting a veil would be a waste of money.

Is it just tradition and absolutely necessary to have one, or can I skip the veil?

2007-11-19 08:26:40 · 36 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4 in Weddings

2007-11-19 08:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by merlady85 1 in Weddings

My b/f of about 6 months has asked me to move in with him. neither of us have been married and we both are 30+ with no kids. There hasnt been any talk of marriage between us, but he does say things about getting married and having kids in the future. Im afraid to jump into anything because my ultra-conservative family will disown me if I did move in with him. This is an issue because despite working 2 good paying jobs, in my area housing is so high I cant afford a place on my own (and still pay off my student loans) so I live with family. So If it didnt work out, I'd be out of luck. I really love this guy and he loves me too.He has gone as far as to order a new king sized bed, clean out half his closet and straighten out his apartment so there's be "room" for me. Ive told him that during the holidays isnt a good time to drop that on my family, he agreed. Id love some polite advise on this. thanks guys!

2007-11-19 08:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by ladysmokeater 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 08:23:48 · 21 answers · asked by Stacye S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Get pregnant or adopt a child?
Cheat and win or loser fair and square?
Love or be loved?
Have a Cat or Dog?
Get an Ipod touch or a Iphone?
Have a WII or a X-Box 360?
Live you life looking 4 true love or take what you get?
Have tons of friends that love you or 1 best friend that adores you?
Dance like no ones watching or sing like no ones watching?
Would you rather loose your friends for famous ones or live your life unnoticed with people that love you??

2007-11-19 08:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was drunk and out of stupidity i send some rude and mean text messages to my ex...from the internet(sms). i didnt even think she would know it's me..minutes after i send the text she called me acting dramatic over why i send the text...just wonderin if i sendin text from online do numbers apperar???

2007-11-19 08:21:14 · 2 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 08:20:45 · 3 answers · asked by ERAddict 2 in Singles & Dating

It causes arguments. I don't want to control him, but it really makes me mad that he stays out all hours of the night. I really need a guys opinion on this. I don't want to be one of those controlling wives. Am I making to big of a deal out of this?? HELP??

2007-11-19 08:20:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this girl for 2 months (not long I know) but we absolutely feel for each other. I fell in love with her before the first time we had sex. I'm away at college and she's taking classes closer to her home so we're about 3 hrs away. I see her just about every weekend. Problem is that she's afraid to lose me and me the same. We've already concluded that we would not ever hurt the other person and we could really see this lasting for awhile. So we're both pretty commited. Problem is that she is constantly being asked out by guys and has a lot of guy friends. She tells them she's with me though. Also she has been with more guys then I have girls and isn't afraid to tell her business to people. When we first fell in love she was all about telling people and really excited. Now she's just kinda...eh. She still loves me and is commited but she doesn't show it like she used to. I'm seeing her today after not for 2 weeks. Helpful answers only please.

2007-11-19 08:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when my father died, i stole all the jewelry he had given his second wife. at the funeral home, i was able to put it in his coffiin. that's where it is today. as it turns out, the stuff was worth a little more than $95 grand, and his second wife could really use it. i'm thinking of going to the cemetery at night to get it. anyone with the same expereince?

2007-11-19 08:16:54 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its my mate she is at some guys house whos been playing with my mind about her and i kinda dont trust him could be jealously is there any advice any of yous can gave

2007-11-19 08:15:26 · 2 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that Society glorifies BODY MORE THAN HAVING A REALLY CUTE FACE. I was wondering cuz I was told a while back by a guy that if you have a pretty face you basically have NOTHING.
IS THIS TRUE!?

2007-11-19 08:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this close friend who can't seem to be faithful to anyone. She cheated on her husband and had another boyfriend while they were engaged. She is divorced now and has been seeing this awesome guy (who she now lives with) for about 18 months and she cheats on him everytime he leaves town. Is it possible she is suffering from some sort of psychological disorder? She doesn't feel any remorse unless she gets caught. I keep telling her to get help, but is there any?

2007-11-19 08:14:39 · 37 answers · asked by Vwgirl18 4 in Singles & Dating

I've known a girl for about 7 years. A few years ago, she knew I liked her, but she didn't like me and nothing happened. In between, I went out with one of her friends, and she went out with one of mine. Both relationships ended about a year ago. I recently moved away, and she came to visit me for lunch. I ended up playing around and kissed her, she kissed back, and then we kissed for about 20 minutes! After, she said that she enjoyed it, but needed time to think about things. I said to her after that she should come and see me again and see what happens, or never talk about what happened again! I haven't really heard from her, is there something I could say without making anything bad?

2007-11-19 08:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by ralf_ny65rj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks for all of the answers to my earlier questions. I have started going to counciling and have recently found out that my husband has been keeping tabs on me. He has a calendar and writes down everything that I do or don't do. He has even gone as far as to go through the bathroom trash to see if I'm on my period or not. It's really starting to scare me. He has gotten more controlling and has started cursing at the kids more. He even used the f**k work toward our 4 year old. I really need some good advice how to handle this. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-11-19 08:10:51 · 32 answers · asked by Very Blessed!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for almost a year now and he never talks about any of his exes. it's not that i care about that that much, but he had never told me "i went out with this girl".. the only thing close to it he ever mentioned is: "youre so special and you re not like the others who were WH****.. and of course i never asked him about anyone... idk its just awkward. what does it mean??

2007-11-19 08:08:23 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 10 months, he’s my first sexual partner and he’s been with 2 other girls. I’m thinking it’ll be easier if we both get tested for STD’s incase in the throws of passion we don't have any condoms plus in the end the cost add up (we use a lot) or we don’t have them on hand so have to skip and it’s just easier in general without.

Last time we met (a week ago), again didn’t have any condoms and ended up having sex without, that has been the only time we haven't used protection and we’ve had unprotected oral quite a few times (please save the lecture, I already know and i'll get tested anyway). He’s used protection in the past and doesn’t have symptoms but I still wanna get tested otherwise I’m gonna be paranoid even though it’s really unlikely.

How do go about asking him, I’m REALLY worried he’s gonna be offended and take it the wrong way?!

2007-11-19 08:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 08:07:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went with my boyfriend to the stripjoint the other night and I felt like I was being cheated on when he was gettin boobs rubbed in his face. Should I feel this way or am I over reacting??

2007-11-19 08:07:08 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And why?

Please, no remarks about how you should save yourself for marriage because you'll be happier in the long run and blah blah blah, I just want answers.

2007-11-19 08:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating