Well I have a long drug out storey about how I met this amazing boy at my church over the summer,but i don't want to explain it all so you ge the short version. His name is Bud I met him at my church I ended up going on a white water rafting trip with the other kids in my youth group. Me and Bud got extremely close and we were gonna hang out and stuff but we kinda just stopped talking one day. I see him every week, but he never wants to talk to me. His other two best friends still talk to me all the time, but he never does. I somtimes kind of try, but everyweek I just want to cry because at church and youthgroup he never talks to me. I really still want to be his friend and for somereason he wants nothing to do with me. I have cried at least once a week about this for the longest time. Don't tell me to get ovr it, try and help me figure out how I can get us to be friends. I am sooooo depressed right now. Plzzz help! thanx!
♥Jes♥
2007-11-19 08:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you already gave up the pantie-draws, you can kiss him bye bye...sorry
2007-11-19 08:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Girlie, First of all congratulations for your new life,Its wonderful that you are out of it now ,Be strong.
now lets work on the problem,
Talking, communicating is the only solution to the problem you are facing.
If he is not ready to talk to you then wright him a latter, or mail.
you said two of his good Friends still talk to you, talk to them about him, send him a massage through them.I think some kind of misunderstanding is going on, try to clear it, But if he continues to give hard time, ignores you, then leave him alone,
ignore him, don't talk about him to anyone, if u guys see each other pretend that u don't know him, don't let emotions control you, control your emotions,make new good Friends, look happy & be happy, get involved with new things, just be happening,
Groom yourself into a smart, strong, intelactual personality, he 'll come to like bee a comes to honey, nector. Then do what ever you want to do.
take care
good luck
2007-11-19 17:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by the catalyst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened that you stopped talking to each other?
Just go up and talk to him. If he ignores you, ask him what's going on. Tell him you miss your friendship and want to know what happened. If you were close, he should value your opinion. Just be honest with him; if he blows you off, you're not in a different spot than you are now, but at least you tried.
2007-11-19 16:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you get the short answer, You never had a geniunly close relationship, so your hoping for more then this relationship can give you. Call it an f'in reality check, next time actually get close, instead of just thinking "your close". Because guess what?!?!? YOU FAILED THE CLOSENESS TEST!!! Because your not comfrontable enough to talk honestly with him about your feelings.....
2007-11-19 16:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's not ready for something more serious. Guys are weird that way. Don't take it personally. I'm sure he will eventually come around and start talking to you again. Good luck.
2007-11-19 16:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him and carry on a good conversation, if he says he has to go he wants nothing to do with you. If he don't just ask him why he hasn't been takling to you and tell him how you feel about him.
BEST of LUCK
Rachael
2007-11-19 18:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be really shy all of a sudden and or it maybe that he maybe *gulp* dont cry cuz im trying not to make you.
Its That He Dosen't Want You anymore or he likes another girl
2007-11-19 16:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by EliteKool 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he got what he wanted and he's moving on.
2007-11-20 12:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by cloned247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋