we've been together for almost a year now and he never talks about any of his exes. it's not that i care about that that much, but he had never told me "i went out with this girl".. the only thing close to it he ever mentioned is: "youre so special and you re not like the others who were WH****.. and of course i never asked him about anyone... idk its just awkward. what does it mean??
2007-11-19 08:08:23 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be very proud that he dont talk about them ........... he seems to have respect for you which is a good thing ...... now us woman we are more talkers and we seem to not understand this
2007-11-19 08:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by LOULOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had the same problem but the complete opposite. I am dating this guy and I would always end up mentioning one of my exes. He finally told me one day that he didn't like it and wished I'd stop. So I did and he was so happy that I never mentioned them again. I don't think there is anything wrong or suspicious about your boyfriend not talking about his past girlfriends. If the topic ever arose and you were directly asking him about his past relationships and he avoided the Q THEN I would worry about it, but I think it's a good thing that he doesn't just randomly talk about his exes. It probably means that he's over those ex-girlfriends and ready to move on. I wasn't completely over my ex, so therefore I would mention him to my recent boyfriend SO, I think it's a good sign your boyfriend doesn't talk about those girls. Hope I was helpful! Good Luck!
2007-11-19 08:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by SportzChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is into you. You should be very happy because that shows a sign of respect too. Why would you want him to discuss those other females? It is not awkward. What would be strange is if he talked about them all the time. I( would question that). Since he does not, that means that the past is the past. He is looking toward the future. What he did with those other girls, does not compare to what he is doing with you. You are greater than them. Be proud that he has chosen you. Thank GOD because a good man like that is really hard to find. I hope you both have a wonderfuland productive relationship.
2007-11-19 08:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is focused on you. Maybe he didn't have good relationships in the past and doesn't want to stir up the bad emotions.
Respect the man for the good relationship he is in with you and enjoy.
He may also be concerned that he would be judged for mistakes or asked why he doesn't do that now or what went wrong.
Enjoy your relationship the way it is if you are happy.
2007-11-19 08:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by berns63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he respects you and your feelings and doesnt' care to bring up the past. Lucky you and good for him. No sense in living in the past. He must really enjoy you. He also might have been hurt pretty bad in the past and it is too painful to talk about for him. Don't stress the little things.
2007-11-19 08:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider it a blessing that he doesn't talk about them. It means he's moved on and doesn't feel the need to bring them up all the time. You don't want to be with someone that's constantly talking about his past women...trust me, enjoy that extreme instead of the other!!
2007-11-19 08:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Josie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry its better if the spotlight it on you not his exes. It probaly means he's way to into you to go into past relationships. Or he's just really touchy and maybe the girl in his last relationship was a jerk or something.
2007-11-19 08:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing! Consider yourself lucky that your man isn't stuck on any of his exes and has to talk about them all the time! He's over them and that's that. There's no need to talk about any of them with him because they do not pertain to your relationship. It's fine, it's a good thing.
2007-11-19 08:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's moved on from his past and he's had some painful lessons he's learned. If you're smart, you won't press the matter.
Most girls complain and get upset when a guy talks about past flames. Count yourself lucky.
2007-11-19 08:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
means he doesnt want to talk about it and why should u care be happy he doesnt talk about it cause some guys are like my ex so and so was so funny or something like that maybe he had bad relationships i would kill for a guy like that who didnt talk bout his exes it bothers me when my b/f says something and if u want to know ask him he will probaley tell u
2007-11-19 08:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by !=]<3Single And Proud Of It&l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like he said, he had some whores as exes.
They're obviously way worse than you.
He likes you a lot then.
So why do you care??
Perhaps he does not want to put you in the same category, b/c you are so much better.
2007-11-19 08:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋