Approaches you to get to know you,and start to say sweet things and say can i be your friend?
When you know 100% they want more then that?
Guys why dont you get straight to the point?
2007-11-19 08:36:39 · 39 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-I dont mean it in that way,Im saying as in more then friends..GOSH!!
as a *relationship*
2007-11-19 08:49:45 · update #1
because of respect, u cant just come to a lady and say:
"hey do u want to have a realtionship" no u need to have some respect
2007-11-19 15:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to find out the type of guy your talking to. Yes some men are players and want to get into your pants, but there are many nice guys who may want to get into your heart, and your mind. Don't let a good one pass you by because you choose to stereo type. Protect yourself yes, but taking a chance has a lot to be said for it. Life is to short to completely dissect everything. Maybe the player is the only thing your looking for. Take care.
2007-11-19 08:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gilly137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in St.Pete Florida,I have met alot of tourist women.All women know in the first 5 min. if they are gonna have sex with a man.The vibe is there,and if a guy can't pick up on it then he doesn't deserve the night of fun and passion.why beat around the bush.If you want it,then ask in a polite manner,cause the odds are that she wants it also,.......if she is still smiling after 3 min......................women don't come right out and say it themselves because they do not want to sound like a slut, but they think about it just as much as men do.
2007-11-19 13:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by holland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for some reason when a guy approaches a girl and says I think you're hot, I really want to sleep with you, it is highly unlikely the desired results will be achieved. So the guy, being a crafty creature, modifies his approach.
2007-11-19 08:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by 006 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I have never had a guy come up to me and ask to be my friend! Usually they are more direct...and no I don't like it. What I would prefer is an invisible force field around me to screen out all the guys that don't meet my criteria!
2007-11-19 08:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by hellnocutco 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are afraid of rejection, and rejection means no sex. So if they get in on the "friend" line, they may still have a chance. Simple mathematics.
2007-11-19 08:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by I, Sapient 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"A slap on a clean shaven face stays longer than a kiss."
"A man could get sued, or worse, arrested for 'getting straight
to the point'."
2007-11-19 08:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you hate it when a girl is so full of herself and thinks that every nice person is just trying to get in her pants. Very sterotypical of you, very...
2007-11-19 08:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
because somtimes maybe we wanna be just friends. and maybe most time we are trying to break the ice, because how akward will it be if we came up to u and said "hey baby, wanna go back to my house i have a waterbed!" lol that will get us slapped.
2007-11-19 08:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you a freak? or just be lucky a guy is even coming up to you at all. Tons of ugly girls out there that are doomed, and your hatin the game....Dont be such a baby ya freak :)
2007-11-19 08:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋