I went with my boyfriend to the stripjoint the other night and I felt like I was being cheated on when he was gettin boobs rubbed in his face. Should I feel this way or am I over reacting??
2007-11-19 08:07:08 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Why did you go with him?
2) What did you expect?
2007-11-19 08:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Why did you go with him in the first place?? What were you expecting? I've noticed these days girls like to be the best girlfriends trying to please their guys, then they end up degrading/disrespecting themselves...
You have every right to feel cheated on.
"For example, in this case, if he's sexually aroused by another woman than that is cheating. he should only feel that way towards you."
Hello Kitty Kat, I agree with you completey. A lot of people have different views on cheating, yours is right.
So it is cheating really! Just because he didn't go behind your back doesn't mean it wasn't. He should ONLY have eyes for you, and if he really loved you he wouldn't want other women's boobs rubbing his face!!
I would be VERY mad, but I wouldn't have been in that situation in the first place nor would I have taken it! So you are partly to blame.
2007-11-19 15:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say your over reacting. If your in a serious relationship w/ your boyfriend I dont really think its a good idea for him or you to go to places like that especially together. This will make him feel like your comfortable w/ things like that and he'll think its ok and maybe take it further than just a stripjoint next time. So I suggest you sit down w/ him...have a serious talk about it see where his head is at. Hope this helps!
2007-11-19 08:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by CJANDME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have gone with him if you couldn't handle it. You were in a strip club!!! What did you think was going to happen? The girls have to try and make money. Believe it or not some women go to the strip clubs with their man and have no problem. This is something you can use as a enhancement for your sex life. Grow up!! Don't go if you can't handle it. You should have taken him home and ut your boobs in his face. Remember he is a man! What were you going to tell him , ok we are going to a strip club but you can't look. Give me a break!!
2007-11-19 08:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you guys went to the strip joint should not make you feel that way especially since you went with him. Now the fact that it went as far as him getting boobs rubbed in his face yea I can understand feeling that way. If he was anything of a man he should have had respect and said can you please not do that. That's just my opinion, hope it helped.
2007-11-19 08:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by *TiNkSteR <3's *him* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you went with him and allowed him to go that you shouldn't be mad at him. I can understand feeling jealous or whatever from seeing boobs rubbed on him, but the only way you could be mad is if he went and you were against it.
2007-11-19 08:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tinkerbell77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at your boyfriend for going to a strip joint with you. Though you can be mad that you didn't get boobs rubbed all in your face too.
2007-11-19 08:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Devon R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were with him, so no. Even if you weren't, I wouldn't consider it cheating.
What's more important is to see how often he goes there and how much money he wastes there.
Most guys go to strip clubs once in a while or at some point in their lives. But the guys I've met who spend a great deal of time in the strip clubs tend to have unrealistic, unhealthy, and warped views of women, relationships, and sex.
2007-11-19 08:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No -
OK so be mad - BUT not at him - there were no rules laid down before you went so only unwritten rules were broken.
Tell him that you don't like it and that stripjoints are out in the future - THEN you can get mad if he ever does it again.
Then again he might say "No, I wanna do strip joints "
So that leaves you to say "Me or the bimbos and don't slam the door on your way out"
2007-11-19 08:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne ahrRg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!! Don't get mad at him AT ALL!!!! The strippers put their breasts in all the guys faces-it's part of the show. Also, it's not like he snuck off there with out your knowledge-you went there with him!!! Maybe instead, you can use this erotic event to add a little spice to both of your own love life.....
2007-11-19 08:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by MUSCLES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This decision is yours and yours alone. Some women go with their men to become sexually stimulated and others would not even be caught dead in one. Some women do not feel threatened by their man going alone and others would not tolerate it. Like I said you have to be in touch with how you feel about this and decide whether you want this type of behavior from your man. I, personally, would not tolerate it because of the temptation. If he does this in front of your face, it makes one wonder what he is doing when you aren't around.
2007-11-19 08:12:06 · answer #11 · answered by ~mobabe~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋