2007-11-19 08:23:48 · 21 answers · asked by Stacye S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're gonna have to talk to him. Come up with a compromise that you can both live with, like if you want once a day and he wants once a month compromise to once a week. But make sure he understands that it's a compromise on your part.. other than that, invest in a good dildo and take care of business. Good Luck!!
2007-11-19 08:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold shower, run around the block, hit the gym.........
If he's too tired, make sure he doesn't have to deal with anything when he gets home from work, but just gets home, nice meal, relax. You do all the cooking, cleaning, kids, etc. Then in the night, he should be more energetic. Or, you do the hard work, and just let him lie there. How high is high? Most guys can go at least once a day (what's his age, and health like?). But, yeah, if he's working long hours at a demanding job, or even just traveling a lot, he will be tired, and perhaps you just gotta learn to cope with it.
2007-11-19 16:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to being a GUY !!!!
You're in the shoes of 95% of all married men !
I'd say:
1) Get a good toy
2) Try and seduce him - many men can't say no
3) Get a friend on the side ?
4) Leave him for a more compatible lover?
I'm not a big fan of #3 or #4 - but you have to do what will make it best for both of you over the long run. FOREVER is a long time to spend in an unfullfilling relationship.
Best of luck to you.
2007-11-19 16:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several ways, but the first should be to talk to your husband about it. Let him know how you feel and your needs. Try to find the middle ground. Then from there you can explore toys, etc. and any masturbatory means. If that doesn't truly work and your husband is up to it then you can open the relationship up to other people if it goes that far. Good luck.
2007-11-19 16:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we need to join a club or something. I am in the same boat and it ticks me off. There is no reason that a married woman should go to bed horney. Be a man and step up to the plate, you know?
What I do is toys, it gets old after a while though. Still hanging in there.
2007-11-19 16:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start mixing things up with him...get him excited by being very spontaneous.
Search for supplements that increase the male libido. There are several natural supplements...trust me I know...I had to start taking them to keep up with my fiance...and it was worth it!
2007-11-19 16:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you mail my wife some of that libido stuff you're tlaking about!! Because, I do know how to cope with it!!!
2007-11-19 16:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try everything to get him in the mood and if that does not work then do it yourself and let him watch. I am like this to and my husband has come to like it alot.
2007-11-19 16:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a toy, ask him if hes game, but if not you want to take care of it... I'm sure he'll be game EVERY time! LOL
2007-11-19 16:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need someone named Bob in your life (battery operated boyfriend).
2007-11-19 16:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋