Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

okay so I have a crush on a guy and vise versa. But he drinks and smokes. It doesn't bother me much but should I tell him I love him no matter what even if he is 21 and I'm 15 going on 16?

2007-11-19 13:24:07 · 7 answers · asked by jade dragon 1 in Friends

My husband's cell phone has text messages stating that he loves this person forever, times to meet and days, it says on there have a nice day, places to meet. He denies he is cheating. How can he not be when he is the only one who uses that cell phone? He must think I'm totally stupid. The proof is right there.

2007-11-19 13:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by missyblondness35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

while under the influence and with the boys, he sleeps with a stranger. It is the only time he has ever cheated and he confesses immediately to his wife. Should he be forgiven?

2007-11-19 13:19:18 · 19 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Our family lives around each other, so we are all very close (proximity wise). And my grandmother and her daughter, my aunt, have been fueding for nearly two years now. It's nothing like guns shooting or anything but they won't make up and get along. What happened was that my aunt accused my grandmother that her dog attacked her dog. From there they haven't been the friendliest of people. Does anyone know how to remedy this? It's getting on my nerves. I'm thinking about going to my aunt's house and speak with her, but I'm not certain what to say. My grandmother has actually tried to bring them to, but to no avail. Suggestions would be great! Thanks!!!

2007-11-19 13:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Bob B 2 in Family

My mom said that any older woman will tell me that all men will cheat when they reach 40 years of age . She said she will hold my hand through the tough time Im to face in 10 years so I can learn forgiveness . Is she right ? Do all men get a "40year-itch"?

2007-11-19 13:17:54 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend recently told me that one of her male friends had told her that once a girl kisses a guy, this is an automatic invitation to the "hole" as he put it. Do you agree or disagree? I personally believe that it isn't. It just takes the relationship to a different level but not necessarily a sexual one.

2007-11-19 13:13:08 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 13:12:54 · 2 answers · asked by dancetillucantnomo 1 in Family

2007-11-19 13:10:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I try to keep my wife happy, I'm not rich and we can't go out everyday of the week , but we do things together, except that it's just about always what she likes only, movies, restaurants, tv shows, etc. Even if we leave to see a movie I want to see, we end up seing something she likes! She tells me she loves me but won't make love to me, she lets me after a while, but it seems as if I was with a rubber doll! She barely moves and get "hot" she just wants to get me off and then turns around and keeps watching TV or do whatever else. If I kiss her she wipes her lips after and says it's annoying to hve her lips wet, or even turns her head sideways so I miss her lips. When asking to have sex, she makes me wait for her shows or anything else she can think off, like playing with pets, then after midnight, tells me it's too late and goes to sleep! This is going on for years. I do my best to keep her happy and even ask her if she'd like sometihing different, she doesn't even respond!

2007-11-19 13:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Camelot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It was always something else in my life: getting a job, getting to ne a pro, getting money, getting to know the world, the normal things you want until you reach that age that you start needing a partner for more than a week. I had a week of bloody dating with a man who had a 3 year old daugther and it was hell. Though the child stayed with her mom and there was no issued with parenting or of the sort, instead of dating with me, we were dating all three together. He tried to force his daughter on me before even starting to know me and see if there is any "the 2 of us" before going on the "the 3 of us" part. Pretty hell. Off the guy, because of the guy and not the child of course, though I was left with so much pain seeing what will happen to her for having a father like that. My question is, though I always felt a child is only an option, not a cumpulsory thing in life and though I am comfortable with the idea that I may never have my own, I might like a man who has a child of his own.

2007-11-19 13:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 13:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by dancetillucantnomo 1 in Family

2007-11-19 13:03:28 · 26 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent been cheated on its just a question

2007-11-19 13:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

...you like them, if you have no idea what they think..

2007-11-19 13:00:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Includes-
2 photographers
8 hours of coverage
One Bridal session in studio
One Engagement session in studio
a couple of 11x14 prints
a couple of 8x10s and 4 4x6s
all photos on cd/ proof-free
any poses

2007-11-19 12:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Weddings

2007-11-19 12:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by corrineperry2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi im in 5th grade 10 years old and my 2 best friends and i told our 2 friends Vinda and Michelle who we like and they promised not to tell and Michelle didnt tell but Vinda did.She told 1 of our friends Lei.We trusted Vinda =(.And Lei asked us not to tell Vinda cuz Vinda asked her not to tell.And whats even worst about it is she lied because after school 1 of y best friends was walking with me and she went up to Vinda knowing Vinda told Lei.She said,"Somebody told Lei who we like!'' Then Vinda said,"Yeah?'' Then my friend said,"Yeah how did she find out who told her?" Then she lied and said,"I dont know she probably already knew." That was the biggest freakin lie we ever heard!We thought mabye at least Vinda would tell her thats why she did that! But no she still lied! What do you think we should do? We cant tell her we know she told Lei because she told her not to tell us she told Lei so Lei asked us not to tell!HELP PLEASE

2007-11-19 12:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you get butterflies in your tummy or does your heart melt when you think about them or talk to them?

2007-11-19 12:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by Kim 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 12:53:57 · 33 answers · asked by SC male1958 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy's out going and he....
he touches you alot. like even when you guys sit next to each other. he likes it when you 2 listen to music together. he looks over at you and smiles. or you cacth him looking at you. he tells you about his family and personal situations. finds excuses to be with you. and he always wants you to talk to his closest friends.Does he like you?

(and btw why does he want me to talk to his friends so much)
And is he also sending a sign when he blows in my ear.

2007-11-19 12:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married since June of this year. Our marriage has been anything but smooth. I don't put all of the blame on her because I have made some bad planning. Our reason for getting married was largely based on us having a baby. We argue almost every day, and we have nothing in common. We come from totally diffrent backgrounds. I am from the big northeastern city, she grew up in a small town in the south. I', 26 and shes 19, Her parents have been married for 30 yrs, mine are divorced., and not to mention I have a meddling mother-in-law. I dont't know what todo.

2007-11-19 12:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering when i should do it!

2007-11-19 12:51:36 · 37 answers · asked by taylor w 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, im a senior and this girl is a junior, we really hit it off and we're in some classes together we didn't know eachother before but now we talk a lot and joke and occasionally flirt ;)...okay, now she like comes into my work all the time and its cool we talk and its fun to see her around, we get along well, we have alot of the same interests and personality traits, and like one time i was at a store with some guys and she was out with her girls, and she saw me and waved, her girls didn't know me but she said something to them and they smiled at me..?...but one of my guy friends said she is a partying **** and he said she gets drunk a lot and he rattled off some names of guys she's been with, now i'm a liberal guy(in rehab once for me..) but i'm not sure if i should just stay on the outside with this one and not get hurt or if i should risk it and have one helluva time with her cuz she is a lot of fun...idk? is it worth it?

and even if i did how could i ask this girl out?

2007-11-19 12:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by ginsberg68 2 in Singles & Dating

dont say a bit of both.

2007-11-19 12:49:22 · 22 answers · asked by daisy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-11-19 12:48:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 12:48:02 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like my avatar says..just wondering.... and when you respond please tell me why you feel this way... thx

2007-11-19 12:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by Just Wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 12:45:19 · 19 answers · asked by Susan29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i spoke to a guy that has known the girl im interested in for 6 years and he says that onces when she was in a relationship she started to go out with another guy, and that when shes drunk in a party she tends to u know, get close with some guy she doesnt knoww......should i stop everything or still try to go out with her

2007-11-19 12:44:21 · 1 answers · asked by John V 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my parents are always on my little sister's side. I participate in this church's youth group, and I have for over a year. So, all of the sudden, she has 'friends' that go there too, so she wants to go all the time, instead of the church she normally goes to. So, of course, she wants to go on all of the youth trips with us and everything. It won't be long until she goes all of the time. My parents don't see why I hate it so much. She acts sooo immature. They think it's "good for her to be making Christian friends", so they're suddenly on her side. It's so STUPID! She is too, she acts like she's 4 years old. We're going on a youth trip tomorrow, and so is she. It is so annoying! Don't my parents remember when they were younger with little siblings? When can they give me a break? I have 5 bros/sis, and this is the only thing I have to myself, and now it's leaving me. What do I do?

2007-11-19 12:43:27 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs. Cullen 3 in Family