just wondering when i should do it!
2007-11-19 12:51:36 · 37 answers · asked by taylor w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I lost my virginity when I was 17. I'm 20 now and I regret it because it was with someone I didn't really care about. Don't listen to any of the people on here jumping down your throat that you should wait until marriage OR the people telling you that you should just do it now. You should wait until YOU'RE ready. When YOU feel comfortable enough with yourself and your partner. When you're in a STABLE relationship and know that you can depend on the person you're with. I recommend waiting until after high school because sex can cause drama galore and high school is drama central. However, neither I nor anyone else can tell you when you should do it. You have to make the decision for yourself. Also, don't be in a rush to lose your virginity...believe me, you're not missing much!
2007-11-19 13:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by sweetchildomine87 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you have to ask when the right time to loose your viginity is then you should wait a few years, some people underestimate sex.
I lost my virginity at 16 with someone that i though i was madly in love with, we were together for a year and then broke up. It is something you can never get back.
I would wait untill im married to have sex, it is just better that way.
Good luck and if you dont take my advice then please use protection.
2007-11-19 12:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah, I lost mine almost 25 years ago. It was a good experience, but it got a *lot* better with experience & practice.
You should do it when the situation itself feels right, not on some artificial timetable, either an artificial timetable urging you to do it now just because you're some age or the other, or an equally artificial timetable urging you to wait until marriage or some equally questionable pious advice.
2007-11-19 12:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait until ur married! Its the right thing to do but if you happen to do it before make sure it is with someone special dont put an age limit on it that depreciates how special ur virginity is just make sure its right, you can never get it back.
2007-11-19 12:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should DEFO wait until YOU are ready, and don't let your guy make you feel inferior so that you feel you need to, you are capable of making your own decisions and you will definately know when you're ready, and no I haven't I'm 18...and proud to say I'm a VIRGIN =]
2007-11-19 13:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did at age 18 to the man that is now my husband however we did it before we were married but you will just know when the time is right for you... i dont beleive that you should wait for marrige but i do believe you should at least wait until you feel that it is right for you not just because all your friends have done it or cause the guy you are dating havs done it
2007-11-19 13:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by donza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Are you the virginity lost and found?
2007-11-19 12:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel like you're ready. If you're more than a little worried, you're probably not ready. If you want more guidance, there are plenty of online resources for those becoming interested in the sexuality.
2007-11-19 12:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by wetjack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did when i was 16
2007-11-19 12:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and I suggest that it really is better if you wait until you are at least 25 or married. You won't have any regrets more than likely.
2007-11-19 12:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by KKLOH 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋