How to be the perfect mistress?

Question

I'm Kinda of Mad At My BOYFRIEND. How long should I wait to call him?
He was been pulling back lately. there is another woman involved(his wife). I'm trying to get him away from her. I'm going to let her mess up other than pressuring him. I need to some advice on being the perfect mistress for now. I mess up before by demanding too much time. I got it but the kids started school. I just need to know what makes the perfect mistress?

Answer 1

The perfect mistress, of course, would be so undemanding that he could tell his wife without her feeling threatened.

But the thing is, you DO want to break up his marriage.

So there's no way you can be the perfect mistress.