My marriage (arranged) is fixed in two weeks time. I haven't met my hubby-to-be much. Should I just act passively on the wedding night. Or act bold and come out of my inhibitions?
2007-11-19 13:53:35 · 9 answers · asked by SimranSophia G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Be yourself. Bold or shy just do what you feel.
If you are bold on wedding night but usually are not that way he will come to expect you to be bold all of the time....a mask you may not be able to keep up.
2007-11-19 13:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh... My... God. Arranged? You may as well have asked your question in Shyriiwook, the language of the Wookies.
But since I tend to identify arranged marriages with the passing of ownership of property, I would say that acting bold would not be something anyone would anticipate or desire. Perhaps you are asking the wrong people.
2007-11-19 15:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by fauxquixote 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On your wedding day, be as outgoing as you feel comfortable. Remember that all the people present are there because of their regard for you, your husband and your families.
On your wedding night, be yourself. Trying to be bolder than you really are will come across as false to your new husband, and you really won't be able to sustain the charace anyhow.
2007-11-19 14:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart!
Since you are not too aquainted with your soon-to-be spouse, just take it however you want. If you feel inhibitions, take it slow. If he's making you tingle, go for it!
What matters is that you are happy. Period.
2007-11-19 14:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ste Bone 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself...I think...Wow...arranged marriage...
Women have to go through too much in this life....
2007-11-19 13:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it's YOUR day- be comfortable with yourself- or you'll unnecessarily worry aboutwhat everyone thinks of you.
You'll know how to behave yourself that night when you get there- be confortable with yourself....
congratulations
2007-11-19 14:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by **leigh** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sociable to everbody and be your self its your special day
2007-11-19 13:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by JL audio guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself
2007-11-19 14:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
BEHAVE AS A NORMAL GIRL.
2007-11-19 14:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋