Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

I have nothing againts her but i'd rather go early and shop alone. This way, i can cover all the shops i want and not have to wait for anyone. My husband is going elsewhere and will not go near the mall.

2007-11-19 17:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by lovemeorleave 1 in Family

2007-11-19 17:45:26 · 8 answers · asked by kayla b 1 in Family

To go to work.

2007-11-19 17:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my mother and little brother and sisters. I am a 16 year old mother. I was wondering if anyone knew if it was legal for me to move out of my mothers house. (I live in Missouri) I am fully capable of taking care of my daughter and myself. Which I have been, along with my 7 other brothers and sisters. I have been watching and taking care of them since I was 8 years old.(There was 3 of them when I started out all under the age of 5) My daughter and I need to get out, I have my own child to raise and I feel like I have no time for her because I am too busy raising my mothers.I need to have time for myself and daughter. School, work, housing would not be a problem. I just need to know; If I do move is it legal? And if I did move out would they take me back to my mothers house?(if she sent the police) I need to know all of this because the last thing I would want is for my daughter to be taken from me, for my mom calling me a runaway. Any information would help. Thank you.
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2007-11-19 17:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How to deal?
I've had a lot of issues with relationships. I'm single...so obviously something went wrong.
All starting with the one that died in a car wreck, the next hit me around, the next didnt give a damn about me and my son(a "man's man"), the next two guys i dated cheated on me,& got me pregnant again(i'm to blame too) abused me mentally, emotionally and sexually, after that i was alone for a year. DONE! Then I met someone else, who played me for a fool and then said he couldnt be with me because my children caused "problems with his families beliefs" (lie).
I obviously am going to have trust issues, sex issues, & more. I've reciently met someone who seems promising, he enjoys my kids, respects me and what i stand for(or dont) but as soon as i started feeling happy i kind of freaked and got paranoid. I've said nothing to him about it and have taken no further action with how i feel[vulnerable&scared]Has anyone ever felt like this? Normal?
What should i do to get through this

2007-11-19 17:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She used to be so happy until I proposed to her. She accepted but now when I talk to her some days she will just be mad at me and constantly worrying about our wedding, that it is not going to be perfect enough. It is not everyday, but sometimes she is just completely miserable and makes me feel really bad.

She knows I am not a rich man and I have a mortgage to keep up with, and says she will try and limit what she wants to spend but sometimes she just make me feel terrible about it.

She thought I was trying to get by with spending as little money as possible on our wedding which is somewhat true, the last issue was that she wanted a full meal for a hundred plus guests. Sandwiches were suggested as an alternative to save money, big mistake though.

It is still three months away and I really thought this would be a happy time,. She is not a bitter old shrew or anything, but now I am just miserable. Maybe this whole idea was a stupid mistake

2007-11-19 17:35:39 · 23 answers · asked by Wylie Dun 4 in Family

but how am i going to not do it with out being a tease?
because it has already been brought up

2007-11-19 17:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a nine month old baby girl and last friday I left her father because we got in another one of our fights and he put his hands on me. My biggest problem is that when we lived together everything was in my name the phone,electric, and the lease. I'm now trying to find a job because until now I've just been taking care of the baby & house. I only have two pairs of jeans to my name and one pair has holes in the back of them and I probally have like 5 or 6 shirts. Now you see that kinda hurts me getting a job because I have no clothes. I dont even have a drivers license and those bills I said thats in my name the phone is more than 200, Power I'm not sure of that yet and the rent is more than 500. I shut the phone up there off. Tomorrow I'm going to have the lights shut of on him. I really dont know what real question to ask I think I'm just up a creek without a pattle,ya know? I just need somebody to tell me what do you think and is there anything that can help me out there?

2007-11-19 17:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 17:30:40 · 1 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2 in Friends

2007-11-19 17:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by toshi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am planning on losing my virginity (i am 14) to whom i really love. it feels right. but idk if i am too young. and i really want to. because i love him. we both talked about if i got pregnant and he had an std test (i dont need one because i am a virgin). but did you regret it when you lost your virginity? and do you think i am rushing into it? i have been with him since 7th grade and i am in 9th grade right now.

2007-11-19 17:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says i should not complain about my nausea or other discomforts as its all part of the deal (very rudely) and says 'no big deal...we've had children too.....' I absolutely hate it as this is my first baby and I am pretty excited about it. She just wants to trivialize my feelings about my pregnancy. I husband argues with me if I try and tell him how she is behaving. I can't even stop crying and stressing as this is a weekly programme where she has to make some such stupid comment. I don't know how to handle this on my own without my husband's support (actually his anger with me!!) I think this stress and crying is surely going to affect my baby. Suggest a way out of this madness please!!

2007-11-19 17:26:57 · 29 answers · asked by The Sorceress 3 in Family

Would you be flattered (cuz the celebrity's good-looking, which implies that she thinks you're good-looking too), or would you be turned off (cuz it seems like she's only going out w/you cuz she likes the way you look)?

2007-11-19 17:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by guesswho 2 in Singles & Dating

i want a youger female for a relationship. what is a good younger age range to find a female that wants a man in his 50s?

2007-11-19 17:25:03 · 8 answers · asked by alvineram 2 in Singles & Dating

i have liked this girl for years, even before highschool and then she left in grade 8, yrs have gone by now im 17 and it is near the end of grade 12, dont know her relationship status, i have been thinking of going to her school to tell her i dont know email or #, how do i do this?

2007-11-19 17:24:57 · 2 answers · asked by Unnoticed 5 in Singles & Dating

So, I've been going out with this girl for about two weeks. We've gone on about seven dates, and I'm really happy. But she and her ex still kiss, and I'm not too thrilled about it. Is this too early to be getting jealous? If so, how long should I wait to become concerned? And if not, how do I let her know that it bothers me?

2007-11-19 17:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by greenbayfan1114 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you tell me the ratio out of 100% in society who is carrying such relations and reasons behind that.

2007-11-19 17:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is all this hard work people keep saying relationships take.

Ive never had one, but I know that everything I do is to get one.

Whatever kind of work it takes in a relationship it can't possibly be more then the ungodly amount of work it takes to find one.

2007-11-19 17:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 7- almost 8. Her father lives a few states away. Once in awhile he's come up here to spend a holiday- but she has never spent a holiday away with him or his family. This year he called yesterday and asked if she could go with him to his families for Thanksgiving- he'd come out here and get her and then take her our there for a few days and then bring her back. I said ok- and for whatever reason made the dumb mistake and told my daughter. She was more than excited. Anyways- tonight he says, "i dont think it's going to work.. why don't i just come out there and stay for thanksgiving and then she can come out here for christmas" UGH! How should I handle this? My daughter is completely crushed-

2007-11-19 17:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm inlove with this guy...weird,jerk guy. Actually he's 6yrs older. help me please!

2007-11-19 17:07:27 · 4 answers · asked by Nail.xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this 'friend' who wasn't really a friend, more of an emotionally abusive albatross, I knew her from jr high/high school, we lost touch and ran into eachother years later and rekindled our friendship, sort of. I had bad experiences with her in high school, and so I was reserved when we started being friends again, but was okay with it because it had been a long time, and people can change...
Or not! She started in on her making fun of me, passive agressive jabs at me, poking fun at my then boyfriend, other friends, occupation, field of study, etc. I bit my lip, then one day after an especially bad time with her I let it all out, told her how I felt about her behavior, about everything. I have never done that before, it was like all of my resentment toward her, even back from high school, came out. At first I was really glad, it felt really good, but now I regret it. I certainly don't want to be friends, but I wish I had not blown up. Anyone else? Should I feel bad?

2007-11-19 17:07:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime we quarrel, he don't realize that he's pushing me away. He never avoid doing those things that I hate. This makes me think of my ex-bf way back then, everytime he does things that insults me, especially my sensuality. My hubby has sexual desire that is not acceptable to me. But i know i am good in bed. I just can't afford to give him my ***.

I hate him all the more when he's reminding me of his infidelity by doing things that somehow refresh my memory of the pain it caused me.

I don't know how to make him feel that i'm beginning to bear hatred with him.

I

2007-11-19 17:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all im asking is to look at it from a realistic point of view. is someone who hided there bad personality and lied to hook a girl, then devistate and humiliate her, by playing her rite in her face, does this leave the girl ashamed and embarrased because she has been outsmarted and may feel inferior? or convincing a girl with a bf to sleep with him then dumping her and letting the bf know about it on purpose, i know these are all nasty hings and are morally inferior, but is it a sign of itellectual superiority? and he can still convince the people he screwd over to be his friend

2007-11-19 17:00:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend invited me and my daughter to the beach with her two kids (a boy & a girl). Since we just moved it was our first time at this beach.

Anyway, when one of her kids had to p℮℮, she would just take them to the back of the beach. She'd hold up a towel so they could do their little p℮℮ onto the sand & weeds. Soon my daughter had to p℮℮ too, and not knowing where the beach houses were, I did the same for her.

What do you think? Have any of you let a daughter or son p℮℮ somewhere on the beach?

2007-11-19 17:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by moonfall 1 in Family

Before anyone gets nasty, I AM not, WILL not, and HAVE not.....a friend and I were just wondering how often this really occurs. If you have please include (Non Explict) details.

2007-11-19 17:00:00 · 17 answers · asked by grace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

does that mean hes not into me???

2007-11-19 16:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jamie G 1 in Singles & Dating

What do they do that drive you nuts? Habits you find totally annoying. We always hear about all the crap men do, let's get your view point.

2007-11-19 16:55:44 · 5 answers · asked by AessaMenevrah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

...she really screwed with my head at the end, had another guy on the side (which she eventually married), played house with me when he went back to his wife, kicked me to the curb when he came back. This was 2001. In 2003 she pulled my daughters from me for 3 years when I got behind in child support. I got it caught up, but still took her moving back to my hometown and a year after I had it caught up to see them again. She tries to talk all nice to me, sometimes going off the subject of the kids (not about us) but about her family or people we know around town. I just want to SCREAM: "DON'T YOU KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME??" I can't. What do i do? I am at the end of my rope with her, but I don't want her to yank my kids again. Can't afford a lawyer before you suggest that.

2007-11-19 16:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by primalclaws1974 6 in Marriage & Divorce

now we arent friends nemore which is fine with me but i got kicked out of skool for 3 days or oss or w/e but now yesturday (monday) was my first day back and people were making fun of me b/c i had a bruise on the side of my face from the fight and they r sayin that i got my butt kicked when really the fight didnt last long enough to tell so newayz they really hurt my feelings.......i mean they werre all making fun of me and i couldnt say nething because if i did i knew i would cry i kno its stupid to cry about but i mean i just thought that these guys were my friends........and one of them is my crush that is making fun of me.....they r like "o i dont want to get beat up" and they dont say nething to my EX bff. it just really hurts my feelings.......i mean i dont even want to go to skool nemore.... i really dont! i have been trying to beg my mom to let me stay out of school but she wont let me. i just dont think i can handle another day of it. please help me!! thanx

2007-11-19 16:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by xjenniloux :] 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today I went out and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...

2007-11-19 16:52:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating