Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

So I was with my ex for 2 months at the end of last year. She dumped me which really hurt me. We became best friends after a while though. I still love her, she knows it. About a month ago I met this awesome girl online. I've visited her twice for about a week at a time. After the first time my ex/best friend got all jealous and we almost got back together. I broke up with my new gf, and then went back to her after my ex was all unsure about us. Then met new gf for the second time. We had sex and I told her I love her, which I think I do in a way. But today, its been a few days since i got back from visiting my new gf, I talked to my ex again and now we really are getting back together. So I have to dump my gf again, 2 weeks after dumping her for the same reason. I reassured her that it was over with my ex last time. I feel horrible about what im doing to my gf who I'm about to dump again. I deserve to. I really don't know how to cope with these feelings. Everything has been so conf...

2007-11-19 21:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by andy1984 1 in Singles & Dating

what is that annoys you the most of your boyfriend's deeds..... and what is that deed that makes you love him a lot..

2007-11-19 21:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by stephenschitra 1 in Friends

Sorry to repost, its just that no one can give me a good answer. hey, my gf was skinny and hot when we met, now 7 months later she is getting big. She is getting way to fat, way to fast. She is not pregnant, so don't ask. I mean, what gives women the right to just stop taking care of themselves when they find a man? I still go to the gym 3 times a week and lift. I look good. She has gone from a size 3 to a size 8!!! WTF! And then she dares ask me if she looks fat....i tell her the truth, and she gets all mad at me and cries. She used to wear sexy jeans and skirts, now all she wears is fat *** "juicy" sweat pants and sweat shirts. Am i being unfair? should i dump her? whats the deal guys?

2007-11-19 21:52:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does he mean??

2007-11-19 21:51:35 · 44 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

as you probably looked at my other questions, there is this boy who has helped me and been there 4 me when ever i needed to talk, he is a good mate and thats all really.......well......as a gift i think i should give him something to say thankyou...but i dont want him to think ' oh my god...what a crazy person' or i dont what him to think anything wrong about me....should i leave it and carry on the way things are?

2007-11-19 21:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by 1234 1 in Friends

O.k so I've been seeing this guy for like..3-4 months and he comes round to mine with his mate so we can go for a walk(all 3), We are about to come to a anarrow bit in the sidewalk as a van has parked real close so in a line - 1st goes his mate then him, then me. Then I break wind but thinking as am at the back he won't smell it, I was soo wrong never just assume things like that as it tends to make a (***) of (U) and (Me).
Anyway just as he smells it he's till walking in front of me then he's about to ask if it was his mate when he realises IT WAS ME!! Please make me feel better am absolutely dreading seeing him again!! Please help!!(It may help if you have any experiences*funny ones*


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2007-11-19 21:49:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner on purpose waited years played harmless games tested me before he said he was in love & proposed marriage to me later when he wanted to do it earlier.He says he knew all along he was in love & wanted to make me his wife.We just made out not consumated our relationship.He played games tested me.Should i wait till marriage hold out he wants to make love have kids now.Since waited years to hear he loves & proposal of marriage.Hes single in 30s powerful successful professional im in 20s professional.

Not played games tested in return here i want kids he knew it.He truly deeply loves me wants to make me his wife why wait years to say & propose marriage on purpose.He says hes late should have done it earlier not later.He wants to make love have kids now we are committed.He said he knew all along he loved me wanted to make me his wife.This doesnt involve any girl or other guy we love each other committed to marriage.Serious answers.Breaking up or therapy not options.

2007-11-19 21:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to an ex boyfriend's dad's funeral last week and even though it is ten years on I must admit he was still attractive. While we were sat chatting, (his girlfriend was there as well), his girlfriend went off to speak to some people and he started asking me about my past (not boyfriends just about my past which he already knew about anyway). He then started smoothing his hair and then when she came back he stopped doing this and then when I was talking about someone who had recently had an affair (a friend of mine) he went quiet and said he had to go outside for a cigarette and then his girlfriend decided to go with him.

I know they have had their problems in the past when he was but surely his sitting casually back with legs open etc when she was away didn't indicate flirting (he certainly wasn't leaning towards me) and did I hit a nerve when talking about an affair.

2007-11-19 21:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kate P 2 in Friends

i just want to know .... what do u say to a girl, if u like her?

2007-11-19 21:44:31 · 10 answers · asked by DeanMartin_KL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some people think that they can say things to another person that are hurtful and think that they will just take it? Especially if that other person is meant to be a friend. Why would you want to say hurtful things to a friend. Im talking about a friend of mines who this happened to. That person just kept quiet after but was very upset by the other persons comments. I told that person to speak up for themselves and let the person know that what was said was not nice. Who agrees with me?

2007-11-19 21:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by **** 7 in Friends

i loved my best friend since 2 years..... she too loved me and didnt expressed and now when i proposed her she is not accepting and telling that she want to be a best friend always..... i cant live without her i need her whole life.... please me how to make her understand my feelings.....

2007-11-19 21:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by stephenschitra 1 in Friends

2007-11-19 21:40:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made some wrong moves on my first date with an older man.This guy and I have been flirting for months and he finally asked me out on a date.The first date was great we were at his place having some cocktails and talking.We talked about the most personal stuff and I felt close to him.Before you knew it we were kiss and that led to having sex.He was very loving so it didn't seem wrong.After a few days we saw each other at work and it was cool.The problems laids with the fact that now that we have had sex where do we go from here.I don't know what his intentions are and if he wants to get to know me and maybe have a relationship or if it was just sex.If it was just sex that's cool cause I made the mistake with sleeping with him.To make matters worse I called for a bootie call and when he answered I told him what I wanted and he said he would call back but never did.So do men continue to date someone they have already slept with or do they blow them off?

2007-11-19 21:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mia 2 in Singles & Dating

So...whats a good way to tell a friend that you want some benifits from them?

2007-11-19 21:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by Mothra 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 21:38:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mates have sex wid prostitutes all the time (even the ones that have gfs) but i never join them because i want my first time to be wid a girl i truly love, but my friends think i just havent got the balls.
my last gf wasnt ready to do it and we broke up about 3 months ago....

2007-11-19 21:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His ex before me was his first serious gf. She cheated on him a year and a half ago.They split up, got back together a couple of months later and finally split about 7 months ago. I met him 2 months later. He said he was surprised byhow much he liked me & that he hadn't expected it because of recently splitting up with her, this was on our 4th time of meeting. We've now been together for 5 months, long distance. He was the one who wanted us to give it a try. He's still friends with his ex & she has a new bf, but he talks to her a lot online, and she always phones him with her problems, which seem to mainly consist of too many men being in love with her, and wanting to cheat on her current bf. I get the feeling she's trying to make herself out to be ohso desirable etc, maybe to hook him back in. He seems to really like me though, and always talks about our future, like in years time future.But could this just be that false rebound feeling?Could he still like his ex?

2007-11-19 21:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 21:31:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 21:29:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I admire a women at the place i work, she is beautifull,nice and very lady like, i mean she is miss universe material but yet she is so down to earth and has no such ego, i used to go around the booth she is working just to see her, i have no intention of telling her, it was just admiring because she is so beautifull yet so down to earth, in my heart she deserves someone way better then me and thats why i kept quiet,

But now one of my collegue told her, dammit, how the hell am i gonna see her agian ? im so embarressed. how do i see her face ? now im thinking of ways of not bumping into her..

2007-11-19 21:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband doesn't know that i know he's been going with his friends. I am not trying to offend strip club business and I think it's great for single guys. I just can't get over husband with wife willing to try different things in the bedroom still going out to strip clubs. Entertainments? I view it as re-enactment of bedroom foreplay with other people. So does that mean I can't turn on my husband anymore? He has to get turn on by other people and come home to have to me finish him off. It's too sad for me to think what I am to him. Room mate with a vagina...
I only have my intimate session with the man I vow to love and cherish forever. But i guess my husband think it's open to public. Only sex or penetration is exclusive to the marriage. Then is it cheating if wife have intimate sessions with other men, merely for entertainment? Maybe it's because he is my first boyfriend, first and only lover?

2007-11-19 21:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he was my gr8 frnd and we were really close.after 2 yrs he proposed me.i like sumoneelse so i refused.but now he is spreading dat i proposed him and much more. and this news has reached my bf.wat shud i du???????

2007-11-19 21:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by mana 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I, had been dating almost 3 years and we recently broke up. I am regretting my decision, though I know deep down it was fr the best. Any good ways to deal? This whole thing is tearing me apart

2007-11-19 21:23:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy i really really like in college!! I have a huge crush on him but it seems like hes playing some game. Im actually confused! First i always use to catch him staring at me and checking me out.(im really hot lol) Then he tried to call me like "Oi oi come here" LooL. ( hes a badboi wanab)I didnt respond him because he made me feel like his piece of meat! But then la8er onwards i talked with him everything.( he does try to talk to me but acts like a jerk so i play it cool. and then some weeks later on when i met him again he started saying "What have you done to your hair" ? I dont like your new hairstyle and colour! you look like a witch!! N i have ignored him ever since. My friend caught him flirting with other girls too. N he was like telling me to text him and i didnt. Part of me feels like he likes me because he really does give me this mix signals like he likes me too. But then he confuses me??? seriously what should i do?????? what is he doing? M i overexagurating

2007-11-19 21:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we r in the same school....
i am in 8th standard n same with him
since 2 years we are together...
i think he is doing double dating now...
today i saw him hugging a girl[putting his arm on her sholder] who was crazy about him since 2 months....
she was my enemy too because she tried that we both have a break up
he was talking and i was looking at him from the back[he didnt saw me]
then he removed his arm and said "i need to leave .... now dont come behind me.....understand....i hope u hv understood that i can/can't[i could not understand] urs......"
what to do????

2007-11-19 21:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to go home for Christmas..but I think my BF worries because when I said this before it means goodbye forever! But our relationship is strange he became like a mute after I told him I love him but I know he loves me too but he is a weirdo! lol! He is doing his compulsory military service here in Asia. I send him care packages and he is very appreciative but he doesn't know how to do because he has never hads a GF I am told. But he won't tell me what he thinks or if he minds if I go home because he acts like a mute~so what can I do just go?

2007-11-19 21:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so last night my hubbie was coughing his guts out and I was so angry at him that he didn't nip it in the bud and go to the doctors weeks ago before it got this bad, but last night when his mummy dearest suggested going to the doctors he was like "oh yes mummy you're right, please make one for me". Not only that, but when I offered to make him a concoction of homemade remedies to try and ease his cough he was having none of it but as soon as his mother offered to do the same thing, again he was like "yes mummy please make it for me". This pissed me off. Then she came into MY bedroom while I was there and watched over her son to make sure he was changing into warm clothes, she also tried to tell me what medicines I should give him even though I told her nothing worked cos i've tried them all but she told me I was wrong, like I didn't even know my own husband.
What really pissed me off was when she said "mummy's only next door just knock on the wall if you need anything" even

2007-11-19 21:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by Scampi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 21:13:14 · 17 answers · asked by BABU L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at a guys house (a friend who I've got close to recently) and he was on msn talking to a friend and he said to his friend "i'm ok, just with (my name)"
And the friend says "how is she?"
And then my friend says he's told this guy about me at uni.
The friend says "are you copping it?" meaning like are you having sex
and my friend replied "...maybe!"
I was right there, why is he doing that?

2007-11-19 21:11:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dated 3 months and have been friends for 6 months.This girl refused to be with me, but kept on calling me. I told her not to contact me anymore. Last time she called, she was crying about her exboyfriend from two years ago. I was offended by this. I shouldn't have to hear about it. I can't be friends with her but she has made me feel like i should. Well, last time she texted me. I told her flat out. "I don't want to be involved with you because I don't want to be around when you date other guys. I don't want to be a part of that". She sent me a text saying "I am not dating nor do I have any intentions of dating anyone". This was a lie because the day before she changed her myspace profile from here for friendship, to here for dating as well. Should I contact her? Should I keep doing what I am doing, which is staying away from her and refusing her contact? I don't know what to do. When I asked her why she texted me, she said "to see how you are doing". Not "lets get back together

2007-11-19 21:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating