So I was with my ex for 2 months at the end of last year. She dumped me which really hurt me. We became best friends after a while though. I still love her, she knows it. About a month ago I met this awesome girl online. I've visited her twice for about a week at a time. After the first time my ex/best friend got all jealous and we almost got back together. I broke up with my new gf, and then went back to her after my ex was all unsure about us. Then met new gf for the second time. We had sex and I told her I love her, which I think I do in a way. But today, its been a few days since i got back from visiting my new gf, I talked to my ex again and now we really are getting back together. So I have to dump my gf again, 2 weeks after dumping her for the same reason. I reassured her that it was over with my ex last time. I feel horrible about what im doing to my gf who I'm about to dump again. I deserve to. I really don't know how to cope with these feelings. Everything has been so conf...
2007-11-19 21:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by andy1984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So I was with my ex for 2 months at the end of last year. She dumped me which really hurt me. We became best friends after a while though. I still love her, she knows it. About a month ago I met this awesome girl online. I've visited her twice for about a week at a time. After the first time my ex/best friend got all jealous and we almost got back together. I broke up with my new gf, and then went back to her after my ex was all unsure about us. Then met new gf for the second time. We had sex and I told her I love her, which I think I do in a way. But today, its been a few days since i got back from visiting my new gf, I talked to my ex again and now we really are getting back together. So I have to dump my gf again, 2 weeks after dumping her for the same reason. I reassured her that it was over with my ex last time. I feel horrible about what im doing to my gf who I'm about to dump again. I deserve to. I really don't know how to cope with these feelings. Everything has been so conf...
2007-11-19 22:14:57 · update #1
oops. what i meant to add was that my ex who i am getting back with is like my soul mate and id do anything to have another chance with her. anything.
2007-11-19 22:17:26 · update #2
make sure you really want to dump the new gf , if you think you love her how can you love your ex? ..anyways im not to sure that your ex loves you and wants to get back with you or if its ..she dont want anyone else to have you , she should be more concerned about your happiness if you two have become friends ... there is a reason you and her keep breaking up ..are you sure she really wants to be back with you ? or will it end again soon? sounds to me she dont want anyone else to have you even though down deep she dont want you , its like a power trip ..she if she can keep a hold on you ...
2007-11-19 22:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a good reason of why you are breaking it off with your ex so many times, the fact that you cant let her go is putting you entirely in her hands and it looks like she is playing with your heart.
Your new g/f sounds like she is nice, why dont you give her a go? You have tried the relationship with your ex and she only wants you because someone else does.. how long will it last when its just back to the two of you again?
It is also very unfair on the other girl to be shoving her aside everytime your ex wants you back.
It is up to you what you do of course, but your ex is totally playing with you.. I say stop seeing her when your broken up and move on from her.. she is no good!
2007-11-20 06:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not immoral,you feel this way cause your confused but take a step back and remember why they call exs our exs.
Once you and her broke up you became best friends right?
Well isnt that a good thing leave it alone,i mean i would rather have her as a bf rather then hurting this new girl that you say you love remember how you felt when you and your ex broke up? what about this other girls feelings? If your ex really is your best friend then she to will move on and still keep you as her best friend... Good Luck
2007-11-20 06:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by lamsontina2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason why you keep breaking up with the ex. Maybe you should move on to the new gf.
2007-11-20 06:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're a lost puppy following around your ex. She's jerking you around, and in turn you're jerking your girlfriend around. It's completely unfair to your girlfriend to be dating her in the first place when your heart really belongs elsewhere. Immoral? maybe not. Mean? Heartless? definately.
2007-11-20 06:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel pity for you. Just think after a week if u again start thinking that no I should stick with the 2nd one. what will happen?
2007-11-20 06:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by sobujtrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really believe your ex wants to be with you, shes just jealous and wants you to be available to her....see how it goes with your new gf.
2007-11-20 06:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by awaywiththefairies1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play childish games with people, expect to get burnt.
2007-11-20 06:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool bro!!! Hitting 2 birds w/ one stone!!! awesome!!! :)
2007-11-20 06:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by lycan_888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋