Theres this guy i really really like in college!! I have a huge crush on him but it seems like hes playing some game. Im actually confused! First i always use to catch him staring at me and checking me out.(im really hot lol) Then he tried to call me like "Oi oi come here" LooL. ( hes a badboi wanab)I didnt respond him because he made me feel like his piece of meat! But then la8er onwards i talked with him everything.( he does try to talk to me but acts like a jerk so i play it cool. and then some weeks later on when i met him again he started saying "What have you done to your hair" ? I dont like your new hairstyle and colour! you look like a witch!! N i have ignored him ever since. My friend caught him flirting with other girls too. N he was like telling me to text him and i didnt. Part of me feels like he likes me because he really does give me this mix signals like he likes me too. But then he confuses me??? seriously what should i do?????? what is he doing? M i overexagurating
2007-11-19 21:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Shall i tell him str8 forward that i like him? is it worth it?
2) Shall i ignore him and let him chase me?
3) Shall i move on?
4) Or shall i play it cool and joke/ tease him?
2007-11-19 21:21:52 · update #1
He is a really nice guy and friendly but thinks he is a "PLAYER"!!! Even his friends told me.. I really dont know wt to do? He has this kid mind but has good heart.
2007-11-19 21:29:45 · update #2
But yh what he said to me was rude and disrespectfull. But he thinks its totally normal to say that to a girl? Ladies help me out
2007-11-19 21:31:00 · update #3
move on..
2007-11-19 21:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Luken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
push up against a wall get really close then wait for him to do something, if he tries to kiss let go of him and say "gonna have to do better than that" and walk off slowly(let him watch
if he doesnt kiss ask him why he keeps sending mix signals and tell him to leave you alone (he will either leave you alone or chase you so you know he wants you or not
ta dah prob solved
2007-11-19 21:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm doesn't sound like a nice guy to me, but it seems you like the bad boy types. If that is the case and you don't see him hooking up with anyone yet, then go for it. Casually talk to him more and ask to go have fun with him.
2007-11-19 21:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by i o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See i think he needs your attention
avoid him or show "not interested "mind towards him
and even then if he approaches just say some cool words or jokes as in the 4th pt
2007-11-19 21:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Arul for U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is a jerk, and will always treat you with disrespect. He does not know how to treat a woman with respect, obviously.
2007-11-19 21:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, tell him. Don't play games, they're not worth it in the long run.
And as soon as he figures out he doesn't have to win you, the sooner he stops acting like an idiot.
2007-11-19 21:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by AliJDB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you, hes just immature about it. If you like him, tell him, but be prepared for an immature response, it could happen. Otherwise, just wait till he grows up a bit.
2007-11-19 21:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, you should choose option 1, its about friggin time a chick made the first move for once in history,
2007-11-19 21:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will get bored of you if yo do nothing, so thats out of the question. if you confront him, he might be offended or be like "uhh whatever..." so thats also out of the question. i say just keep friends with him and stuff, but dont like start a relationship UNTIL you're SURE that you truly like him and that he truly likes you. hope it all works out :)
2007-11-19 21:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by mcr_fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you should ignore him. I had tested that. If you always "pansin"them, they`re just playing on you. And you will get hurt!
2007-11-19 21:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by powerpuffbianca_07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on hes a jerk
2007-11-19 21:23:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋