We dated 3 months and have been friends for 6 months.This girl refused to be with me, but kept on calling me. I told her not to contact me anymore. Last time she called, she was crying about her exboyfriend from two years ago. I was offended by this. I shouldn't have to hear about it. I can't be friends with her but she has made me feel like i should. Well, last time she texted me. I told her flat out. "I don't want to be involved with you because I don't want to be around when you date other guys. I don't want to be a part of that". She sent me a text saying "I am not dating nor do I have any intentions of dating anyone". This was a lie because the day before she changed her myspace profile from here for friendship, to here for dating as well. Should I contact her? Should I keep doing what I am doing, which is staying away from her and refusing her contact? I don't know what to do. When I asked her why she texted me, she said "to see how you are doing". Not "lets get back together
2007-11-19 21:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She texted me a month after the exboyfriend call. I felt like this chick had no feelings and now she started a job where I work.
2007-11-19 21:11:35 · update #1
Continue doing what you're doing but on a grander scale.
Stay away from her.
When she texts you, don't return her texts.
Don't return phones calls or e-mails either.
When you see her at work, speak but don't get into a conversation with her.
She's only wants to use you until someone else comes along. And when that guy breaks her heart, she'll be right back in your face crying about her problems.
Forget her.
You can be friendly towards her but you don't have to be her friend.
2007-11-19 21:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
She knows you really care for her and right now she is looking for that only. She might also be trying to see whether you could be a solid person to depend on, but, the chances are very low. More importantly, she should show some care for your feelings also which seems tobe absent now. Hence it is better to treat her also as a friend only without getting attached as if to a girl friend. If she really wants, she will come back and treat you with respect. Or else you can move on.
All the best
2007-11-20 05:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's just looking for a guy to run too and complain about her ex. the whole changing he myspace thing doesn't mean she's looking to date specifically YOU. that just indicates since she's single now, she's looking for more than just friends online...not specifically you. you did do the right thing though. it just sounds like she wants you to listen to her problems, and she might also see you as a rebound. i wouldn't bother with her either. she sounds too emotional to be getting involved with anyone else yet. also if it has bothered you that badly about her calling and texting you, then you were right to tell her to keep you out of the situation.
2007-11-20 05:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by in2you86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shld made it clear that you do not wan to have anything to do with her. from what i see here. she is treating u as a back up. if she cannot find a partner.. you are her backup. dun reply to her msgs or call her. since she started working in your workplace.. just say a friendly hi and bye but nothing further. i feel that she is playing with your feelings. if not, sit and have a talk with her. ask her why she is doing this, is it she still can;t get over you? or she is just using u ? make it and spell it out to her.
2007-11-20 05:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be your friend only.
2007-11-20 05:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth dat you don't want to do anything with her. you can always change your cell #
2007-11-20 13:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadista na ui............ ewwwwwww.... don't be fooled by just that ..........
2007-11-20 05:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by vem vem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋