I went to an ex boyfriend's dad's funeral last week and even though it is ten years on I must admit he was still attractive. While we were sat chatting, (his girlfriend was there as well), his girlfriend went off to speak to some people and he started asking me about my past (not boyfriends just about my past which he already knew about anyway). He then started smoothing his hair and then when she came back he stopped doing this and then when I was talking about someone who had recently had an affair (a friend of mine) he went quiet and said he had to go outside for a cigarette and then his girlfriend decided to go with him.
I know they have had their problems in the past when he was but surely his sitting casually back with legs open etc when she was away didn't indicate flirting (he certainly wasn't leaning towards me) and did I hit a nerve when talking about an affair.
2007-11-19 21:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kate P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I should have pointed out that it was his stepdad who he wasn't overly close to.
2007-11-19 21:55:53 · update #1
Oh, Kate, I fear you are reading far too much into this! He was simply being friendly and courteous - as one is, at a funeral.
Sorry if this is not the answer you really wanted!
2007-11-19 22:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
His behaviour is unusual for a funeral but here are my observations...
Lots of men will behave differently in the absence of their significant others. In her absence he was open, curious and showing interest in you.
Perhaps he was just being friendly but the physical actions suggest otherwise.
Take care, if he was your friend he might do the same in your absence..
regards
Peter
2007-11-20 07:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting? dont know if he was it was VERY subtle! think you might have been reading into something that you want and reflecting that onto him. why are you bothered? it was 10 years ago, he has a girlfriend and it was his dads funeral.
hitting a nerve about an affair? maybe but thats their business.
2007-11-20 05:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wanted to get in your knickers, guessing he didn't? why not maybe he just needed a cheer up bonk.
As to legs wide open, maybe he had a hardon and that wasthe most comfortable position lol
2007-11-20 06:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You were at HIS dad's funeral
2007-11-20 05:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just catching up with the old news
2007-11-20 06:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋