Why do some people think that they can say things to another person that are hurtful and think that they will just take it? Especially if that other person is meant to be a friend. Why would you want to say hurtful things to a friend. Im talking about a friend of mines who this happened to. That person just kept quiet after but was very upset by the other persons comments. I told that person to speak up for themselves and let the person know that what was said was not nice. Who agrees with me?
2007-11-19 21:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by **** 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because they have low self esteem and try and make themselves feel better by making other people feel worse.
i wouldnt worry too much about it people like this are actually very unhappy you are better off just ignoring them. giving them attention for it will only make it worse.
2007-11-19 21:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly whoever said that toyour friend has issues.Truely the only time people do that is when they have the need to feel big by belittleing other with lower selfesteems.Tell your friend that she/he doesnt have to take that.That in fact the other person is just doing it to make themselves feel big by belittleing her/him.It happens to alot of people and my advice tell oyur friend next time it happens just to laugh and say something funny about what was said bullies hate that and when they realize they are not effecting that person anymore they tend to stop
2007-11-20 05:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by wolfettes lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend should be capable of telling each other when things feel over the boundry lines.
2007-11-20 05:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i always say whats on my mind.. but i tend to keep my mouth shut when it comes to hurting my best mates, though id always stick up for them!
2007-11-20 11:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Darlin'x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say what's on my mind.
2007-11-20 05:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by elizadushku 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋