now we arent friends nemore which is fine with me but i got kicked out of skool for 3 days or oss or w/e but now yesturday (monday) was my first day back and people were making fun of me b/c i had a bruise on the side of my face from the fight and they r sayin that i got my butt kicked when really the fight didnt last long enough to tell so newayz they really hurt my feelings.......i mean they werre all making fun of me and i couldnt say nething because if i did i knew i would cry i kno its stupid to cry about but i mean i just thought that these guys were my friends........and one of them is my crush that is making fun of me.....they r like "o i dont want to get beat up" and they dont say nething to my EX bff. it just really hurts my feelings.......i mean i dont even want to go to skool nemore.... i really dont! i have been trying to beg my mom to let me stay out of school but she wont let me. i just dont think i can handle another day of it. please help me!! thanx
2007-11-19 16:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by xjenniloux :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is hard to deal with people like this. What was the fist fight about anyways? If it was over something stupid where you blew your top and started throwing punches to 'resolve' the matter then you deserve to be ridiculed. However, if it was for something you truly believe needed to be addressed by your 'fists' then more power to you. In any event (I know you don't want to hear this) but being violent to another person isn't the way to go. Lowering yourself to "solve" matters with hurting someone makes you seem less intelligent then everyone.
Improve yourself for the better and in the future slap him around with your words. Make him stand there babbling looking like a complete idiot because he can't come up with something back. Stand proud, chin up and stare at them down the bridge of your nose. YOU can do better.
Believe in yourself and take this moment to reflect on where you are going with your life. These "****heads are not always going to be around. You on the other hand have to always live with yourself and your actions. What will they be? Where will you go? Are you really going to let these pricks ruin your time? The answer is "no".
I have always found painting and drawing something soothing to ease the pain when it surfaces. Find something that soothes you. You may find some interest in a karate class to help you with your swing OR a self defense class to prep you on defending yourself in case one of those pricks try to harm you.
If all else fails perhaps speaking with your mom about a school transfer for next semester. A fresh start for someone like you. No need to be tough, no baggage anyone knows about.. Just be you.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 17:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by typonymph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to school and laugh it off. If they say anything just come back with a funny line. Act like it's no big deal. You and bud had a tussle, and you hopefully will soon get over it. Say something like, the hardest punch was when I hit the ground, or I could see to hit her,her fist was in my eye. Just think up some funny line and, laugh it off. They will leave you alone when they see you don't care. Time passes and all will be OK.
Someday you will tell the story to your kids and make them laugh.
2007-11-19 16:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa.
well, this is what i would do.
if i got into a fist fight, and everyone was making fun of me, i would make it seem like theyre all jealous. if u still have friends then its cool, cuz who cares. but now, dress hot, look hot, act hot, and make it seem like everyone hates u cuz u are HOT! lol, and it wouldnt matter.
well, thats what my friend did. she got into a fight with her friend, and she just made it seem like it was just others being jealous.
and why are u gonna cry, yes u did get beat up, but if theyre making fun of u, just say ''yeah ***** u are scared of me" or "wow im so hurt," say it sarcasticlly aha. and well just who cares!
if u dont wanna be the bigger person, then get back at that exbff! ooh i have so many ideas its like not even funny!
if u do wanna be the bigger person, appologize
2007-11-19 17:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As so many of you young folks do you left out one important thing, your age, I have seen 10 year old children that go close to 100# but they are known as "FAT" or Obese. She took out her anger on the dog and not you, she was wrong there, did you call your Dad and tell him what happened, if nothing else you would have found out how he feels about the dog problem.
2016-05-24 07:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a child and grow up.
Don't fist fight. Take a higher road.
2007-11-19 16:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋