I Dunt know waht to do. I am 20 years old. Ive been with my girl since
she was 16, I was 17. I just never was interested in sex, it doesnt
make me want to til marriage. My gf is very sexual, physical person, and
i feel bad. It makes me upset. What can i say to her or do? I love her,
but i just don't have the feeling to do that now.
2007-11-19 15:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no that isnt.
2007-11-19 15:51:42 · update #1
Well if you're really against it and she's really not then you two need to talk and evaluate the relationship. Can your relationship survive with two completely different view points on the same subject, especially one of that nature? But also, seeing as you've been together for such a long time, this is also a very important thing to realize, that maybe it's not as big of a deal as think it is. But if you're afraid that she's straying from the relationship to satisfy her needs, then that is an entirely different problem in itself and you really do need to have a talk with her. Lucky for you, you've known her so long that you should be able to tell if she's lying to you or not. Either way, if it's bothering you this bad, you have to do something.
2007-11-19 16:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jen1690 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people have sex for the wrong reasons these days, dont be one of them, just becuase you feel bad doesnt mean something's wrong with you, people have different sex drives, i wish there were more men like you becuase most would just have sex for the heck of it, as soon as possible no matter what. keep your purity and the right time will come
2007-11-19 15:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her what you just wrote. Hopefully she'll understand.
2007-11-19 15:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by David M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wondering
did your gf ask this question in the link below?
http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsT5OEnyhaGsFZxAdK00.Uf.CxV.;_ylv=3?qid=20071119204206AAfekkh
2007-11-19 15:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go just to please her
wait for ur own marraige
so just dont give in
stay strong
2007-11-19 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋