Who feels more pressue to have sex?

Question

think about it,

If a girl graduates HS a virgin, shes modest and holy and special and amazing and should be admired.

however if a boy does it, then hes the most pathetic wast of human trash on the planet. If a boy doesn't do it by the time hes 14 then he probably never will and he will be forever branded a loser for the rest of his life.

But boyfriends pressure girls into sex.

WHY DO YOU THINK WE DO BECAUSE WE PRESSURE EACH OTHER INTO GETTING PUSSY.

Answer 1

Wow, what an interesting point... I think its society, that pressures everyone to do so.. We all see it in the media, etc and it could also be peer pressure as well.....

Answer 2

It's not that if a guy is a virgin he is pathetic, it is a little out of the ordinary though. People may think that if a guy hasn't had sex that it's because no one will have sex with him. But that may not be the case. Some guys actually have morals and just like girls, want to wait until the perfect partner or the perfect moment, and some probably want to wait until marrige. What ever the reason, it should be respected.

Answer 3

maybe its because with some women guys can tell if they are a virgin or not (not with all women)
but then men if they are no longer virgins before they graduate HS no one will ever actually unless they love to blurt it out to everyone
maybe it is because guys pressure each other about being virgins
which i think that guys should be prized as much as girls for being virgins
besides it makes the event more exciting when both male and female are virgins

Answer 4

Peer pressure is always tough to deal with, especially when it comes to sex. Some teenagers decide to have sexual relationships because their friends think sex is cool. Others feel pressured by the person they are dating. Still others find it easier to give in and have sex than to try to explain why not. Some teenagers get caught up in the romantic feelings and believe having sex is the best way they can prove or demonstrate their love.

Some things to think about before peer pressure makes the decision for you:

* Not every person your age is having sex. Even if sometimes it feels like everyone is "doing it," it is important to realize that this is not true. People often talk about sex in a casual manner, but this doesn't mean they are actually having sex.

* Hollywood doesn't show the full story. Sexual situations are everywhere in our culture. They are on television, in movies, and even in commercials and magazines. This is part of the reason why we enjoy these things so much. Just remember: characters in these movies, television shows, and advertisements are actors and actresses. They can't get unwanted pregnancies and STDs. You can.

* There are lots of great reasons why people wait to have sex. You may be making plans to go to college or to start a job after you finish high school. Consider, would a baby in your life make it easier or tougher for you to do the things you've dreamed about? Wanting to avoid STDs is another reason that some people are very cautious about becoming sexually active.

Knowing how you feel about yourself is the first big step in handling peer pressure. It's OK to want to enjoy your teen years and all the fun times that can be had. It's OK to respect yourself and your personal beliefs enough to say, "No, I'm not ready to have sex."

Ways to Avoid Peer or Date Pressure:

* Hang out with friends who also believe that it's OK to not be ready for sex yet.
* Date several people and hang out with different groups of people.
* Go out with a group of friends rather than only your date.
* Introduce your friends to your parents.
* Invite your friends to your home.
* Always carry money for a telephone call or cab in case you feel uncomfortable.
* Stick up for your friends if they are being pressured to have sex.
* Think of what you would say in advance in case someone tries to pressure you.
* Be ready to call your mom, dad or a friend to pick you up if you need to leave a date.
* Never feel obligated to "pay someone back" with sex in return for an expensive date or gift.
* Say "no" and mean "no" if that's how you feel.

Answer 5

Girls

Answer 6

The blame lies solely in our evolved genes (and jeans)...

The human sex drive (especially in males) is a built-in, hard-wired force in our lives. Ask any dude, he'll tell ya'...

We want it bad...so bad...that it clouds our judgement, and turns normal intelligent males into frenzied rutting gorillas...

I know (I'm a dude gorilla...)

Why do you think there are close to 7 Billion people alive on the planet right now...nature doth not ask to see our marriage licenses, library passes, or student I.D. cards...

Blame it on Mother Nature, baby...

Blame it on Mother Nature...

Answer 7

Well boys should stand up for their rights to say no to sex if they want to. That is how we girls do it. Believe me, i got humilited by the whores of my school many times because I was saving myself. They even cornered me in the bathroom a couple of times. I stood my ground!

Answer 8

girls: because the obvious and guys want it and girls just want to make out. we feel pressure to not lose the guy or look like a tease

Answer 9

i think both, boys pressure the girls and the boys piers pressure them

Answer 10

there will be no real sex...when the pressure comes in between them.
What we need is pleasure not pressure.
Sex should be a combination of desire of the both parities.