this guy that we really like each other and have been tlaking a lot, wound up druinking and got frisky on the web cam, that was a week ago. he was avoidng me, so two days after i blew up about him avoidng him cussin him outin offline msgs. he still has not responded so i just sent him an apolgoy letter tellin him i love him. i must have sentr him 100 offline msgs cussin him out and pusheed the buzz button a whole bunch of times and pushed a million holloween audibles. do i seem desparate . do u think i will hear from him again?
2007-11-19 18:11:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do seem desperate...after getting frisky and then not taking for a bit you cuss him out but then tell him you love him?? You've probably freaked him out...here he is, thinking you're a girl who he's into and is probably hoping to take things further (in person, not over a webcam!!), and then when he doesn't talk to you for 2 days you freak out on him. (You don't know for sure he was avoiding you, he might have had stuff to do that didn't involve spending hours online with you) Then after 100 offline messages and a billion buzzes, you sent him a letter telling him you love him?? You've totally freaked him out and pushed him away. You sound not only desperate, but also crazy.
2007-11-19 18:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont seem desperate. You seem like you should be committed. How about instead of blowing up at him you ask him nicely "Hey, whats going on?" 100 messages cussing him out? Then you told him you love him? What the hell? Are you bipolar? Alright Freakzilla, write this down. Go to a psychiatrist, get a prescription of Valium, see a buddhist, and give up because acting like Lisa "Left-Eye" Lopez is not the answer.
2007-11-20 02:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. You had to have overwhelmed him...
You do seem a bit desperate, and I doubt you will hear from him again, if you don't chill.
Learn from this, though if you don't hear from him, and stay calmer in the future.
The thing is you don't know why he gave you the cold sholder beacuse you freaked, maybe he had a good reason, maybe not.
If you ever get it again, don't react like that; it's so counter productive.
2007-11-20 02:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? You've driven him away forever. If I were him I would be scared. Sorry, but thats what 1000 messages does to someone.
Next time, just try to calm down, and send 1-2 messages before waiting for a response.
2007-11-20 02:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gawd.
Sorry to say. But you do seem desperate. Note of advice, STAY AWAY!...
On your part, I think you already did enough. Just wait and see what he will reply. Maybe he really is busy or something cropped up that he may not use his msgr...
Though seriously, people who uses cam to get "frisky" are not normally "lover potential" quality....
So yeah.. just chill gal!!
2007-11-20 02:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by CamperBoy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dammmmmmm u do sound desperate give the dude sum room.....give him time to think abt it u jst told the guy u loved him......bt it depends do u love him as a friend or more if as a friend jst tellm him so n if not dnt bug the dude now let him think abt it and u mst prepare urself either u gonna loose him as ur friend n u better think next time before u tell a guy u love him..........he may not love u okay......
2007-11-20 02:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by teriza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you do. but that's ok, it happens. especially when you get crazy on webcam. he was probably embarrassed to confront you the next day after he sobered up and then with your constant messaging, he was like, this chick is crazy. don't worry about it. find a life that doesn't revolve around guys, you're worth more than that.
2007-11-20 02:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by J-Po 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geeez why did you do that in the first place. Yes it is desperate and I would find it a turn off but if you explained the situation I would probably forgive you and understand.
2007-11-20 02:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Closed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're desperate, demanding, disrespectful and pushy, If you did all that to me...I would change my phone number and move. It's people like you that can't walk away from people when they're fed up with you.
2007-11-20 02:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by use 2 b lost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Desperate? Yes.
Insane? Definitely.
Give up on this guy. If he has an ounce of self-respect, he'll never speak to you again.
2007-11-20 02:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋