OK, i was just sitting here after i cut my hair into a pageboy, that i am 32 yrs old suddenly and i have no clue what i am supposed to look like, clothes and attitude......well, i have an apt, a car,. a job, a longtime relationship, that;s fine, a kid i look after - that is not mine- a nest egg..but i am not a drinker or a partyer...i have no f*****g clue what i am to do now with my self........help.
2007-11-19 18:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dunno you think it's depreession, i do have it but don't feel it...i don't know....
2007-11-19 18:45:28 · update #1
I hear ya sister...I'm going through the same. Except I have no relationship...want one, just can never find the right man. I own a home, a truck, have a great job...just no luck in the man dept. I really don't even know what the hell I'm supposed to be doing! I guess just hope for the best, try to stay busy and press on. I do try to look at life this way though, do what you want, when you want, and go where ever you want, because you never know when life may be taken away from you.
2007-11-19 18:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just woke up! Congratulations!
A lot of people go through their entire lives without asking any questions about their place in the universe.
Start assessing your knowledge base and assets... try to come up with a treasure map of where you want to be a year from now, 5 years from now, 10 years..., 20 years... etc.
Life is a journey, not a destination.
If you don't like where you are at, then change things.
Go get your astrological chart done... birth chart and progressed chart... and a good interpretation.
2007-11-22 04:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it up as you go, be spontaneous, create. why do you have to follow what pattern has been set before by someone else? some pattern that may not work for you? you've cut your hair, which may symbolise a new beginning, a new chapter. get some vybe and be you. am sure you can come up with something more creative than lamenting on what to do with a new haircut(after you've already done it)
good luck
2007-11-22 04:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dar' Lene Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it - try and be 40 something and fit into society.
2007-11-22 04:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Shell ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋